The dead end that is the “strum.”

November 25, 2025

“What strum am I supposed to be playing for this song?”

That’s the question I am most often asked while teaching, and my answer is always the same: Obsessing over a specific ‘strum’ is not useful. Instead, the real focus should be on rhythm and coordination, which are essential for musicianship.

As a beginning ukulele or guitar player, you are likely to encounter the idea that each song has a particular “strum” – and that everyone should be playing that together.

First of all, I consider the word “strum” as a verb, not a noun. When you pass your hand across the strings to make a sound, you are strumming. ‘What strum do I use?’ just sounds grammatically wrong to me and should be rephrased as ‘What strumming pattern might I use?’ But even then, there is no one answer. It depends on the song, the situation, how many others are playing, and how you want to sound.

Imposing this imaginary concept does not do the student any favors and is a distraction from real learning.

As an experienced and professional musician, I have many times expressed my view that being concerned with a “strum” is not even a thing. It’s a dead end, and it’s a waste of time.

Of course, I get pushback. At one ukulele retreat, another ukulele teacher vehemently denied this idea and supported his claim that, yes, the “strum” was indeed something and had its legitimacy. Well, of course, I suppose it is a ‘thing,’ or we wouldn’t be discussing it. But that doesn’t mean it’s legitimate and worth spending time on.

To use one of my favorite analogies: imagine a hiker on the path leading towards the summit, moving at their own pace, and, in doing so, encountering another hiker who leads them off trail onto a rogue path that looks promising but eventually leads to a dead end. That rogue path may have led to a decent view and served some temporary purpose, but it was not the same view or perspective they would have achieved by actually traveling along the official path and staying on course.

These “strums” I’m referring to are those dead ends lead by well meaning folk who themselves are starting out on the musical path, or can be found on websites where user created song versions are rewarded with extra points by having supplied a “strumming pattern.” The mere fact that any given song on these sites have multiple and conflicting versions should itself be a red flag. True, there are grains of salt in these versions, and though useful to a degree, they should be treated with a degree of skepticism. (Sometimes they don’t even get the lyrics right.)

What is important?

Rather than simply discounting this approach to learning music, allow me to supply you with the alternative – the techniques that will keep you on the musical path and away from the dead ends.

I recently asked a fellow professional working musician if he had ever, in his musical experience, started working on a song with another musician and had been asked the question, “What strum am I to use on this?” to which he readily replied, “No.” Nor have I. Ever. In my nearly 60 years of playing music, I have never, ever needed to know that.

It’s not important, and I’ll tell you why. Some songs don’t even have a ukulele on them to begin with. So how could there be a strum that the ukulele player is supposed to play? Some songs have two or three guitars on them, so how could one strum possibly inform the player of what they, as one person, should play? The answer, of course, is that there isn’t. A player strums, or rather creates a rhythmic strumming pattern based on the context: what other instruments are playing and the cumulation of all instruments at a certain time. If there is a particular rhythmic feature of the song, then of course, learn it and include it in the piece, but not as an endlessly repeating automation.

What do I need to know?

Musicians ask each other questions like: What “feel” is it? Is it a swing tune, or one in straight 8s? What’s the tempo? What style would you like it to be? This information gives enough direction that the player can listen and create their own rhythm patterns based on what is actually needed at the time. These are the skills that a player needs to spend time on and learn.

And I will add that I might play a song one way if I were to play it by myself, but if I were to be with one, two, three, or dozens more, I would certainly play it differently.

But when I do play a rhythmic pattern…

Not to add confusion, but landing on some sort of consistent rhythmic strumming pattern is a good thing, as it offers consistency and something for the other players to play with – to find their complementary parts. But one short 4 or 8-beat phrase repeated endlessly could be maddening without the occasional variation at the end of a phrase or section. And knowing how to create those variations leads us back to the musical path where we learn how to coordinate our strumming hand and create from scratch an appropriate rhythmic pattern.

The problem and the solution.

The problem this has caused within the beginner communities is that they believe there’s a template they can apply to their playing that is going to fit almost any song, every time. If one really wants to learn how to “strum,”  they need to spend time learning rhythm, learning how to simply strum down and up to a beat, and to vary their accents and their patterns. That way, they will have unlimited “strums” at their fingertips rather than having to choose from one or two. They will simply listen, synchronize to the beat, and add what is needed.

This is not hard to learn. In fact, it is easier than memorizing a pattern.

Erasing the Memory of a Beautiful Song

June 10, 2023

When did it become fashionable, or rather – when did players think it fashionable to end a beautiful musical moment with a loud bang of a drum or guitar chord?

I hear it all the time.

It makes me think of when someone reveals an intimate and personal part of themselves – and suddenly they become aware of that intimacy and want to pretend it was all a joke – so they laugh, or make fun of the other person – anything to break the spell and consequently protect themselves from being themselves.

Play your song and let me continue to feel it when you’re done.

What if – at a theater production, after every moving scene, they threw on all the house lights? It would break the spell.

And that’s what happens when you end your song with an unnecessary bang.

Thoughts? Please comment.

My New Book – Along The Musical Path

June 10, 2023

Dear readers and music lovers,

I have just released my second book of musical analogies – articles taken from this very blog – and it is available in eBook form. It is called “Along The Musical Path – Collected Stories, Analogies, and Helpful Tips For Learning Music.”

It is available at my website: https://rhanwilson.com/books-i-ve-written for a minimum donation of $4.50. (Some wonderfully generous and eager students pay more:)

It is a wonderful companion to my previous book, “All In Good Time” which is available in eBook form as well.

Please feel free to write me to ask questions about music – I am happy to respond.

Rhan Wilson

The Most Challenging Musical Quest – Part 3

November 29, 2021

In the first two parts of this series I have shared with you the various challenges I have faced in my musical and personal life, yet as challenging as they may have been, what remains to be done will perhaps be the most challenging: figuring out who I am at this moment and having the courage to be that person in front of others.

I remember a time a few years ago when I asked multi-instrumentalist Joe Craven if he ever felt awkward playing multiple instruments at the same time, as he often plays percussion with hands while “mouthing” other percussion sounds, while switching to mandolin and fiddle. By “awkward”, I meant that I, too, could do that to an extent, but had felt like I was showing off or bragging in doing so.

I clearly remember his response: “No,” followed by a gesture that indicated that that was a silly question. I don’t know why I was reluctant to display my talents, particularly considering how much time I had spent developing them. Perhaps it was an old pledge I made to myself back in High School where, after witnessing a friend’s constant bragging, I swore I would never do that, preferring others to speak highly of me rather than myself.

Joe’s words and reaction stayed with me. But there is a difference between bragging and simply “being.” I do have skills I have developed, so why not display them?

I didn’t really think of it much after speaking with Joe, but little by little, I “allowed” myself to do whatever I wanted onstage (and off.) His friendly dismissal of my question gave me permission to be my own awesome self. And that’s what we all need in life to excel, to strive, to fly free of other people’s opinions.

This makes me wonder what else I may be holding back when I perform:
Am I able to be emotionally vulnerable? Some songs need tenderness; some need power.
Am I able to have a powerful presence onstage? Superstars aren’t afraid to use the entire stage, either physically or energetically; imagine Prince, Santana, James Brown, Beyonce…

I must remember – it’s a show! We are supposed to be larger than real life! We are supposed to create an ambiance, a space where the audience can participate in a fantasy of sorts if even for a few minutes. Actors on stage are never “themselves” – they are playing a role and we buy into that for the duration of the production.

That, dear readers, is my most challenging musical quest – to be able to be bigger than I am onstage, whether it be a simple open-mic or a full blown stage show. And though I mentioned some pretty outrageous superstars, there are many more laid-back performers, too. The point is, that we – you and I – have every right to develop our uniqueness and confidently present that quality when performing, whether you are just starting out or have been doing it for years (decades) as I have.

And I have a feeling that this path never ends – we simply get on it and, step by step, advance.

Please comment if you have any thoughts about this concept. Have you felt awkward being yourself? Why? What did you do about it? Knowing we are not alone is a comfort and motivator.

Thank you.

The Most Challenging Musical Quest – Part 2

November 20, 2021

This is the 2nd part of a discussion on performing and how one might go about unlocking their ability to better connect with their emotions. In part 1, I spoke of some personal experiences that helped me to unlock barriers that were keeping me from fully connecting with my full potential. In this – Part 2 – I hope to shed some light on how we can bravely clear the path for our success.

So now that you are giving yourself permission to be artistic…

Have you ever listened to a performance or recording and felt overcome with emotion to the point of tears? Has a certain chord or tone ever reached right into your very soul and spoke to you in a way words can’t quite describe? Have you ever felt a “connection” to a singer or musician despite never having actually making their acquaintance? Perhaps something in their performance reminded you of a personal experience you once had, or had fantasized about having. You might have, after imbibing some wine or other intoxicant, allowed yourself to fully “feel” the music in a way you hadn’t before.

I feel those emotions often. It feels as if the performer is sinding out a radio signal expanding in all directions and I, tuned into that wavelength at just the right time, am receiving every bit of it. Of course, not everyone gets the same message, as some listeners are tuned into a different frequency, are not ready to receive anything at that moment, or not able to relate to the message. And that’s okay.

But it’s really important to remember that last thing I just said: “It’s okay.” Just because the listener isn’t tuned in or ready to receive your message doesn’t mean you shouldn’t send/perform it anyway.

So now it’s your time to perform…

You might wish to think of a piece of art (song, painting, etc.) as a giant mirror pointing at the listener/viewer. Depending on their mood at the moment and/or their view of life in general, they will experience your art in a way that reflects their emotional state. Some may yearn for a happy and peppy piece that helps them forget about the troubles in their world, while others seek comfort in the company of others who find value in digging in deep into their emotions and facing their demons.

I mention this because: You are not responsible for how others see your work.

Remembering this can take a load off an artist’s mind, as there is simply no way one can please everyone else. Trying to guess what type of art everyone is going to want to experience at any given time is an effort in futility. Instead, if you, the artist, can tell your story; sing the songs that move you, and emote in the way you wish to express, then you will slowly but surely attract that audience who is tuned into your wavelength and vice versa.

There is a wonderful, short article by CD Baby founder, Derek Sivers, that sums up this concept. I encourage you to read this and everything else he has written: Proudly Exclude… https://sive.rs/exclude

But what are you going to do?

As the title of this article suggests, I have found that the most challenging of my artistic quests has been to discover, and more importantly trust, what it is I have to offer.

Have you ever had an idea of something to invent, thought it wasn’t going to work, and then later seen that someone else had the same idea and made it work?

I have many times. Once, back in the 80s, I had an idea for a bass line and soon thereafter Michael Jackson came out with his hit “Bad” which featured an almost identical bass line. Another time I “invented” a trigger for a spray paint can and later saw that someone else had already produced one. Again in the 80s I thought I might cut my hair short on one side and longer on the other; my hairdresser didn’t like the idea of an asymmetrical haircut and I dropped the idea. A few years later, everyone was doing it. What these examples tell me, is that my instincts were good; I had good ideas. What I didn’t have at the time was the know-how to take them to the next level.

I needed to trust my original ideas. We need to trust our original ideas.

To sum things up so far…

Part 1 of this article was directed to the subject of giving yourself permission to be creative; after all, you can’t go about doing, or even considering doing, something if you don’t allow yourself to.

Part 2 of this article has been about realizing that other people’s advice and their reactions to your choices aren’t always helpful. (Sure, asking for feedback can be very helpful, but be careful about over-trusting another’s biases.)

The Challenge remains…

Stay tuned for Part 3 where I, hopefully, share with you my artistic challenges and perhaps together discover our unique path we can take.