From Human Relationships to Human Being Connection

Getting to Know Sherry & Lee of Relationship Reinvented

Two people standing on opposite sides of a large rooted tree in a sunlit forest, hands resting on the trunk, symbolizing true connection, grounded presence, and nervous-system-to-nervous-system aliveness.

Most people come to us because of relationships.
But what they stay for is something deeper.

We’re Sherry and Lee Patterson, co-founders of Relationship Reinvented, and our work didn’t begin with a desire to fix relationships it began with a longing to understand why connection can feel so hard even when love is present.

Where It Started

Like many, our early years shaped us through adaptation. We learned how to be attuned, capable, and outwardly “successful,” often at the cost of staying connected to ourselves. We did what worked. We survived. We achieved.

Yet beneath it all, there was a quiet disconnection a sense that something essential was missing, even when life looked good on paper.

That disconnection became our teacher.

Before this work, we followed traditional paths, careers, and expectations. But no amount of success could soothe what the nervous system had learned long ago: how to stay safe by leaving ourselves. And eventually, we could no longer ignore the truth.

You can’t create secure relationships without a secure relationship to yourself.

The Shift: From Relationship Problems to Nervous System Patterns

What changed everything was realizing that most relationship struggles aren’t communication issues or mindset problems.

They are nervous system imprints.

Patterns of abandonment, hyper-independence, people-pleasing, shutdown, or chasing connection aren’t character flaws they’re survival strategies formed long before we had choice.

This insight led us to stop asking:

“How do I fix this relationship?”

And start asking:

“What does my nervous system believe about safety, closeness, and being seen?”

That question became the foundation of our work.

What We Do at Relationship Reinvented

Through Root Camp and Connect Me to Me, we guide individuals back into relationship with themselves at the level where real change happens.

This isn’t about becoming better, more confident, or more healed versions of yourself.

It’s about:

  • Restoring nervous system safety
  • Unwinding unconscious attachment patterns
  • Reclaiming self-trust, boundaries, and presence
  • Learning how to stay with yourself in closeness, conflict, and intimacy

When someone reconnects to themselves, relationships naturally reorganize without force, fixing, or effort.

The Impact We Care About Most

Our greatest accomplishment isn’t numbers or titles.

It’s witnessing the moment someone realizes:

“I don’t need to abandon myself anymore.”

We’ve watched people experience safety in their bodies for the first time, stop chasing validation, soften long-held defenses, and begin relating from choice rather than survival.

That’s the work.
That’s the transformation.

The World We’re Here to Help Build

We envision a world where:

  • Emotional safety is valued as much as productivity
  • Leadership is regulated, not reactive
  • Relationships are rooted in presence, not trauma bonding
  • People no longer have to lose themselves to belong

Because when humans are connected to themselves, they don’t need to control, perform, or protect as much.

They can simply be.

A Note to You

If you’re here, it’s likely not because something is “wrong” with you.

It’s because your system is ready for a different way.

You don’t need to become more.
You need to come home.

And connection real connection starts there.

With you in Connection,

Lee and Sherry

Relationship Reinvented

Connection Was Never Meant to Be Intense.

It Was Meant to Be Safe.

"Two people standing on opposite sides of a large, rooted tree in a sunlit forest, with subtle glowing lines connecting their hands to the tree, symbolizing true, alive connection that brings presence, grounding, and nervous-system alignment. By Lee & Sherry, Relationship Reinvented."

So many people come to us saying something similar:

“I’ve felt connection…
but it always turns into confusion, distance, or pain.”

They’re not saying it dramatically.
They’re saying it quietly.
Often with a tired body and a guarded heart.

And for a long time, we believed the same thing the world teaches:

That intensity meant connection.
That chemistry meant compatibility.
That emotional charge meant depth.

But through lived experience not theory, not trends we discovered a quieter truth:

Intensity is what happens when the nervous system is activated.
Connection is what happens when the nervous system is safe.

This is why so many relationships feel electric in the beginning
and exhausting later.

Your body isn’t failing you.
It isn’t broken.
It isn’t “too much” or “too sensitive.”

Your body is asking for regulation, not more chemistry.

The Lie We Were Taught About Connection

Most of us were never shown what safety with aliveness looks like.

Not safety as confinement.
Not safety as silence.
But safety that allows breath, movement, and truth.

We were shown urgency.
Attachment.
Merging.
Pursuit and withdrawal.
High highs and painful lows.

So when safety with aliveness arrives,
it can feel unfamiliar even unsettling
because the nervous system learned to associate love with intensity, not freedom.

So when true connection arrives when someone is present, grounded, and alive
it can feel unfamiliar… even disorienting.

Not because it lacks depth,
but because the nervous system has been trained to confuse activation with intimacy.

Real connection feels different.

It feels:

  • Spacious
  • Grounded
  • Alive without urgency
  • Deep without collapse

It doesn’t pull you away from yourself.
It brings you home.

Why This Matters More Than Ever

When connection is built on intensity, the body stays braced. Always scanning. Always preparing for loss, conflict, or withdrawal.

When connection is built on safety, something remarkable happens:

The nervous system softens.
The breath deepens.
Presence becomes possible.

And from that place, intimacy doesn’t feel rare or fragile. It feels sustainable.

This is the difference between surviving relationships
and being nourished by them.

The Work We Do at Relationship Reinvented

This understanding is at the core of everything we do inside Relationship Reinvented.

We don’t teach people how to perform connection. We help them rebuild safety within so connection no longer feels like something to chase, manage, or fear losing.

Because when safety is restored internally, connection stops being intense… and starts being true.

🌱 If you’re noticing this distinction for the first time, you’re not late. You’re not behind. You’re not missing something everyone else figured out.

You’re right on time.

We invite you to stay here. Read more. Let your body set the pace.

And gently ask yourself:

What does my nervous system long for more right now
intensity or safety?

With you in the current,
Lee & Sherry
Relationship Reinvented

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Unwind Your Mind…

Are you ready to learn to unwind your mind… Email us [email protected] also don’t forget to put I am tired of my thinking in the subject line… and anything else you need to add.. just know you can heal this next if you have done everything else… we got you!

Sherry and Lee

Relationship Reinvented

Introducing Root Camp: Nervous System Healing for Connection and Transformation

“Root Camp is designed for those ready to commit fully to transformation space is intentionally limited so that each participant receives direct nervous-system guidance.”

"A man and woman standing on either side of a large tree in a serene forest, with their hands touching the bark as golden light flows between them, symbolizing nervous system-to-nervous system connection and deep relational healing. By Sherry & Lee, Relationship Reinvented."

by Sherry & Lee, Relationship Reinvented

“Notice what shifts for you as you read this share your insight below and begin seeing your nervous system differently.”

We want to ask you something that might feel uncomfortable but deeply necessary:

When was the last time your nervous system truly felt safe in connection?

Most programs focus on talking, analyzing, or processing but real transformation happens in the body, not the mind. Root Camp was created for those who are ready to experience nervous system-to-nervous system healing to feel what safety, presence, and steady connection really are.

Who is Root Camp for?
Root Camp is for people who are serious about transformation:

  • Those ready to stop reacting to triggers and start responding from a place of grounded awareness.
  • People who have tried therapy or traditional approaches but want felt, embodied change.
  • Individuals who are seeking deep relational insight, emotional resilience, and the ability to receive and give love without shrinking or overextending.

What is Root Camp?
Root Camp is not therapy. It’s a program designed to:

  • Retrain your nervous system to feel safe and supported.
  • Release unconscious patterns that create reactivity in relationships.
  • Expand your capacity for connection, intimacy, and emotional presence.
    What does it do?
  • By engaging with Root Camp, your nervous system learns new possibilities for safety and connection. You’ll begin to notice:
  • Where your body holds tension, guarding, or protection.
  • How old patterns of reacting can shift into conscious response.
  • What it feels like to fully receive love, attention, and care without needing to earn it.
    Ask yourself:
  • Where am I still bracing, shrinking, or avoiding connection?
  • Where do I long for presence but feel tension when it arrives?
  • What would it feel like if my nervous system could trust safety, fully and consistently?
  • Root Camp isn’t about quick fixes or surface-level techniques.
  • It’s about changing how your body experiences connection so that your relationships, your clarity, and your sense of self are transformed at the core.
    If you’re ready for this level of transformation, Root Camp offers a container where nervous system healing meets conscious relational practice. It’s for those who are willing to feel, embody, and allow themselves to experience connection in a completely new way.
    Sherry & Lee
    Relationship Reinvented

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Why We Abandon Ourselves in Relationships (And How the Nervous System Learned to Survive)

“Couple standing on either side of a large tree symbolizing nervous system healing, rooted connection, and emotional safety in relationships”

Pause for a moment before reading on.

Not to think.

Not to understand.

Just notice your body where you’re sitting.

Is there tension anywhere?

A holding?

A subtle bracing you weren’t aware of until now?

Many of us learned very early that our inner experience was too much.

Not through words but through tone, timing, withdrawal.

Through the moment your tears met impatience instead of arms.

Through the sigh that followed your anger.

Through the warmth that only arrived when you were calm, agreeable, quiet.

What did your body learn in those moments?

For many, a silent agreement formed long before language:

My feelings create problems.

My sensations disrupt connection.

And so a protocol was installed.

When something rises inside you now sadness, fear, excitement, need what happens first?

Do you feel it…or do you immediately scan the room?

You were brilliant.

Your nervous system adapted exactly as it needed to.

It learned to track others instead of yourself.

To calculate impact instead of staying with sensation.

To leave your body in order to preserve the connection you depended on to survive.

Can you sense how young that strategy is?

This isn’t a flaw.

It’s loyalty.

And it often becomes the longest relationship you’ll ever have the habit of self-abandonment.

Notice what happens in your body as you read that.

Does anything soften?

Does anything tighten?

Over time, this protocol becomes so familiar it feels like who you are.

You become fluent in others anticipating moods, managing reactions, smoothing edges while your own inner landscape grows quiet, encrypted, distant.

When was the last time you trusted a sensation without needing to justify it?

That clench in your gut that says no.

That heaviness in your chest that says this hurts.

That pull toward rest, space, or truth.

If you learned that love required manageability, what did you have to give up to stay connected?

This is how spiritual homelessness begins not as drama, but as dislocation.

You move through life competent, capable, often caring deeply for others…while feeling strangely untethered from yourself.

Anxiety, here, isn’t just worry.

It’s the vigilance of a system still scanning for danger long after the environment has changed.

Exhaustion isn’t laziness.

It’s the cost of running two systems at once:the feeling you learned to suppress, and the version of yourself designed to contain it.

What does your body recognize in these words?

From a nervous-system perspective, nothing about this is broken.

Your system learned a rule:Connection equals abandoning self.

It was the right rule once.

And now it may be the very thing keeping you from the intimacy you crave with others and with yourself.

Healing doesn’t begin by tearing this strategy apart.

It begins by meeting it.

Can you sense the protector in you that learned to disappear?

Not to shame it but to thank it?

Reconnection happens in small, truthful moments.

Letting the tears come before deciding if they’re appropriate.Saying “I need a moment” instead of overriding yourself with a yes.

Pausing long enough to ask your body not your thoughts what it’s actually asking for.

What might change if your sensations were treated as information, not interruptions?

This is the healing we do here.

Not fixing.

Not overriding.

Not thinking your way out.

But staying.

Staying with what arises.

Staying when it’s uncomfortable.

Staying long enough for your body to realize it no longer has to leave to belong.

As you read this, something may be happening quietly inside you a softening, a resistance, a memory without images, a sense of being seen without fully knowing why.

That matters.

You don’t need to name it correctly.

You don’t need to understand it.

You only need to notice it.

So we’ll leave you with this not as a task, but as an invitation:

What is your body asking for right now… if you didn’t have to explain it, justify it, or make it make sense?

If you feel moved, you’re welcome to share in the comments:

  • what you noticed in your body while reading
  • or what you’re beginning to feel ready to listen to

And if what’s stirring feels like it wants support not advice, not fixing, but presence this space exists for that too.

Connection doesn’t require self-erasure anymore you’re allowed to arrive whole.

💛 A gentle reminder as you sit with this:

There is no right response here.

No insight you need to land.

No healing you need to perform.

If something stirred, even quietly, that’s enough.

You’re welcome to take your time with this.

To step away and come back later.

To notice what your body needs next rest, space, movement, a breath, a hand on your heart.

And if you feel the pull to share, you can do so simply:

• a word

• a sensation

• or “I’m here, reading”

We’re holding this space with you not to fix, not to analyze just to stay present together.

Lee & Sherry 🤍

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“Is Your Relationship Ready for Deep Human Connection Through Root Camp?”

Transform Your Relationship Through Root Camp: Reconnect With Yourself and Your Partner for Deep Human Connection

"Two hands reaching for each other symbolizing reconnection and intimacy in Root Camp"

They came to us as a couple who had been together for over a decade, each carrying a quiet heaviness they couldn’t quite name. Their marriage was functional, yet something essential had begun to erode. During our first conversation, it became clear that unresolved wounds from their childhood patterns of disconnection, fear of being seen, and learned survival behaviors were quietly shaping how they related to each other. They spoke the same words, yet the human-to-human connection that had drawn them together felt lost.

As we began the Root Camp journey, they individually confronted the realization that love was not always safe in their early experiences. They noticed how protective habits, defenses, and unspoken expectations had quietly shaped their interactions. One of the most powerful moments came when they reflected on how their nervous systems carried these early lessons: one had learned to shrink to be accepted, the other to perform to be worthy. Seeing these patterns illuminated why their attempts at closeness often felt fragile and why arguments would spiral into old familiar triggers.

Within the Root Camp process, we did not chase solutions or quick fixes. Instead, we created a space for them to reconnect with themselves honoring the raw emotions, vulnerabilities, and unmet needs that had been quietly driving their relationship dynamics. Through deep exploration, guided practices, exercises in presence, and moments of reflection, they began to feel themselves again. This reconnection to self opened the door to a different way of relating: not reactive, not protective, but fully present as human beings.

As they continued through the Root Camp experience, a subtle yet profound shift occurred. They began to notice the spaces between words, the quiet gestures, and the unspoken reassurance in each other’s presence. The connection they felt was no longer about performance or meeting expectations it was about feeling, witnessing, understanding, and allowing. They discovered a path back to each other, a path deeply intertwined with the path back to self. Each session reinforced that intimacy is not a skill to acquire but a space to inhabit, a practice of showing up fully as human beings.

By the end of their first Root Camp journey, they were no longer just a couple trying to maintain a marriage they were two individuals learning to meet each other as human beings again, carrying the wisdom of their own growth. The fears, the defenses, and the old patterns began to loosen as they experienced connection without judgment or expectation. This is what Root Camp offers: a grounded, embodied path to reconnect not only with your partner, but with the self that makes that connection possible. For anyone ready to step into deeper intimacy, authentic presence, and transformative human connection, this is the invitation: to meet yourself fully and to meet each other with the clarity, compassion, and safety that has always been possible.

If this speaks to you, check out these testimonials.

Or, if you have been searching for this healing in relationship and connection to yourself, it is available for you now if you are ready.

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Beyond Receiving Love: How to Let Yourself Truly Be Held

In our fast-paced world, many of us have learned to give love effortlessly but struggle to receive it in return. True connection isn’t just about sharing your heart it’s about allowing yourself to be fully held, accepted, and nurtured.

Receiving love is a practice, a gentle invitation to step into vulnerability and presence. It’s not about perfection or earning affection it’s about allowing yourself to exist fully in the warmth of someone’s care.

Why We Struggle to Receive Love

Often, our past experiences shape how we accept love. Childhood wounds, unmet emotional needs, or patterns of self-blame can create invisible walls around our hearts. When these walls are in place, even the most genuine gestures of love can feel foreign or uncomfortable.

Common Barriers:

  • Fear of vulnerability: Worrying that showing your need for love might push others away.
  • Self-judgment: Feeling unworthy of care or attention.
  • Past experiences: Old heartbreaks or rejection conditioning us to protect ourselves.

Understanding these barriers is the first step toward opening your heart.

How to Let Yourself Be Held

  1. Acknowledge Your Desires: Accept that wanting love and connection is natural.
  2. Practice Self-Compassion: Be gentle with yourself when fears arise.
  3. Communicate Your Needs: Let loved ones know how they can support you.
  4. Slow Down: Take time to sit in moments of care without distraction.
  5. Trust the Process: Receiving love is a journey, not a task to complete.

By consciously practicing these steps, you allow yourself to experience the fullness of intimacy and emotional safety.

The Transformative Power of Being Held

When you let yourself be held, you give your nervous system a chance to relax, your mind to soften, and your heart to expand. This practice cultivates deeper connections, not only with others but also with yourself.

Being held is a reminder that you are worthy, that your feelings matter, and that you are never alone in your journey.

If you’re ready to explore deeper connection and emotional healing, consider joining our Human Being Connection Community, where we guide you through practices to fully receive love and create authentic relationships.

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Where Did You Learn to Receive Love?

This is a question I ask often
not because it sounds good,
but because it changes people when they really sit with it.

Where did you learn to receive love?

Most of us were taught how to give love long before we were ever taught how to receive it.
Be kind.
Be helpful.
Be strong.
Don’t ask for too much.

And for many of us, love didn’t arrive freely.
It arrived conditionally.

Love came when we behaved.
When we performed.
When we didn’t disrupt the emotional climate of the room.
When we stayed quiet about what we needed.

So we learned.

We learned to be easy to love.
We learned to anticipate others.
We learned to offer more than we asked for.

And somewhere along the way, receiving love became complicated.

Here’s the truth most people don’t name:

If love once required you to adapt, earn, or shrink, your body may still experience love as something to manage—not something to rest inside of.

This is why so many people tell me,
“I want closeness… but when it shows up, I don’t know what to do with it.”

They can give endlessly.
They can hold space beautifully.
They can be present for others.

But when love is offered without expectation
when it doesn’t come with a role to play
their system tightens.

Not because something is wrong with them.
But because their nervous system learned a different definition of love first.

Receiving love requires safety.
And safety was not always part of the original lesson.

For some, love meant unpredictability.
For others, love meant emotional responsibility far too young.
For many, love meant being needed more than being seen.

So when steady love shows up
the kind that doesn’t demand self-abandonment
it can feel unfamiliar… even threatening.

This is where I gently interrupt the story.

You don’t need to heal because you’re broken.
You don’t need to “fix” your attachment style.

You need to retrain your body to recognize what safe love feels like.

Receiving love is a skill.
A practice.
An embodied experience that can be learned later than we wish but not too late.

It begins with noticing what arises when someone shows up for you.
Without judgment.
Without immediately giving something back.

It continues by allowing yourself to be supported without explaining why you deserve it.

And slowly very slowly
your nervous system learns a new truth:

Love can be consistent.
Love can be spacious.
Love does not require you to disappear.

So I’ll ask you again this time as an invitation, not a challenge:

Where did you learn to receive love?
And are you open to learning it differently now?

Because connection isn’t built on effort alone.
It’s built when the body feels safe enough to stay.

And that…
is where real connection begins.

If this question stirred something in you, you don’t have to carry it alone.

This is the kind of work I do creating spaces where the body can slow down, where old patterns are met with curiosity instead of judgment, and where connection becomes something you experience, not just understand. Whether through conversation, guided work, or shared inquiry, I walk with people as they relearn what safe, receiving love actually feels like.

If that resonates, trust that noticing is already part of the work.

Lee & Sherry

Relationship Reinvented

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Are You Managing the Bridge, or Feeling the Water?

Are You Managing the Bridge, or Feeling the Water?

Let’s speak a simple,

vulnerable truth.

A relationship is the inherited generational patterns of old,

and it is the bridge we build between two lives.

It has a name, roles, and responsibilities.

It’s the structure of “us” that we can point to: partner, friend, family.

We’re taught to maintain this bridge:

to fix its rails,

sweep its deck,

and ensure it stands.

But too often, we become so focused on the structure am I doing my part?

are they doing theirs?

that we forget why we built it in the first place.

We end up as diligent bridge-managers,

standing on solid wood,

wondering why we feel so far apart.

True Connection is the flow the living water underneath the bridge.

It has no title,

no rulebook.

It is the unspoken understanding,

the shared silence that doesn’t feel empty,

the feeling of being deeply seen behind your role.

Connection isn’t managed; it’s felt.

It’s the difference between a thinking-based relationship where you’re following the script of what a “good partner” should do,

and a feeling-based connection,

where you’re courageously sharing what’s alive in your heart in this moment,

without agenda.

Without Self- Judgement or Judgement at all!

One is a transaction.

The other is a transmission.

So I ask you, with deep curiosity:

Which would you rather have a well-managed bridge,

or the risk and aliveness of the current?

And more importantly,

how are you right now,

in your closest ties choosing one over the other?

Are you speaking from the role, or from the feeling beneath it?

Share below. Your truth is a mirror for us all.

With you in the flow,
Lee & Sherry

Relationship Reinvented

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The Vast, Vulnerable Truth: The Difference Between Human Relationships and Human Being Connection


Allowing connection begins within yourself the first step to real human connection

By Lee Patterson, The Connectionist

I didn’t learn this from books.
I learned it in the quiet moments where something felt deeply wrong… even when everything looked “right.”

I learned it while sitting across from people who loved each other, chose each other, stayed together
yet felt unbearably alone.

I learned it inside myself.

For most of my life, I believed relationships were about effort.
Communication.
Commitment.
Doing the right things.
Saying the right words.
Fixing what was broken.

And for a long time, that seemed to work at least on the surface.

But underneath, something was missing.

There was connection… and yet there wasn’t.

The Relationship I Was Taught to Have

I was taught how to be in a relationship.

How to show up.
How to explain myself.
How to manage emotions.
How to hold things together when they felt like they were falling apart.

I was taught that love meant staying.
That commitment meant enduring.
That strength meant control.

So I learned how to relate.

I learned roles.
Patterns.
Expectations.
Rules.

And I got very good at them.

But no one ever taught me how to let another human being actually reach me.

The Moment Everything Cracked Open

The shift didn’t happen in a dramatic breakup or a single conversation.
It happened slowly in the moments where I realized I was performing connection instead of experiencing it.

I could talk about my feelings.
But I wasn’t letting anyone feel me.

I could listen.
But I wasn’t letting myself be moved.

I could stay calm.
But underneath, my nervous system was bracing guarding surviving.

That’s when I saw the truth:

A human relationship is something you manage.
A human being connection is something you allow.

And those are not the same thing.

What Most People Call “Relationship”

What we often call a relationship is a structure:

• Agreements
• Expectations
• Communication skills
• Roles we play
• Responsibilities we carry

There is nothing wrong with these.

But they live at the level of the mind.

They help us function.
They help us stay organized.
They help us avoid chaos.

They do not, on their own, create connection.

What We Rarely Experience: Human Being Connection

Human being connection happens somewhere else entirely.

It happens when your nervous system softens instead of protects.
When you don’t just hear words you feel the person.
When you don’t rush to fix, explain, or defend.

It happens when two people are present enough to be affected by one another.

No strategy.
No agenda.
No performance.

Just truth, vulnerability, and safety in the same moment.

This kind of connection cannot be forced.

It can only be met.

Why So Many Relationships Feel Lonely

Most people aren’t disconnected because they don’t care.
They’re disconnected because their bodies never learned it was safe to open.

So they relate instead of reveal.
They communicate instead of connect.
They manage instead of feel.

And they wonder why intimacy feels just out of reach.

This Is the Work I Do

I don’t teach people how to “do” relationships better.

I help them come back into their bodies.
Into emotional safety.
Into presence.

Because when you reconnect to yourself as a human being,
connection with another human stops feeling like work
and starts feeling like truth.

This is the foundation of everything we do at Relationship Reinvented.

Not fixing.
Not forcing.
Not performing.

But creating the conditions where connection can actually happen.

The Invitation

If you are tired of managing relationships…
If you are longing to feel someone instead of just relating to them…
If you sense there is a deeper truth your body already knows…

You’re not broken.

You’re just ready for something more in the truth.

And that truth begins always with the connection you allow within yourself.

Lee
The Connectionist
Relationship Reinvented

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