Saturday, May 12, 2012

May day









a couple of sunday's ago ethan was home sick from church so i went around shooting photos of some of the things i enjoy stopping to look at around the house.

of course i really love to stop and watch my kids, when they don't know it.

i have to admit that it's nice to stay home with a sick one on sunday's, sometimes.

Thursday, May 10, 2012

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Thursday, April 19, 2012

just life...


sweet friend laura had a bday couple-a weeks ago so i made her this blated cake.  i think i like this new trend of mini banners on cakes.


so tuesday i spent SEVEN hours cleaning this house.  i think it's been 3 months since i've done that but it felt good to do major cleaning.  it was big time therapy.  cleaning always makes me end up moving around furniture.  by the end of the night i had emptied out the living room furniture to the family room.  i moved the sofa and i like it much better.  now i've gotta get ian on board with new sofas for the living room...


i read this years ago and think i need to revisit it.  oh its so painful being a parent.  but worth it.


who wrote this stupid book?  JOYFUL mother?  how about JOYFUL WITCH?  i'm not reading it.


lastly i came across these seed packets at the local garden center!  a fairy meadow?  now that melted my heart cuz one of my kids loves fairies.  i couldn't help myself - i had to get them all!

Saturday, April 14, 2012

CREATIVITY










i love all things beautiful.  and creative.  i love going into those one of a kind little boutiques and finding lovely treasures.  items you know you won't find anywhere else.  something that someone made without trying to copy anyone else.  just something that they felt inspired to make as they went along.  you always get a sense of someone's style and innovative thinking when you stumble across a unique find.  i am always a sucker for all things unique.  i just have an appreciation for the time, talent, gifts, effort, and pure creativity.

for me creativity is passion.  it's also total therapy.  it's a way to express yourself and what you love in a way you can't otherwise.  i could get lost in creating little things.  anything from paper, to paint, to fabric, to food, to furniture, to gardening.  o.k. ~ so i guess i also like to create friendships.  i don't really categorize that as creativity but there is an art to relationships ~ and it's hard!  sometimes we work with our hands and imagination, sometimes with our words/feelings and heart.  the former is much easier for me!

when i think of the word "create" there's always something that pops into my head ~ a talk given by pres. uchtdorf that hit the nail on the head for me.  not all of his talk was on being creative.  in fact it was about happiness, creativity, and compassion.  it has stuck with me for years and really made me realize that creativity plays a role in my happiness.  it is a WONDERFUL message, at least to me:

http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2008/10/happiness-your-heritage?lang=eng

i have this little purple book i bought last year that i keep as my "create" ideas book.  any idea that pops into my head for a gift, party, project, gesture...i jot it down in this book so i'll remember it and make it sometime.  i use it as a visual inspiration board of my thoughts.  i have to say that "pinterest" is pretty amazing and has some lovely inspirational ideas too!

last night was enrichment.  my sweet friend put on the best night.  it was simple.  she asked us all to tell her, beforehand, the one thing we're really good at.  then she told us to bring, in a lunch bag, something that really makes us happy -  it would be like a gift exchange.  a couple of women got up and shared their one thing that they're good at - it was so inspiring for me.  they were "hey, i can try that" kind of things.  the fun part was sharing our favorite happy thing.  of course i gave dark chocolate and a cd of my fav music.   

month's ago i was hiking alongside ian who was riding his mountain bike.  he went ahead so i had time to let my head take off.  usually when i hike or run is when i ALWAYS get inspiration and ideas that pop into my head.  i like hard hikes because they help me get thru my struggles.  doing something physically hard challenges me to push myself and for some crazy reason, along the way all these creative ideas come to me;  but i also seem to be able to get clarity and answers and inspiration for my personal life and any challenges i seem to be facing.  i don't really like to hike alone but i make myself do it cuz that's when i leave the world behind and conquer the mountain ~ so to speak.  we all have things we need to work on and overcome.

anway...back to when i was hiking with ian...i realized then that getting out alone, doing a physical activity, being still, removing myself from chaos and chores and cleaning and noise (oh the noise!) is what really helps me to have that clarity that i need and to then get ideas of things that i can do and find those wins of personal happiness and clarity and satisfaction and wellness, i guess.  that whole rush of ideas and inspiration and clarity keeps me getting out.  i also find many answers to prayers as i sort out my own thoughts and problems.

i wish i was better about helping my kids to understand this too.  o.k. ~ i'm just gonna stop here cause there's a lot of things i wish i was better at.

Wednesday, April 11, 2012

birthday queen








in playing catch up i found on our other computer these photos of my friend sachia's bday back in october!  too fun not to post about.  nothing's funner than having a girls late night out with cake and a jacuzzi!  celebrating sachia was all the reason.

just for the record she wasn't flipping me off - she was telling me she wanted another beer - as you can see from the island, she'd already had 2 the first 10 minutes!  JUST KIDDING!  that's rootbeer.   and in this last photo...where to land your eyes!  i got everyone a crown - we were the princessess and she was the QUEEN

love you sachia!

Sunday, April 8, 2012

spring break

o.k. so this has nothing to do with spring break - it's just my most favorite trader joes salad


 now these are photos from our spring break.  we went to la quinta with the tylers and stayed in a rental home.  it was so great to get away and literally do nothing.  no agenda.  i didn't even get in my bathing suit once.  wasn't hot enough.  ethan and i actually were sick for some of the time - lazyness was good.  not all of these photos are in focus - but whatever.  i seriously don't care.

here i am practicing the angelina jolie pose, minus the black-front slit dress and the red lipstick and heels...








i have to stop right here...the 4 of us went out for a nice dinner one night.  the couples next to us were totally plastered and so loud.  not my most favorite photo of me but were so tired and had been laughing so much - matt was looking up all this info on his phone about lady gaga being a hermadphodite and i was dying laughing.




i love this funky tree








this little desert get-away ended up being simple, cheap, fun, low key, and memorable.  going on vacation with friends is so great!!!  well, the tylers... are more like, family.

oh...and our easter?  we drove home on easter.  stopped for lunch at "5 guys" hamburgers.  got home and had pot stickers with brownies for dinner.  watched a church video - "the 8 cow wife" - and put the kids to bed.  no going to easter church services.  no ham or roast.  no hard boiled colored eggs.  no easter egg hunt.  no easter candy.  no decorations out what-so-ever.  i told the kids that next sunday we'd celebrate easter.  i have to admit that it kinda felt good to let go and not stress over it.  kinda like not doing a Christmas card this past year.  and...i haven't washed my hair ALL week.  i'm becoming a wreck!