
The English poet Geoffrey Chaucer was believed to be the first writer to popularise the romantic myth of St. Valentine’s Day. Originally it was solely a religious observance dedicated to the martyrdom of a Christian saint, persecuted under Roman rule. However there is only a tenuous connection between the saint and romantic love. St Valentine was assumed to officiate at Christian weddings for his fellow soldiers, but this has not been proven to be historically true. It is probable that this later addition to the legend was an attempt to combine a Christian celebration with an older, pagan ceremonial event that focused upon the mating rituals of animals in early spring.
Chaucer started the tradition that we know today with his paean to romantic love. This was immortalised in a long poem entitled “The Parliament of Fowls”. At the beginning of the poem Chaucer introduces the narrator. He is an extremely earnest young scholar reading Cicero’s “Somnium Scipionis”, in a bid to acquire eternal wisdom. However he falls asleep and experiences a vivid dream.
In English poetic tradition dreams are employed as a literary device. Dream visions are utilised to encapsulate the mysterious and supernatural, and illustrate the state of suspension between the living and the dead. The dream itself acts as a kind of prophecy, to illuminate the meaning of life on Earth, and in the hereafter. In the dream, he encounters a parallel world, teeming with nature. He finds himself observing a Parliament of birds, specially assembled to deliberate over the appropriate choice of mate. The debate begins with three male eagles presenting their case for one female eagle. The eagles and other noble birds of prey are at the top of the bird hierarchy, and at the very bottom are the humble songbirds found in every garden. During the deliberations, the other birds quarrel and squabble. The cacophony eventually concludes when Nature intervenes to proclaim that every bird has a right to choose their mate.
The poem is an allegory, and the birds symbolise the social order in human civilisation. Chaucer lived during a period of rigid social roles. In the upper echelons of society it was normal for families to arrange marital unions, to maintain their high status within society. It would have been regarded as unusual to choose a spouse for oneself.
However the medieval period was also a time when codes and conventions surrounding the appropriate relations between men and women were still being established. It was the age of chivalry, a relatively new concept originating with the Christian crusades. Chivalry used to be defined as the just conduct of Knights, but it was later extended into the cultural and literary world. The literature that emerged, expanded the theme of justice and explored other virtues expected from the Knightly class. These virtues included courage, piety, honour and nobility.
In pre-Christian Europe, the dignity of women was rarely considered but the chivalric code changed that and Knights were commanded to respect “ladies”. Consequently the romantic tradition of Knights performing feats of tremendous bravery to win the hearts of ladies was born. These legends have formed the basis of romantic literature ever since, and are a staple of Valentine’s Day.
The notion that a man has to win the affections of a woman to secure marriage is unique to Christian Europe, other cultures do not practice this. It is sad that there is more cynicism about this in modern, secular Europe. Many people are unaware that without this tradition, our civilization will be rendered meaningless, but there are some of us who still seek to preserve it for our future.








