I saw this on Twitter. Four years old at least. Close to the bone. Horribly accurate. I may have to pin this post.
As Plato put it
As Plato put it: Music is a moral law. It gives a soul to the universe, wings to the mind, flight to the imagination, a charm to sadness, and life to everything. It is the essence of order, and leads to all that is good, just and beautiful, of which it is the invisible, but nevertheless dazzling, passionate, and eternal form.
Whatever the outcome of today’s general election, the lyrics of this fugue will still be true. Unfortunately.
Diaries, Sunday 11th January 2026, Parallel Lives
I’m increasingly feeling I am living several parallel lives. I think most of us, much of the time, have at least two, home and work, which to a certain extent overlap. Now, as well as going about the day to day business and practicalities of work, research, cat care, shopping etc, and the time out activities of reading, cinema and so on, there’s the increasingly loud fear that we might be on the verge of global annihilation.
Continue readingDiaries, 18th December 2025, Countdowns, Journeys and Language
It occurred to me with something of a shock that this time next week the presents will be unwrapped, the King’s Speech will have been broadcast, and I’ll have eaten whatever it is I decide to have for my Christmas meal. Today I’m thinking a Thai Green Curry could be nice, prepared in advance so the flavours have had a chance to steep and be enhanced. The shops have started to be busier, people buying in food as though for a siege. I’ve stocked up on lentils, nuts and quinoa. The green veg will be my last minute purchases. I’m not planning a traditional Christmas meal, though how long turkey and pigs in blankets have become a December staple I don’t know. I shall be buying that much maligned vegetable, sprouts. I love sprouts. I don’t understand why they are so despised. I’ve eaten them twice this week and, believe me, I’ve suffered no rampant flatulence any more than if I eat lentils. This makes me wonder if anyone does actually suffer when eating sprouts, or if it’s just a myth put out by the anti sprout brigade. we call them Brussel sprouts, though I have no idea why. Maybe some rampant anti EU people, Farage perhaps, started the slur. With lentils the key is to change the water in which they are cooked. It’s really that simple.
Anyway, the surge in shopping marks what marketing people like to call the countdown to Christmas. They like countdowns. Only now they often call them sleeps, a term I find rather twee. Celia and I, visiting cemeteries as we occasionally do, spot the headstones which say the person buried there has fallen asleep, or is resting. Recently Melanie Reid wrote a great piece in the Observer about the various euphemisms for death and dying which almost had me cheering. So many don’t die anymore, they are lost, pass away, or simply pass. Some animals (not mine) cross the rainbow bridge. Apparently the new term is to say they (people and animals) have become unalive. I’m with Melanie, when I die, please just say I’m dead. And no headstone please. A green burial with no marker. I shan’t be resting, sleeping, in another room, I’ll be returning to the earth.
Continue readingDiaries, 1st December 2025, The Trees Are Going Up All Over London
And the lights, the wreaths, the tinsel, you name it, if it’s a decoration associated with Christmas it’s on show. Yesterday marked the first Sunday in Advent. We are a fairly secular society. I am not alone in lacking religious belief although I grew up with it, so I imagine that passed many by, but Christmas as a festival at the darkest time of the year, is celebrated by those of most faiths and none. On the Christmas episode of the Dog House the other night a teenage girl in a Sikh family was surprised to learn Christmas was not an official part of her family’s faith’s festivals. There have been numerous messages on the local WhatsApp group of which I am a member from people looking for Christmas trees. Over the weekend I saw many people carrying such trees home. Surely they’ll be bald by Christmas Day? Mose people have central heating now, but even in my far off childhood when the tree was not brought in from the garden and decorated until Christmas Eve, my mother used to complain about the pine needles becoming embedded in the carpet or being tracked all over the house.
It seems really early for us to be embracing the jolly season. I know as far as commerce is concerned, Christmas starts earlier every year, but there’s normally a bit more bah humbug resistance to engaging until December has at least begun. I don’t think I have ever seen so many decorations so early in so many windows. I wondered to Octavia last night if it was our need for some joy at a time when so much seems bleak. She’s not convinced, and reckons it may just mark the next stop after Hallowe’en.
Continue readingDiaries 12th November 2025, Boots on for my Favourite Walk and a Bit of Nostalgia
I had reached the point where if I didn’t get out for a proper walk I might scream. Celia, whose knee has been uncooperative (feel free to comment Celia, I really wish you would!), has been having to rest and recuperate, rather than walking any distance. I decided I would either go to Kew, or preferably do my favourite Guildford circular via Compton. I felt confident I could do either without getting lost.
As luck would have it, my cousin Russell was free and wanted to go to a sound event at the Watts’ Chapel at Compton, so the choice was easy. The weather was wonderful. My thin fleece spent the whole day in my bag, and had there been room, my jacket would have joined it there too. We approached the top of The Mount by a slightly different route, so missed Lewis Carroll’s grave.
Below us Guildford cathedral, and my old school.


We walked along the edge of fields, fussed and were fussed over by a spaniel cross called Mimmi who, we were told, can be standoffish, and ignores dogs she thinks are ugly.
With the crops harvested, the fields were meadows of colour. I probably rhapsodised a bit too much for Russell, and irritated him by repeatedly wondering what the fluffy mauve plant was when neither he nor I knew the answer.



Down the hill, past the farm house and into the woods, before we reached the next lots of open ground where horses grazed. Before long, the roof of the Watts gallery came into view. I stood on my toes and lifted the camera above the hedge.

This was our lunch destination. By the shop and framer, the decorative pumpkins caught more eyes than mine.



We ate our food outside. Unusually I had a coffee. It was good. Then because Russell wanted to look at something else, we went round a corner where I haven’t ventured for some time, and there was a piece by Mary Branson I hadn’t seen before. I really liked it. She designed it while working as artist in residence at Watts’, a position Russell has also enjoyed.


There are mosaics designed by George Frederick Watts in St Paul’s cathedral, and Nelson Mandela had a print of his painting Hope on the wall of his cell on Robben Island. Still, as an artist, I don’t rate him very highly. I do like this quote though.

So we didn’t go into the actual Watts’ gallery space. Instead, we visited the exhibition of cartoons by The Times political cartoonist Peter Brookes. There were many we enjoyed, but I only photographed one.

While I don’t rate GF Watts very highly, I think his wife Mary was amazing. Here are a couple of pictures of the interior of the cemetery chapel she designed and decorated, working with members of the local community in Compton. One day I may yet take some pictures which do it justice.



The sound installation failed to engage me, but that may have been because there were quite a few people there, most of them chatting. Then onward we went, passing the house with the enormous garden and the equally enormous keep out hedges, down the steps into the lane which would, had we turned left, taken us back to the woods we walked through earlier, and onto Loseley.
Continue readingDiaries 3rd November 2025, Christmas is Coming, Doing my Tax Return, Television and Pets
There was someone listening to Christmas songs on the bus today. I was recovering from my first weight training class in some time. Normally I’d walk the mile or so home, but every muscle was telling me it had done something unaccustomed and it wanted to recover, so my walk was short and to the nearest bus stop.
How can it be November already? How can be getting dark already when we have around six more weeks until the shortest day? Obviously the shops have been full of Christmas merch since the kids went back to school in September, but suddenly it feels imminent. MasterB’s calendar is with the printer and I should get the copies this week. Sending them out will give me a break from my tax return. I’ve reached the point where my eyes are crossing, but it will feel good to send it to Mark my accountant.
We had neighbourly drinks and nibbles about ten days ago. My thank-you to the team who looked after MasterB while I was in Ireland. It went well, and felt like a bit of a rehearsal for when the seasonal round gets underway. I am lucky with my neighbourhood. It is very neighbourly. We enjoy socialising with each other in our homes over the jolly season. Two of us are planning to go to the adult panto, a yearly event at the Union Theatre. It will be our first time. The blurb for Tinderella – the title’s a clue – says/warns that it’ll be filthy. Can’t wait.
After months of very little television I’ve been watching quite a bot, though seldom in real time. One of the advantages of watching on catch up is being able to let MasterB out when he demands without missing scenes vital to understanding what’s going on. I’m out later so will miss the real time transmission of Blue Lights anyway, and if the last few evenings are anything to go by, there will be noisy fireworks up to the nine o’clock watershed. Hopefully not beyond it, or Himself will be confined to the great indoors, and I shall be on play duty.
Continue readingDiaries, Friday 10th October 2025, Television Time and Real Newspapers
As I believe I have said before here, I have been opting out of watching the news. It’s not that I don’t want to know what’s going on, it’s that I find the news overwhelmingly bleak. However, tonight, I tuned into C4 at 7pm. Maybe not watching the news on a daily basis makes difference to my responses. I’m less desensitised to the horrors depicted. So I found myself in tears more than once. The images of the destroyed Gaza city people to which people were returning were devastating. Years ago I watched the film The Pianist. The image that has remained most clearly in my memory is the devastation, the wasteland. In Gaza that is echoed. The rubble, the lack of any buildings which could possibly be habitable, the daunting task, let alone the expense, to rebuild, the tearful man holding pictures of his family, all now dead. We human beings have a lot to answer for. Really, what does a war such as this achieve, particularly for non-combatants who die in greater numbers than members of the armed forces?
Later there was an interview with an Israeli family. The father was killed 7th October. The then youngest child refuses to believe his father is dead as he has not seen a body. His mother was pregnant in October 2023, so the child she was carrying, who was born some months later, will never know his father. What can you say? Both sides continue to suffer. I say sides, but it seems to me it is largely a vendetta between Hamas and Netanyahu. Many Palestinians are opposed to Hamas. Many Israelis are opposed to Netanyahu. The innocent on either side of the border suffer most.
More comfortable television has been in the shape of new autumn series, Bake Off, Blue Lights, The Graham Norton Show, HIGNFY. It is television season. I’m about to watch Bake Off, an Extra Slice. Not sure if this exported as Bake Off is but often I prefer it to the main event. It features the baker who has had to leave the tent that week, a panel of (mainly) amusing folk. Only tonight, Jonathan Ross, who I don’t like, don’t find funny and often find offensive, is on. Surely that’s the second time this series. Once was more than enough.
Continue readingDiaries, Sunday 21st September 2025, A Week in Socks, and Other Things
One day, it seems, you are walking along enjoying the heat of the sun through your rolled up shirt sleeves, like the bees in Keats’ Ode to Autumn, you think warm days will never cease. Then the next day you are pulling unfamiliar socks from the drawer for the first time since April, and reaching for another layer before you go outside.
When I did my washing mid week, I realised I spent seven whole days in socks. I’m back to bare feet now, but each day the nip of autumn is fresh in the morning, and the days are getting shorter at both ends. In the rhyme, the winds of March, combined with the showers of April, encourage the flowers of May. We had the March winds this year, but the April showers were absent. Just one wet day the whole month when the slugs and snails chomped their way through one of my new plants, leaving a sad skeleton of stalks where there had been leaves and flowers.
Continue readingDiaries, 7th September, Some Pictures from My Holiday (there may be more)





Diaries, Saturday 6th September 2025, Returned from Ireland
One of the problems with not posting regularly is the backlog of life not covered. Maybe I need an Autumn Resolution to do better.
I returned from Ireland last week and a few short hours later went down with a ghastly cold. It was so bad I thought it was COVID. A week and a day later I am still not completely well, but seeing Octavia earlier, and her asking me if I had blogged about my holiday as spurred me to put fingers to keyboard.
There was a team of six people, plus partners in some cases, attending to MasterB. The first reports made me feel guilty. He was not eating, he was hiding in a drawer under the bed and not being sociable. Octavia was his carer the morning after I left. So it was good to hear from her today how he came round over the sixteen days I was away. By the second week he was behind the door, eager to find out who was coming to be with him. He wanted to eat, to play, to be groomed, to be fussed. It may seem quite boring to him to just have me around now. He was extremely chatty when I got home. When he wasn’t chatting he was purring. He wanted to go out. He went out three times over the course of the evening, then slept curled up beside me. To repeat something I have written several times and thought very often, I do not know how cats have acquired a reputation for aloofness. Both my cats have been very loof.
Continue readingDiaries 24th August 2025, Family and Other Matters
I’m in Ireland. Cousin and I are in a state of anticipation. Two half cousins are visiting who we never met before. They are not coming from far away, it’s not a case of long lost cousins from the US or Canadian branches of the family. Or rather I have never met them before. Cousin has met one of them, in fact taught her, but the relationship was never acknowledged, so it’s quite an occasion.
We have made the hummus, Cousin has arranged a cheese board, there are grapes, crisps, mixed nuts. They may not be hungry, but we are prepared.