Monday, April 16, 2012

So I found a note......about sex..... help

I found a note tucked between my son's bed and the wall
It was talking about wanting to have sex with his girlfriend
(who is now his ex-girlfriend. I assume the note was written before the break up)
He is in 6th grade.
The note was written by him and I assume to him- more of a scrawling, getting a thought out

I can't tell him "you are too young to be thinking such things" because - DUH! he is thinking them
I don't want to embarrass him, but feel I should address this

I am thinking I will just tell him it is perfectly normal to think such thoughts - but he is far too young to act on such things. 

What is your opinion??  Advice??? Had this happen to you w/ your kids?? What did you do??


Sunday, April 15, 2012

Sometimes you're the bat....sometimes you're the ball

Sometimes you're the bug, sometimes you are the windshield


Consider the rodeo clown- me and the bull- life......  That sums up how I have felt lately.
I slept a bunch this weekend and hope for a rebound this next week.  A survey on FB show that I am not alone in this 'funk' it seems to be going around. Maybe it is the time of year. Maybe the stars are messed up. Maybe maybe maybe........

Something to look forward to- that always helps me.  I need something to look forward to.

Photo credit : me

Friday, April 6, 2012

All heart aches hurt, no matter how old you are

My 12 yr old just got his first broken heart. His lil girlfriend broke up with him (via text).
He is so very sad.
So very crushed.
and......
He is not at home.
He is at my parent's house
(ugh)
All he wants to do is be home, I can't do that for him
Oh there will be so many more of these
Inhale.....here we go.
(4 kids---> so many heartaches to come)