Everybody’s got to learn sometime

Last week, Dennis called me to ask for a recipe. “I bought a couple of tins of peach slices and now I’m looking for your mother’s chicken wing recipe. You know the one. Where would I find it?”

I knew it was in Bequia somewhere. Maybe on a recipe card in the little plastic box I had inherited from my mother? But he said it wasn’t there. Quite frankly, it was a recipe we used to make so often that I could usually recite it from memory. I did still remember all the ingredients – just not the quantities. Then Dennis and I both remembered at the same time … “Wasn’t that one of the recipes you posted in your Mom’s Menu column in The Queen’s Journal?”

He went off to have a look for the bound copy of all the issues of The Journal I had received at the end of the school year. (I still have my copy, Bets and John! Although it’s a bit worse for wear, what with termites eating up what we created all those years ago!)

Shortly after, I received a photo from Dennis of what I think was the very first column I wrote, published in the February 26, 1976 issue. Not only the very first column I wrote, but also the very first time any of my writing had ever been published!

Yeah, I realize now, since having taken a number of editing courses, that the editing of this column had been rather “lite”. (Editing pun intended there in the spelling of light …) But I was very excited at the time to see my name in print! Well, not actually credited as being the writer of said column, but my friends who knew began calling me “Mom” as a result, so I did receive some exposure. Although, after rereading this now, almost 50 years later, perhaps anonymity was a good thing at the time.

I thought this would be a fun Origin Story to post explaining the beginning of my writing career. And when deciding on a title for the post, this song popped into my head immediately!

Dim Aunt Chia … a poem

Dim Aunt Chia

First you lose the words …
No, that’s not right.
First you lose the spelling,
And then you lose the words.
Words you should know,
But you call an object “thingie” instead,
When you’re at a loss.

At a loss,
Like when you can’t remember an old friend’s name,
But clearly see their face.
Then the faces begin to fade as well.

The worst is when the voices begin to fade.
The home movies were always silent,
So you can still see long-dead family and friends,
And try to remember their voices.
Try to remember those people,
Through the tears you shed while watching.

Remember a time that was kinder, gentler,
Less complicated than it is now.

Actually, first it begins by misplacing keys.
And eyeglasses.
Or walking into a room and not remembering
What you went in there to do.
So, in the end, you do five different things at once,
Until you remember the actual task you began.

Calling the cats by a wrong name,
The name of a cat long gone,
One you suddenly remember clearly,
And feel the sharp pain of loss once again,
As though it had just been yesterday.

Speaking of yesterday …
When troubles seemed so far away,
It’s amazing how the long-term memory
Is still somewhat intact.
Amazing to remember song lyrics
And lines from favourite movies
Heard and seen in your teens,
And twenties, into your thirties,
Yet you can’t remember the title of that book
You read last week …
Or what it was about.

Growing old-er was never going to be a piece of cake.
But you’ve always felt as though
There would be more time.
More time with a functioning memory.
More time to savour this one wild and precious life you’ve led.

So now, if only you could remember
What it was you were about to do …
Oh, right! You were going to
Write a poem about forgetting!

In 2025 … More Reading, More Writing, and More Promotion of Other Authors!

I seldom make New Year’s resolutions – mainly because I never, ever keep them! But this year I plan to do more reading (and better organize the books in both my personal libraries!), more writing (and publishing my own work!), and more promotion for other authors as well as for myself … as well as more promotion of just reading and writing in general!

So … who is with me? While most of this is better done in solitude, it’s always fun and encouraging to know that there are others who share my resolutions for this New Year. You may post in the comments or remain anonymous, but I hope that this will spur some of you on who require the impetus of my suggestions to accomplish some goals of your own.

After all, “misery loves company”, or rather, “safety in numbers” is the more appropriate cliche here.

Best of luck, Everyone, on fulfilling your own New Year’s resolutions!

And All the Best to the World for 2025! Continue reading →

The same old story for authors …

Recently I visited the town of Cupids in Newfoundland, the first English settlement in 1610 in what would eventually become Canada. We walked through the very impressive museum and looked at various installations, reading through all the information there. Being an eagle-eye when it comes to anything to do with books, writing and publishing, I saw this plaque:

I immediately wrote down the book information and, when we returned to St. Bride’s, I checked the library’s listings to see if I could find a copy to borrow of “The first book of poetry to be written in the New World”, and it was written not all that far from where I now live! I was in luck, because although an “original” copy of this book may be in the library’s archives, it’s not circulating, but Problematic Press had reprinted paperback copies of the poems in 2013, and I was able to borrow that edition.

The original collection of poetry was written by Robert Hayman in the neighbouring town of Harbour Grace and was first printed and published in London, England, in 1628, under the title Quodlibets, Lately Come Over from New Britaniola, Old Newfoundland.

A facsimile of the original title page, published in 1628

I tell you about this book of poetry now, because recently I heard from a friend who praised my own writing … that she had very much enjoyed reading my first novel and was planning on getting a copy of the second to read. I immediately mailed a copy to her and when she received it she wrote back to thank me. She also posted about me and the novel on her Facebook page. I thanked her for the notice and asked that she please let her friends know about my writing and books, because that’s the way many of us authors survive – through word-of-mouth recommendations from happy readers. She told me she’d do what she could, but that so few people she knows are reading books these days. By which I figured she meant “print books”, but also I know she inferred “books in general” as many people have said to me lately, “I don’t read books” or “I’m too busy to have time to read” or “I get my entertainment in other ways – TV, Netflix, Tik-Tok, other social media … ”

So I knew my friend was correct in saying what she did about people not reading. I got a little depressed, momentarily, but then began thinking about Robert Hayman’s book, which I was then reading. And it occurred to me that, even though there is an almost 400-year-spread between his publication and mine, I’m still experiencing that age-old problem authors have always had of finding readers for my books, or for any books, for that matter. The main difference though between Hayman’s time and now is that when he was writing his poetry, few people could actually read at all or could not afford to purchase copies of published books. Books weren’t read to a great extent due to illiteracy; books aren’t read today though mainly due to indifference … It’s a sad situation, either way.

So we authors just need to carry on regardless, write for the joy of writing and tell our stories the best way we can. If we sell copies of our books and find new readers along the way, so be it, and that’s lucky for us! Possibly, too, in 400 years, someone might see the benefit and need of reprinting and distributing what we are writing right now … just as what happened with Robert Hayman’s poetry.

One can always live in hope there’s an audience out there somewhere, at some time …

The Month of the Short Story

I’m just getting in under the wire with this post as May has been the month of the short story … And I would not have known this had it not been for a post by my good friend Betty Jane Hegerat with her own short story to celebrate. Here’s what Betty Jane had to say about this posting:

In this month of May, it seems particularly appropriate that we celebrate the life of Alice Munro, whose name comes first to mind when we think of short story.

I am just an echo of the thousands who were inspired by the work of Alice Munro and the level to which she raised appreciation of short story as its own art form.

So for the Month of the Short Story–a story simply because.

(For more information about Betty Jane Hegerat, please view the listing I created for her on the Authors-Readers International page.)

And, without further ado, here is my own short story contribution, Plaids and Stripes.

Plaids and Stripes

It’s time to “UP” my reading game …

Maybe this Reading Plan has come as a result of my having read a number of poorly edited novels lately on my Kindle, or because my Eng.Lit. degree from Queen’s was based on historical principles, or that I just needed some more direction to my reading choices … I don’t really know now.

But it was definitely a post on Facebook by Mike Robbins (who has been promoted previously on my A-R International list) that got me thinking in an organized direction. He said:
This week I shall mostly be in the 1930s. #readingforpleasure

That got me to thinking about the books that were popular 100 years ago, so I looked up “Bestsellers 1924” and discovered a section of Goodreads I hadn’t known existed – Most popular books published in 1924

I quickly realized that not only had I read a few of these books in the list of 15 titles, but I also owned print copies of three of them! It took a little while, but due to the fact these 100+year-old books are all now copy-free, I was able to find eBook and PDF copies of those I did not own, and I even discovered a few movies that had been based on these books.

So, here’s the list! (All links take you to the Goodreads’ listings for each title.)

The three books I own that were popular in 1924.

The three books I own that were popular in 1924.

1. The Man in the Brown Suit by Agatha Christie (eBook – I had never read this previously nor seen a TV show or movie based on it.)
2. We by Yevgeny Zamyatin (eBook – I had read this previously in a course I studied on Russian Lit.)
3. The Boxcar Children by Gertrude Chandler Warner (eBook – with illustrations)
4. Twenty Love Poems and a Song of Despair by Pablo Neruda (PDF)
5. A Passage to India by E.M. Forster (I own a copy! A good-old Penguin paperback. I studied this in university and Forster has always been one of my favourite English writers. This novel was made into a very successful movie in 1984, directed by David Lean and winning many awards. While I enjoyed the movie, I never thought it was a good as the novel!)
6. The Magic Mountain by Thomas Mann (I own a copy! A hardcover print edition from 1975, and while the dustcover looks like it’s been through the wars, the book itself survived an infestation of termites! I had studied Mann’s “Death in Venice” in a German Lit. course and bought this other novel, and read it, as a result. The book has been made into a movie, several times, but I could not find an English-subbed version.)
7. The Most Dangerous Game by Richard Connell (eBook – This book has also been made into movies, several times and even very recently, but I was able to find the first, made in 1932, which we will also watch.)
8. Poirot Investigates by Agatha Christie (eBook – I had never read this previously nor seen a TV show or movie based on it.)
9. When We Were Very Young by A.A. Milne (I own a copy! It’s part of a collection of Milne’s books, and I have read it previously.)
10. The Collected Poems of Emily Dickinson by Emily Dickinson (eBook)
11. A Hunger Artist by Franz Kafka (eBook)
12. Billy Budd by Herman Melville (eBook – I also found the 1962 movie version of this book, starring Peter Ustinov.)
13. The White Guard by Mikhail Bulgakov (eBook – I studied “The Master and Margarita” [soon to be released as a movie!] in university, but I did not read this novel. It’s controversial, and timely, as it’s set in Ukraine during the Russian Revolution. I tried to get a Russian-made TV series, but read that the Russians had changed some of the story in favour of Russia. It was made around the time that Russia was taking over the Crimea from Ukraine, so the book and series became yet more Russian propaganda. Dennis agreed with me though that it’s timely to read this novel now, and he will likely read it as well, being born of Ukrainian parents.)
14. The King of Elfland’s Daughter by Lord Dunsany (eBook)
15. So Big by Edna Ferber (eBook – I had never heard of this author nor the book previous to finding the listing here, and yet it’s the only title on this list to show up – usually at #1 – on the American bestseller lists I found for the 20s.)

So, that’s it! I have my work cut out for me … As soon as I finish reading the three – no, four! – books I already have on the go, I will begin reading these new titles in earnest!

A Come From Away comes home again!

My parents bought a cottage north of Toronto the year I was born, so my early life was comprised of weekends driving to the cottage, and entire summers spent there with my mother and younger sister, with Dad driving back-and-forth every week to work.

The highlight of those car rides of approximately 2-1/2 hours both ways was getting close to the cottage, turning that second-last curve where the road split into servicing the western and eastern cottages, past the entrance to the Nicholson cottage, to a gap in the trees, when my sister and I would vie to be first to shout out, “I see the lake!”

For the past two days, since early Wednesday morning, I have been travelling from Bequia, my winter home, back to our new house (since last September! See Half an hour later in Newfoundland) in St. Bride’s. This entailed a small plane flight from Bequia to Barbados, then a big plane flight later in the afternoon to Toronto (arriving there amidst so many people and far too much confusion – there’s a government workers’ strike going on in Canada) was like being shell-shocked, let me tell ya, after having spent the past 6 months sitting on my Bequia verandah!). I stayed in a hotel overnight and caught a mid-morning flight to St. John’s.

I had made arrangements with Wayne at Cape Shore Taxi to meet me at the airport, and we set out driving to St. Bride’s, two hours away. Wayne had some deliveries to make along the way, which was alright by me as I just took in all the lovely scenery (and COMPLETE LACK of any traffic on the Trans Canada Highway – a relief after having ridden in a shuttle bus to and from the hotel in Toronto!). There was a lot of snow still on the ground, and another snowstorm forecast for today in the St. John’s area of the peninsula, but Wayne and I both remarked at how little remaining snow there was the closer we got to St. Bride’s. And there’s none here at all. We took the Branch road into town, past the Cape St. Mary’s Ecological Reserve (closed for the season) and came towards St. Brides from the southeast. I sat up in my seat and began scanning the hills and roads in the near distance, and surprised Wayne when I shouted, “I see my house!”

And there it was, sure enough, like a beacon to me, just as the lake at our cottage had always been, heralding days and weeks and months to come of good times, relaxation, catching up with Newfoundland friends, as well as lots of reading and writing! I feel energized getting back here again!

Thanks to Dominique Hurley for creating this video set in and around St. Bride’s!

I still have yet to pick up my car (I was told the storage unit was snowed in, but I’m not so sure that’s the actual reason …) and the landline phone needs to be reconnected, although the internet was ready immediately once I’d plugged in the modem. After Wayne drove away, my first visitor was our neighbour Mike with the spare set of keys to the house. He had been looking after the place for us over the winter and had turned on the water for me this past week. On the way into town, we stopped at the Manning Convenience Store to get a few things to tide me over, so I got to say hello to Bride there. And I’ve heard from Sharon the librarian already who will come over today to say hello and bring me my mail.

I’ve had a quick look around the inside of the house already and it seems to have fared well over the winter. As everyone here has said, “You’ve got a good solid house there, so you won’t be worrying about anything happening to it with the weather.” It is, after all, over 100 years old and is still standing proud. I’ve only found a couple of dead flies on the floor and was just remarking to myself that there is not a speck of dust on anything (although perhaps I should put on my glasses and take a closer look.). Today will be a day of unpacking, putting things in their place, and taking stock of what I need to do and buy to really be able to settle in and start living here again. Dennis arrives in two weeks, so I can leave any of the heavy lifting and repairs to him – he is a property manager!

My happy place! At the kitchen table, with a full cup of coffee and computer, looking out windows to the east and west!

I had a great sleep last night after two anxious days of travel and little sleep at all (I did, however, manage to finish reading one book on my Kindle and completely read a print book during the flights) so I was wide awake by 4:30 a.m. here, listening to the wind and rain … and a sound I’d heard a few times the evening before that was like someone slamming a car door. While I was sitting in the kitchen last night, I thought someone had driven up to the back of the house and slammed their door, but there was never anyone there when I checked, so I put it down to sounds travelling over from the neighbours’ house, and I went to bed. When I heard it though at 4:30, and the sound was quite regular then, I began to think there was something in the attic (not sure if we even have one), or if it was a moose knocking up against the side of the house, because the entire house shook with every SLAM! Or … maybe, I began thinking, it was the evil fairies!!! But Patricia, who should know, tells me there’s no such thing, even though I’ve heard tell of them myself from various neighbours in St. Bride’s … So I got out of bed and very bravely came downstairs to check out what was going on, fairies or not! Besides, I had to use the facilities and they are on the main floor of the house. I quickly discovered that the slamming sound was coming from the green storm door I had forgotten to secure after opening it to get inside the house the evening before. Phew! Thank goodness, no evil fairies to contend with … yet.

By the way, lest you think I’m crazy listening to the locals and their talk of fairies, our house on Bequia is built close to what was locally know as “Jumbie Gutter” and we were told by reliable sources living on Bequia at the time, Jim and Sheena Johnston, that there was good reason for that name. They had a dog at the time named Jumbie, so they should have known, I thought. (Jumbie is the local word for ghost – “a spirit of a dead person, typically an evil one”.)

And, thanks to Calvin Manning for providing me with a new soundtrack for my life here in St. Bride’s! Have a listen to the new-to-me Newfoundland group, Rum Ragged. Just like in the video, the kettle is on for tea (or in my case coffee) and the door is always open. You’re welcome to come visit me in my happy place, even if it’s just via the internet. I’ll be here until November!

From The Mike Robbins blog: The water jump

Mike Robbins is an author I have previously promoted on my Authors-Readers International list. We had been writing to each other earlier today, talking about my new home in Newfoundland, and specifically about the history of the province. Mike directed me towards this blog post he had written in 2019, so I thought I would share the information here on my blog. It’s a fascinating story!

Thursday, 13 June 2019
The water jump

A hundred years ago today, a large biplane lumbered into the air at St John’s, Newfoundland. Sixteen hours later, the Old and the New World were much closer

It wasn’t a great year. The First World War had stopped, but no peace treaty had yet been signed; meanwhile fighting continued in much of Europe as new countries were born and quarrelled with each other. Finland was recovering from a terrible civil war; that in Russia was at its height. In Hungary, the Soviet regime of Béla Kun would hold power for five months, during which it managed to fight two of its neighbours before being destroyed by a third. In Ireland the War of Independence began. In India, British troops killed hundreds of demonstrators in the Amritsar massacre. Even if you dodged all these, you weren’t safe; a global flu pandemic was in progress. It reached every country on earth, and is thought to have killed up to 5% of the world’s population. In fact, 1919 was a bit shit.

But even in a year like that, good things can happen. Just before 4pm on Saturday, June 14, a Vickers Vimy biplane bomber taxied out for takeoff in a field at St John’s, Newfoundland.

Climbing away from Lesters Meadow

To continue reading the original blog post, click here …

Fan mail from some flounder?

Just after the New Year, I received a message from a Facebook friend saying he was planning on reading all three of my publications in their eBook format. I was tickled pink, to say the least, and told him I hoped he would enjoy them.

So, imagine my gobsmacked surprise when, less than 12 days later, I received an email from John Edwards telling me he’d already finished reading all three books! So he was following Rule #3 on this list by writing directly to me:

Here’s the message John wrote to me (spoilers redacted!):

Hi Sue,

I quite enjoyed the read.

Island in the Clouds had the two things I like in a murder mystery. First of course is a dead body early in the book. I prefer to speculate on who the killer is than speculate of who will be killed. The second thing I like is a good twist in the plot. Here the motive came as an excellent twist. Altogether an excellent read.

One Woman’s Island was a much more thoughtful read. It has me thinking about my own relationship with Bequia and the world in general. You were able to present different motives without being judgmental. This book will keep me thinking for a while.

That Last Summer, the diary of the teenage girl stuck me as a novel from the Nancy Drew and Hardy Boys era. That was until the epilogue. I then started to wonder how much of this was autobiographical. It was a nice little read after One Woman’s Island. I could, based on my own mid 60’s experiences, relate to events. It was was easy to visualize water skiing on an Ontario lake.

Thank you
John

Now, above in my into to all this, I said that John Edwards was a “Facebook friend”, which he is, because we have never yet met in person, even though: we both spend winters on Bequia (he lives next door to a good friend of ours, the other Canadian Sue); we are approximately the same age … me being the younger by about 6 months; and he keeps a boat moored in Toronto at a marina close to where I grew up in The Beach. That’s also where John spends his summers, in Canada. Funny that we’ve never met though in all these years of sharing Bequia as a winter home. Now I will make a point of meeting John, if only to be able to thank him in person for writing the above thoughts after reading my books.

So thanks, John! It really may seem like a small thing, but let me tell you … this writer is eternally grateful whenever she hears that anyone has enjoyed reading what I’ve written. This is what keeps me plugging away at the computer! And thinking up new story lines for future books.

John Edwards has a great love for snorkeling around the beautiful shores of Bequia, and has become an accomplished underwater photographer, posting many of his photos on Facebook for all of us to enjoy. He gave me permission to use this photo, although he was sorry he didn’t have a photo of a flounder.

Photo credit: John Edwards

Back on Bequia …

It’s all about Bs now for these northern hemisphere winter months:

I’m Back

on Bequia

where I’ll be Baking Bread

and dealing with stacks of Books – reading, writing, promoting myself and my writing as well as other authors and their Books, sorting the Books I have (print and electronic) and making lists of what I need to add to my collection, and compiling a reading list

and my Blogs – writing new posts, reviewing and editing the archives and content, revising how I use the Blogs to promote other authors, reading more Blogs written by friends and authors

Just some of the Books I need to resort, rearrange, and reshelve over the next 6 months …

All By the light of the silvery moon!

And then, when I return to the new house in St. Bride’s, Newfoundland, in April, I’ll be doing the same again, with the added fun of Building Bookshelves!

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