2018 has by all accounts been the worst year of my life thus far.
It started with my wife’s cancer diagnosis which then continued to throw challenges at us all the way through. Her treatment is ongoing even now with a long road ahead reaching into 2019. She is facing it so bravely, and my love for her has never been stronger.

It’s turned the lives upside down not just for us and our parents, but that of our two little ones. At 3 years and the other at just 4 months it’s been a major upheaval to the balance we had just struck in our lives.
So everything took the back burner this year. The children were both put into nursery to enable me to continue working while also caring for Ellie. Parents have been helping out with logistics so much I honestly don’t know how we would have coped without them.
It’s been an overwhelming, heart wrenching bastard of a year. But there is hope that 2019 might bring with it better things.
So confident of this are we that we actually took on a second allotment last week as a family. Not just a place that Ellie can use as therapy once she is well enough (and her plans for the space are already in progress), but also for us to extend our veg growing experiments, while trying to spend more time out doors as a family.

This year has stolen so much from us, leaving us housebound more often than not. We still managed a fair amount though all things considered, up until August when we down tooled to focus on Ellie’s treatments. But that will be discussed in a different post.
So roll on change, roll on the new year and roll on better times…















