Neither been writing something related to it nor reading some blogs about it, But it is time for me to write about it. Love, most ppl say it as a beautiful feeling. But I define something else. It a lyf inside a lyf, something like an Inception. You first look at your partner, u know physically he/she attracts you and the main thing is you get comfortable with the physical attraction.
Then you start talking to each other. And in the process, you guys get comfortable with each other with a physical presence. The happiest moments before a relationship is this part – You get close to each other, say finding difficult to move along without a physical presence, or dating, or flirting, or something else. Particularly during this time, you guys get a thought about choosing a lyf partner or wishing to get into a relationship with a gal/guy whom your close to. But if you are ending up proposing during this time, I tell u, you’re ending up with a bad decision. Because you 2 guys wouldn’t have showed your another part of your side.
When you think that ur partner is very comfortable to you, discuss lot of personal stuffs, asking for guidance, and of course you might be sure that your partner likes u very much, but never come to a conclusion that he/she is the one. Without showing your full character/attitude to your partner, you can’t even say that he/she is the one for u. Because the guy/gal who was very casual to you b4 a relationship is not going to be the same. He/She is going to love you more for what you are and they are going to need you whenever they find it hard for them.
When you get into a relationship and wen u start looking things like frustration, anger, crying, feeling low etc. etc. in her, that u can’t tolerate, and then the relationship is not healthy at all. Because once u find a gal/guy, he/she is going to come to u even if there is a very small problem. The best thing you should do is you have to be there for him/her no matter what happens. If you can’t be there for your guy/gal, when he/she needs you the most, what is the point in being in a relationship or loving each other? Now it’s not just a feeling, you’re actually living a lyf with him/her. When you are sure about being with him/her, you will get a confidence that will take to any height to fight for him/her.
PS : This was not written with any personal intention or experience , coz Im glad I gained my confidence long back 😉
Bye Until Next post,
Iv.