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Sex sells.
It’s everywhere.
With good reason, I grant you, but its omnipresence is tiresome considering so few seem to truly understand its actual complexity.
Yes, we all know where “babies come from”.
The ‘sphere has discussed its bonding power (to a twisted point).
And the power it has over men, specifically, has often been addressed, although at a mostly surface level.
Before we go further, permit me to say:
I realize using the “number rating system” for female attractiveness is a bit gauche; I’ll employ it here for clarity at one point, regardless.
Since, let’s be honest, men (and even women) fully grasp and follow it easily.
Now, I’ll cover a few things that I believe have been far too unspoken in these parts.
1} There are two separate but equal paths to power: sex and violence. Each is given to a gender as a means to their particular ends. The promise – and judicious use – of both is crucial to success. All art and literature circle those fraternal twins in awe and obeisance for those very reasons.
2} When sex occurs, both parties think themselves conquerors. Both may be correct but one always, definitely is. Motivations to that moment matter and decide the victor, especially if there’s only one. Ideally, both are predator and prey. This, sadly, is not always the case.
3} Victory in the sexual realm has a cost. Both parties surrender something; a price is paid. Only the currency differs. Women lose value to the next man in their lives; men lose the uniqueness that the next woman offers (at the very least).
4} Casual sex is as much a ludicrous fallacy as casual violence. Both take significant, long term tolls on the mental health of the perpetrator. Dehumanization of others stems from both and dehumanizing others increases the individuals loneliness by orders of magnitude.
The following is a bit too much to make a bullet point, so I’ll try to elucidate it outside the preceding list.
I’ve a few thoughts.
I’m unsure how many sexual conquistadors would agree but I’ll posit it nonetheless.
The hottest women (≥8) are bad in bed.
They labor (or, more accurately given context, fail to labor) under the impression that their attractiveness is enough to carry them through a sexual encounter.
[NAXALT, of course]
Their belief is patently untrue.
A distant, aloof lover is no lover, at all.
I’ve found – in my comparatively limited experience to countless (online) Lotharios – ideal is sex is had with a 6-7 (an occasional 8 may be an exception).
Such women are attractive enough to generate arousal but not so hot as to feel arrogant in their desirability.
Thus, they make for eager yet appealing lovers.
Lastly, I’ll address a topic near to me:
“Crazy girls fuck best.”
Whew, boy do they.
Why is that?
They’ve so little self-worth that they’ll gladly debase themselves in any way necessary to be the victor in the sexual act.
They think themselves nothing so they believe there’s nothing to lose.
What’s the problem with that, a man may ask?
You’ll find out in short order, my friend.
I promise you.
Because, as one of the solipsistic gender:
If she thinks so lowly of herself—
You’re so far beneath her as to be underground.
80-Proof Oinomancy 