My Younger Self Series – Simiyu

“Do the best you can until you know better. Then when you know better, do better,”

My name is Job Simiyu, and this is the story of my younger self and the journey that has shaped who I am today.

I was born on 3rd September 2003 in a small village called Menu, in Bungoma County, Kenya. I grew up as the only son of Patrick Simiyu and Agnes Khaemba, surrounded by eight sisters. Being the only boy in a large family placed responsibility on me from a very young age. Even as a child, I understood that much was expected of me.

My father was, and still is, a peasant farmer who depended on small-scale farming to provide for our family. Life was difficult, but my parents tried their best with the little they had. However, in 2007, when I was still very young, my life changed completely. My mother became seriously ill and was eventually paralysed. From that moment, my childhood took a different direction.

As a young boy, watching my mother lose her strength and ability to work was deeply painful. Our home was filled with worry and uncertainty. Medical needs increased, yet our family income remained very low. I watched my father struggle every day in the farm, trying to care for my paralysed wife and provide for his children. Even though I was young and did not fully understand everything, I felt the fear, pain, and heaviness in our home.

My Education Journey

I began my primary education in 2007 at Chwele Boys Primary School, where I studied until 2019. My younger self faced many educational challenges. There were frequent times when school fees could not be paid, uniforms were missing, and basic learning materials were unavailable. I was often sent home because of fees, and those moments were painful and embarrassing, especially when I saw other children continuing with their studies without interruption.

Despite all this, my younger self refused to give up. I knew, even then, that education was my only hope of changing my life and helping my family in the future. I studied whenever I got the chance and learned patience during times of hardship.

In 2020, I joined Kaptanai High School, where I studied until 2023. Secondary school life was even more challenging. Fees were higher, my mother was still paralysed, and my father’s farming income was not enough to meet our needs. Many times, I felt overwhelmed and close to giving up, but I reminded myself of how far I had already come and why I started.

Through resilience, discipline, and determination, I managed to complete my secondary education and passed my Form Four. For my younger self, completing Form Four was not just an academic achievement—it was a victory over hardship and despair.

Faith and Values

From a young age, my faith in God became my strongest foundation. I grew up as a God-fearing person, and prayer became my refuge whenever life felt too heavy. My younger self learned to depend on God for strength, hope, and direction.

Because of the struggles I faced while growing up, I developed strong values early in life. I learned the importance of honesty, humility, hard work, patience, perseverance, respect, and responsibility. These values continue to guide me today.

Life After Form Four

After completing Form Four in 2023, I hoped to continue with college education. Unfortunately, financial challenges made this impossible at the time. This was very painful, especially because education had always been my dream. However, my younger self had already learned not to give up easily.

Instead of losing hope, I chose to remain patient and determined. I believe that education and success are journeys, not one-time events. I continue to trust in God, work hard, and seek opportunities that will help me grow and support my family.

Conclusion

From 2007, when my mother became paralysed, to the day I completed Form Four, my younger self walked a path filled with pain, struggle, faith, and perseverance. Life was not easy, but I remained resilient and focused.

My story reminds me that where I come from does not define where I am going. Through faith, determination, and strong values, I believe I will succeed.

With love and gratitude,
Your future self,
Job Simiyu

My Younger Self Series – Herbert

“One can choose to go back toward safety or forward toward growth. Growth must be chosen again and again; fear must be overcome again and again.”

I was born in Chewangoi, Mt. Elgon, but life did not allow me to grow up where I was born. I found myself in Chepkube, at my grandmother’s home, where my childhood truly began.

My school journey started at Kamosong Primary School, and it was never easy. My grandmother was old and a widow, struggling to provide even the basics, including school fees. Life was hard. We were five grandchildren, and we went through a lot of suffering. We were beaten brutally by our uncles, chased out of the house at night, and forced to do hard labor while still very young.

What hurt me most was not knowing where my parents were. I was abused, yet no one ever told me where my mother or father was. Deep inside, I knew I had a home somewhere, but I didn’t know where it was. Because of that, I endured all kinds of pain and torture. Eventually, my cousins could not take it anymore—some girls got married as early as 15 years old, while the boys ran away to look for work. I stayed behind because of one thing: school.

From nursery to Class Eight, the journey was extremely tough, but God gave me strength. When KCPE results were released, I performed well. My marks opened doors to many big secondary schools—something I had always dreamed of. Sadly, that dream did not come true.

After the results, my grandmother took me to the place she said was my real home. I was very happy, believing I would finally meet my parents for the first time. But my happiness did not last long. When I arrived, I was told that no one knew where my father was.

Still, God did not abandon me. My father’s brother and his family accepted me and treated me like their own child. For the first time, I felt peace and happiness. I will always be grateful. May God bless them.

My secondary education began at Kabkara Secondary School, where I completed four years. Life there had ups and downs, but I managed. After that, I joined Matili College, but due to lack of fees, I was forced to stop my studies.

I then decided to look for a job, and that decision brought me to Nairobi, where I live to this day.

Dear my younger self, I want you to know this: life will test you in ways you never imagined, but do not give up. When you are alive, accept to go through thick and thin. One day, God will lift you from grass to grace. Keep believing. Your story is still being written.

With love and gratitude,
Your future self,
Herbert Chemiat

My Younger Self Series – Stellah

Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is always to try just one more time

Dear Younger Stellah,

I know you may not understand it now, but every challenge you are facing is shaping you into a strong, resilient, and purposeful woman. One day, you will look back and realize that the girl who walked the dusty paths to Mabuusi Primary School carried within her a destiny far greater than she could imagine.

You will grow up in a world where expectations sometimes outweigh opportunities, but you will not be defined by your surroundings. You will be defined by your determination, your discipline, and your faith. You will learn early that education is not just a requirement — it is your ladder. And you will climb it, rung by rung, even when it feels heavy.

You will work harder than many, sacrificing sleep and comfort to study, prepare lessons, and mentor others. At times, you will doubt whether your journey is worth it. But hold on — because soon, you will step into classrooms not as a student, but as a teacher. You will stand in front of young minds who will look at you with hope, trust, and admiration. And you will teach them, guide them, and inspire them just as you once wished someone would inspire you.

You will walk into Marist International University College with dreams and walk out on 24th October 2025 with a degree in your hands — a symbol of your persistence and courage. You will teach in junior academies, boys’ schools, and girls’ high schools, touching lives and shaping futures.

Younger Stellah, you will discover that your heart beats for mentorship. You will realize that helping young people find direction brings you joy, and reading and writing become your quiet sanctuary. You will become a woman who speaks confidently, who manages classrooms with respect, who plans lessons with passion, and who collaborates with colleagues with grace.

Life will not always be easy. But you will survive. You will rise.
And one day, you will become a woman that younger you would be proud of.

So hold your head high, little one.
Your journey has just begun — and it is beautiful.

With love and gratitude,
Your future self,
Wabomba N. Stellah

My Younger Self Series – Shelton

It always seems impossible until it’s done

Dear Younger Shelton,

I know life seems like a long road right now, filled with questions and uncertainty. But trust me, every step you take, every lesson you learn, is preparing you for something greater. One day, the boy walking the corridors of Sango Primary School and later Sikalame Secondary School will become a man who drives not just vehicles, but also his own destiny.

You will work hard to gain skills, starting with obtaining your driving license at Prince Driving School. At times, the journey may feel slow, and the responsibilities heavy, but every mile you cover, every challenge you face, will build your discipline, patience, and reliability.

From being a security guard to supervising a team at Lavington Security Company, you will learn leadership, vigilance, and how to protect and care for others. You will deliver documents, transport goods safely, and mentor staff as a driver at reputable companies. Through it all, your commitment to punctuality, integrity, and excellence will shine.

You will realize that success is not only about titles or salary, but about being dependable, responsible, and trusted by those around you. You will see that your work matters, that your dedication brings safety, comfort, and peace to others.

So, young Shelton, remember: embrace discipline, respect the rules, care for people, and never stop learning. One day, you will look back and be proud of the man you’ve become — skilled, respected, and steadfast.

Keep driving forward. Your journey has only just begun.

With love and gratitude,
Your future self,
Shelton Makhapila

My Younger Self Series – Nabugwere

The only limits you have are the limits you believe.

I grew up in a small village where poverty was not just an occasional visitor but a constant presence. I was one of eight children in a loving yet struggling family. My father was a hardworking farmer, and my mother did her best to manage the household, though there was never enough to go around. Our home was a simple two-room house made of clay and thatch, with cracked walls that let in the rain and a roof that leaked during storms. Despite the physical hardships, what filled that little house was love, faith, and hope — values that became the foundation of who I am today.

As a child, I quickly learned the meaning of sacrifice. There were nights when my siblings and I slept hungry and huddled together for warmth, and mornings when I walked to school in worn-out shoes that barely held together. My uniform was often patched, but I wore it with pride because I knew that going to school was a privilege many children around me didn’t have. I understood early that education was not merely about books and lessons — it was a lifeline, a chance to change the story of my life. My father would often remind us, “Education is the key to escaping poverty,” and those words echoed in my mind every time I faced disappointment or struggle.

There were days I was sent home because my school fees had not been paid. I remember sitting outside the classroom window, listening to my teacher’s voice drift through the air, promising myself that one day I would return and never stop learning. Even without electricity, I would study by the faint glow of a kerosene lamp, reading until my eyes grew heavy. It was during those long nights that I discovered the strength of determination — the belief that no matter how dark life seemed, there was always a light ahead if I kept moving forward.

Poverty was not just about lacking money; it tested every part of me — my body, my spirit, and my will. I learned responsibility early. Being among the older children meant helping my mother with chores, fetching water, or taking care of my younger siblings. At times, this meant missing school, but it also taught me discipline, compassion, and resilience. I began to understand that every challenge carried a lesson and that endurance was the key to transformation.

Through those years, I developed a deep appreciation for life’s smallest blessings. When there was only one meal to share, I was grateful for it. When I managed to stay in school for another term, it felt like victory. Gratitude became my quiet source of strength — the ability to find peace even in the midst of struggle. I learned that happiness is not found in abundance, but in recognizing and appreciating what little we have.

Education became my greatest weapon against limitation. Every book I read expanded my world, and every exam I passed fueled my belief that I could rise above my circumstances. I worked hard, not just for myself, but for my family — for my parents who sacrificed everything, and for my siblings who looked up to me. I took small jobs, tutoring younger children and helping in farms, to contribute whatever I could. These experiences taught me the dignity of work and the importance of perseverance.

Most importantly, my childhood taught me empathy. Having lived through lack and hardship, I came to understand the struggles of others and the importance of kindness. I learned that sharing — even when you have little — multiplies hope. A simple act of generosity, a word of encouragement, or a helping hand can change someone’s day, or even their life. I realized that true strength is not measured by how much you have, but by how much you give.

Looking back now, I see that my past was not a curse but a classroom. Every challenge prepared me for the person I am today. Poverty taught me humility, struggle taught me resilience, and love taught me hope. I am grateful for the hardships because they gave me purpose and perspective. They taught me that dreams are not limited by where you come from, but by how far you are willing to believe and work for them. Today, when I look at my journey, I see a story of perseverance and faith — a story that reminds me that no obstacle is permanent and no dream is impossible. I may have been born into poverty, but I refused to let poverty be born in me. My younger self faced darkness, but she also carried light — and it is that same light that continues to guide me forward, inspiring me to keep striving, keep believing, and keep becoming the best version of myself

With love and gratitude,
Your future self,
Christine Nabugwere Emase

My Younger Self Series – Tabitha

Change the game, don’t let the game change you.

I was born into a humble but loving family of eight children — four brothers and three sisters — and as the eldest, I learned responsibility from an early age. Growing up in a large family taught me the importance of patience, care, and leadership. My parents worked tirelessly to provide for us, even when life was tough, and their sacrifices helped shape the strong and hopeful person I am today.

One of my earliest memories was when I was only about two years old. Out of curiosity, I followed my mother to the river, not knowing the danger ahead. I accidentally slipped and fell into a well. People rushed to rescue me, and by God’s grace, I was pulled out alive, though I had several injuries. The scars from that day remain visible on my body, and when I was older, my mother told me the full story. That experience taught me that life itself is fragile but precious — a gift to be protected and cherished.

When the time came for school, I was an eager and hardworking student. I loved learning and often performed well, competing closely with my cousin for the top position in class. My teachers admired my commitment and discipline. However, I also learned early that not everyone will share your good intentions. One day, a classmate borrowed my books and papers but never returned them. That small act affected my studies deeply, and from then on, my academic journey became challenging. Even in college, I faced similar setbacks, losing important materials and struggling to recover. Yet, those experiences taught me resilience and the value of persistence despite obstacles.

In class six, I faced one of the scariest moments of my life when I was bitten by a snake. I suffered for nearly six months, moving from hospital to hospital without healing. Eventually, I found relief through traditional treatment. That period of pain and uncertainty strengthened my faith and showed me that healing doesn’t always come from medicine alone — sometimes it comes from prayer, patience, and hope.

Just before my final primary school exams in class eight, another life-threatening experience occurred. I had been sent on an errand using a small tractor, and on my way back, a light drizzle began to fall. As I approached home, a flash of lightning passed right above my head and struck a tree just one meter ahead of me. I was thrown to the ground, and even everyone at home felt the shock. It was one of the most terrifying moments of my life, but also one that reminded me how truly powerful God’s protection is.

Looking back at all these experiences, I see a journey of grace and strength. Every scar on my body tells a story of survival. Every hardship taught me courage, patience, and faith. I have learned that no matter how difficult life becomes, there is always a reason to be grateful. My childhood was not easy, but it molded me into a woman who believes that hope is stronger than fear and that perseverance can turn pain into purpose.

With love and gratitude,
Your future self,
Tabitha

My Younger Self Series – Emmanuell

Do what you can with all you have, wherever you are.

Growing up in Bungoma, I was always that curious boy who loved to see things take shape — houses, bridges, and roads fascinated me. I would often stand by construction sites, watching how workers mixed concrete, aligned bricks, and turned empty ground into something meaningful. Even then, I knew I wanted to be part of that transformation someday.

After completing my studies at Kakamwe R.C. Primary School and Tongaren C.E.B. Secondary School, I joined Kisiwa Technical Training Institute to study Civil Engineering. College life was exciting but also demanding — balancing theory with practical work, late nights of studying, and financial challenges that often tested my focus. Still, I kept pushing, reminding myself that education was the key to changing my life and honoring my family’s sacrifices.

But just as I was stepping into adulthood, life hit me harder than I could ever imagine. After graduation, my father passed away — the man I looked up to for guidance and strength. I was broken, but I tried to stay strong for my family. Then, not long after, my mother also passed on. Losing both parents within such a short time shattered me completely. I felt empty, depressed, and directionless.

There were days I woke up with no plan, no money, and no one to lean on. The silence in my home became heavier than any burden I had ever known. But deep inside, something kept whispering — “don’t give up.” I realized that if I wanted to honor their memory, I had to keep moving forward.

I started taking any work I could find — sometimes mixing concrete, other times operating machines, painting walls, or helping on construction sites. Those early days were tough. The pay was little, the work exhausting, but I refused to let my circumstances define me. Every shovel I lifted, every wall I built, reminded me that rebuilding my life was possible — one brick at a time.

Slowly, I began to grow. From being just a helper, I learned to lead teams, operate machines, and supervise projects. I gained respect through hard work, humility, and consistency. The same pain that once broke me became my motivation to build a better future.

Today, when I look back, I see a journey of strength and transformation. I’ve learned that life can take everything from you — but it cannot take your will to rise again. My parents may be gone, but their spirit lives in every goal I achieve, every challenge I overcome, and every structure I help bring to life.

My story is one of loss, resilience, and hope — proof that even when life tears down your foundation, you can rebuild yourself stronger than before.

With love and gratitude,
Your future self,
Emmanuell Makonge Masakha

My Younger Self Series – Kenneth

“Believe you can and you’re halfway there” 

When I look back at my younger self, I see a boy full of questions and quiet dreams. Growing up in Uganda, life wasn’t always easy, but it was real — filled with lessons that shaped my character long before I ever realized it. I remember the early mornings walking to school with my books tucked under my arm, the smell of rain on the red soil, and the sound of laughter from friends who shared the same hopes — to one day make something of ourselves.

I didn’t have much, but I had determination. I believed that being kind, respectful, and honest could take me further than anything else. My younger self didn’t know where the road would lead, but he believed in effort — in showing up every day, even when things got hard. That belief has carried me through every challenge since.

When I finished school, I stepped into the world with little more than faith and ambition. Working in hospitality taught me what it truly means to serve — not just food or drinks, but people. It taught me patience, empathy, and how to communicate with hearts, not just words. From Kampala to Doha, each experience reminded me that the boy from Lugazi was right — kindness and perseverance can open doors beyond imagination.

Sometimes I wish I could speak to that younger version of myself. I would tell him, “Keep believing, Kenneth. Every small effort counts. Every humble beginning matters. You will one day stand in places you used to only dream about.”

I carry him with me still — his courage, his curiosity, his simplicity. He reminds me to stay grounded, to serve with joy, and to keep chasing growth. My younger self was not perfect, but he was brave — and for that, I am forever grateful.

With love and gratitude,
Your future self,
Kenneth Joshua Ssejuuko

My Younger Self Series –  Samuel

Looking back at where I started, I can only say that life has been a long and winding journey — one filled with challenges, lessons, and small victories that have shaped the person I am becoming.

My name is Samuel Junior Mandu, and I was born in Kabendo Village, Lwandanyi Ward, Sirisia Constituency, and Bungoma County, Kenya. Growing up in a humble and close-knit family, I learned the true meaning of love, unity, and resilience. My parents worked tirelessly to provide for us. They never gave up, even when life seemed tough and uncertain. Their sacrifices and determination remain my biggest source of inspiration. For that, I say thank you, Dad and Mum — your love and strength keep me moving every day.

When I look back at my childhood, I see a time filled with hope and curiosity. Like many children, I had dreams — big dreams — about my future. I wanted to study hard, succeed, and make my family proud. I completed my Form Four in 2017, full of expectations and plans to join campus. But life had other plans. Due to unavoidable circumstances, I couldn’t proceed to university immediately. It was a difficult period, one that tested my patience and faith.

However, I refused to let that setback define me. Instead of giving up, I joined driving school, where I trained and became a skilled, careful, and disciplined driver. That experience taught me that sometimes, the road to success isn’t always straight — but every detour carries an important lesson. It built in me the values of hard work, patience, and adaptability.

I have always considered myself a hardworking and self-motivated individual, eager to learn something new and improve myself every day. I take pride in my ability to communicate well and connect with others — a strength that has helped me navigate through life’s ups and downs.

Then came the year 2022, one of the most challenging seasons of my life. I fell seriously ill, and for a moment, it seemed as though my journey might end there. The pain, the uncertainty, and the fear were overwhelming. But through it all, I held on to faith. God’s mercy sustained me, and I was given another chance at life. That experience changed how I view everything — it reminded me that life itself is a gift, and every day is an opportunity to grow, give, and be thankful.

Today, I look at the future with renewed hope. My short-term goal is to work in a well-reputed company, where I can gain practical experience, contribute to its growth, and continue learning and improving myself. I believe that success is not just about reaching the destination, but also about learning from every step along the way.

When I reflect on my journey — from the small boy in Kabendo Village to the determined young man I am now — I feel proud. The path has not been easy, but every struggle has prepared me for what lies ahead. I carry with me the lessons of perseverance, gratitude, and faith.

To my younger self, I say: Never lose hope. Every challenge you face will become a stepping stone. Keep believing, keep working, and keep trusting in God’s timing.

With love and gratitude,
Your future self,
Samuel Junior Mandu

My Younger Self Series –  Edwin

My name is Edwin Kirui Tekei, the second-born in a family of nine siblings. I grew up in a humble home where love and hard work were the roots of everything we did. My father worked as a plumber, often moving from one place to another looking for jobs, while my mother is a mama mboga who sells vegetables at our home village market. They have always done their best to provide for us, even when times were tough.

From a young age, I dreamed of becoming a land surveyor. I was fascinated by how land is measured and mapped, and I wanted to help in developing better communities. Unfortunately, due to financial constraints, I couldn’t pursue that dream. It was painful at first, but I learned to accept that sometimes life leads us in different directions.

With time, I developed a new passion — teaching. I came to realize that being a teacher is not just a job; it’s a calling. Teaching gives me a chance to guide, inspire, and shape young minds. It’s a noble profession, and I believe through it, I can make a real difference in society.

Life hasn’t been easy. One of the biggest challenges I’ve faced is lack of connections and opportunities. Sometimes, even when you work hard, progress seems slow because of who you know or don’t know. But I’ve learned an important lesson — to stay optimistic, patient, and focused. I’ve also discovered that farming can be a strong foundation for the future. It keeps me grounded and gives me hope that success can grow from the soil, just like a seed.

I believe that every struggle is a lesson, and every setback is preparing me for something better. My dream now is to keep learning, keep growing, and keep moving forward — no matter how hard life gets.

Love,

Your Future Self – Tr. Edwin Kirui Tekei

My Younger Self Series –  Theophilas

“If there is no struggle, there is no progress” 

Growing up is rarely a straight path; it’s full of twists and turns. Suddenly, you find yourself an adult, expected to fend for yourself, provide for others, and make a positive impact on society. This journey demands being grounded—at least, that’s what I’ve learned as I grow. It’s important to recognize that as a child or adolescent, you might not always see eye to eye with your parents, if you’re lucky enough to have them and for them to be present in your daily life. While you naturally want to carve out your own identity, it’s wise to shape your character on the foundations your parents have set—assuming they have your best interests at heart.

As you enter adulthood, focusing on the present becomes crucial because it’s the only moment where you have real control. How you spend each 24-hour cycle profoundly influences who you become. So, always strive to be honest with yourself—don’t hide from where you are or what you’re going through. Remember, good peer pressure is positive reinforcement. In the end, make every day count, and your future self will thank the choices your past self made.

Love,

Your Future Self – Theophilas Matundura – Managing Partner TMM & Partners Advocates

My Younger Self Series –  Nelson

 “There are no mistakes, only lessons” 

My name is Nelson Katami, born in Kabendo Village, Lwandanyi Ward, Sirisia Constituency, Bungoma County, Kenya. I come from a humble background, being the last-born in a family of ten children, born to older but loving parents.

Life was not easy growing up. At the young age of four, I had to start providing for myself by taking care of my clothing and personal needs, while my parents could only manage to provide shelter and food.

Getting an education was a real struggle due to limited resources at home. Despite my challenges, I had a big dream — I wanted to become a doctor and make a difference in people’s lives. Unfortunately, financial constraints made it impossible to achieve that goal. Instead, I pursued my studies in ICT and trained as a technician.

My parents worked hard to support us. My father practiced animal herbal treatment, while my mother was a mama mboga, reselling vegetables in the rural market of Cheptais. Despite their efforts, life remained difficult, and we often had to survive on very little.

Over the years, I have struggled to improve my life, but lack of connections and opportunities has made it challenging to secure stable employment. However, I’ve learned an important lesson: business and farming are the keys to a better future. I now believe in creating opportunities rather than waiting for them.

Life is full of challenges, and no journey is ever smooth. To overcome obstacles, we must think critically, act wisely, and stay determined.

This is my story, my journey, and my belief that with hard work, resilience, and focus, we can rise above any circumstances.

Love,

Your Future Self

My Younger Self Series –  Abdikadir

"Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance, you must keep moving."
Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance, you must keep moving.  

My name is Abdikadir Sharif Mohamed. I grew up during a time when my country was torn apart by civil war, which forced many families to constantly move in search of safety. For years I was separated from my parents, yet I never abandoned my education. Wherever I went, I continued my studies until I completed the Qur’an. Later, my family and I returned to the capital, where I resumed my studies; this time I entered high school.

My dream was to study abroad. I left Somalia for Uganda, where I encountered people from diverse backgrounds, both in terms of language and culture. Soon after, the COVID-19 started, and then government closed educational places and my progress toward start university stops there. I then moved to Kenya, planning a journey that would eventually take me to the United States, but unluckily, it couldn’t get approved. After two and a half years, I returned to Somalia, feeling that I had lost so much time.

However, I was never become alone—my mother constantly encouraged me to never give up. With her support, I decided to restart my education inside Somalia and enrolled at Jamhuriya University. At first, it was very difficult, especially when I saw my old classmates already in their final year of university. For two weeks I stayed home, overwhelmed by discouragement. But one morning I decided to return to the university, and that decision changed my life.

I slowly adapted to university life, I took on various roles within the IT student union, and in my third year I became president of student union. I also served as an assistant lecturer, teaching several subjects and working alongside different lecturers.

Since childhood, I have always loved playing and watching football, and I have also been deeply passionate about playing video games.

If I could give one piece of advice to the next generation, it would be Don’t compare yourself to others. also Change the plan but never change the goal.

Love,

Your Future Self

My Younger Self Series –  Ruweida

“All our dreams can come true, if we have the courage to pursue them”

Dear young me,

Don’t worry too much, I believe in you, that you will take a good decision which will make me happy and proud.

Life is not easy for everyone, but face it with confidence and faith, never let the bad seconds ruin the good hours.

I know that you live in a country which is difficult to get anything you want, but don’t give up and remember quitters never win. I’m waiting for you and I will be who you made me according to the choices that you are making now. I can be a mango or a cactus, it depends what type of seed you plant now.

Use your friends wisely because if there’s no enemy inside, the enemy outside can’t do anything. Set goals and approach towards it every single day and never change the goal no matter how hard it is to achieve, but instead change the path or the tactics. Build network, the more people you know the more information and opportunities you will get. Always be aware who you surround with, you will be shaped by your surroundings and people will judge you accordingly.

Don’t stress yourself too much, enjoy every moment and obey God. Always do prayer all the time. Let your faith be your shield and the weapon of your success. Don’t let down anyone who is struggling in order to achieve his goals just like you. All I want to say to you is that I trust you, I love you, I believe in you and I will keep praying for you in order to make me the best version that I can ever be. I’m proud of you and I’m waiting for you.

Love,

Your Future Self

My Younger Self Series – Abdullahi

“The whole secret of a successful life is to find out what is one’s destiny to do, and then do it.”

Dear Abdullahi,

You may not realize it now, but you came into this world in Mogadishu in 1996, at a time when the air was heavy with war and uncertainty. carrying the weight of responsibility without always having a voice. Life tested you early, but what you didn’t know then is that those very struggles were shaping the resilience, discipline, and strength that would one day define you.

I remember my childhood struggles. I trembled whenever I had to speak in front of people. I often failed to complete my assignments on time, not because I lacked ability, but because I hadn’t learned discipline or time management. I relied only on memorization, thinking it would be enough. It wasn’t. That mistake taught me my first big lesson: planning and consistency matter just as much as knowledge.

I remember my teenage years too. I was blessed with friends who motivated me, but I also chose others who pulled me away from my goals. I wasted time on football and social media. I studied only to pass, never striving for excellence. Yes, people respected me, and I respected them, but I missed out on opportunities to shine. That’s when I learned the people around you can either elevate your growth or anchor you to the ground.

University became my turning point. I transformed my mindset and committed myself fully to learning. I worked hard, discovered new skills, and pushed myself to compete for top positions. I won awards, built confidence, and proved to myself that determination can change the direction of an entire life.

After graduation, I was fortunate to find work quickly. At my job, I built a reputation for integrity, punctuality, and dedication. Colleagues respected me, and I earned promotions not only in position but also financially. Each step forward reminded me of the lesson I now carry everywhere: discipline, respect, and hard work always open doors.

Looking back, I see that my life has been a journey of mistakes, lessons, and transformation. Childhood taught me discipline. My teenage years taught me to choose wisely. University taught me focus. And adulthood taught me the power of consistency.

With gratitude and strength.
Your Future Self Abdullahi.

My Younger Self Series – Hani

You’re going to fall down, sometimes it will hurt, but get back up.

Dear Younger Self

When I was a child, around the age of 10 years. I attended a Quran school. After completing my Quran studies, I enrolled in a literacy centre where I learned mathematics and how to write in the Somali language. Once I had gained those basic skills, I joined a primary school named Khadija Model where I started grade 3.

I continued my studies there until middle school. Later I transferred to another school where I completed my secondary education.

At home, I enjoyed helping my mother with household chores and also used to work in a small family owned shop. I was always passionate about my education and worked hard to achieve good academic results.

The biggest mistake I made during my childhood was being late to school sometimes, so late that I would be denied entry. This let to me missing important lessons and educational opportunities. This could have helped shape my future. I also wasted a lot of time on games and meaningless conversations instead of focusing on my dreams and education.

What I have learned is that education is the key to life. If you want to achieve great things, you must be persistent, responsible and patient in the face of small challenges. Today, I realize how much valuable time I wasted and this is one of the biggest mistakes I made.

To little Hani, I say whatever happens, be patient, keep learning and remind yourself every day that you are building your future. If you make a mistake, know that it can be corrected. Just don’t repeat again. Don’t be afraid to ask for help and never see education as a burden. See it instead as a golden opportunity.

As I grow older, I dreamt of studying business administration at university so that I could become a successful businesswoman. I also planned to pursue a master’s degree and eventually open my own shoes company where I would brand the shoes with my name – something like – Hani Company.

My Younger Self Series –  Fathi

Life is hard, it gets easy then, it gets hard again, but then it gets easy again—it’s a cycle.

As I reflect on the time when I was young, with an open heart and boundless dreams – I write to you this letter to remind you of the value of time, the importance of patience and the wisdom found in mistakes.

These will be moments when I feel lost, fearful of the future and unsure of myself. But know this, all of it is part of my growth. Don’t be afraid to make mistakes. I might fail, but each failure is a lesson. What I feel today does not define who I will become tomorrow.

Always remember to stay true to yourself. Don’t bend over backward to please others at the cost of forgetting who you are. Be kind to yourself and never compare your journey to someone else’s. Everyone has their own timing, their own tests and their own unique path.

Please keep dreaming, reading, learning and surrounding yourself with good people. Don’t be discouraged by obstacles – they are temporary and you are stronger than you think. Time will pass and you will grow beautifully into someone who finally understands herself.

Whatever lies ahead, you will overcome it with honesty, faith and consistent effort. You are worthy of love, success and every beautiful thing coming your way.

Keep moving forward with courage in your heart.

Love,

Your Future Self.

My Younger Self Series – Liban

My name is liiban. I am boy who grew up in a comfortable life compared to the children of my own age. Our family consisted of a mother, father and six children. I am the midle in our family.

If I look back on the sweet life of my childhood, it was a life with a special meaning. As liiban, I grew up the way boys of my own age were raised with the loving care of both my parents.

If I reflect on my educational background, in Somalia we have a tradition of sending children to Quranic school when they are old enough to understand and speak. When I finished the Quran school, I was sent to the primary school. I still remember that special day, starting school in the second grade.

My academic journey has brought me countless memories. I have met friends who have always been my friends and we have learned together. Also, in my life journey, I have make friends who have shared life with me. We have made friends at every stage. In the environment where I grew up, I had boys who I can never forget their games, stories, happiness and wise advice.

Similarly, in the Quranic school stage, I made friends with various boys and girls who have shaped my academic life in different ways. I was fortunate to have met students who will never leave my heart and have become true friends.

A special memory from when I was little being the time when my little sister – iqra, joined the family. A sad memory I was attacked at night by a thief who wanted to rob me but he missed me.

I remember so many things from my childhood that I can’t summarize in one place.

Love,

Your Future Self.

My Younger Self Series – Leila

Dear Past Self,

My name is Leila Abdiaziz Mohamed, a young woman born, raised, educated, and now working in my beloved home country — Somalia.

Of course, if I were to speak about my childhood experiences, I couldn’t possibly sum it all up here. My story is vast and layered. But one thing has always remained true: I have a strong spirit — a heart that never turns away from challenges, and a mind that stays focused on its purpose, no matter what comes my way.

I vividly remember those mornings when I’d leave the house for school, and the people sitting outside would call out to me:

“Don’t you ever finish school?”

And yet, I kept going. Because to achieve success, I knew I had to be prepared to endure whatever life threw at me. And I did. Some of the dreams I had back then, I’ve already achieved. And the rest? I still hold hope that they’ll come to life in the days and years ahead.

Alhamdulillah, Allah blessed me with the most wonderful parents and siblings anyone could ask for — always by my side, cheering me on. I owe special gratitude to my dear mother, Shamsa Mohamed Ali, and my father, Abdiaziz Mohamed Abdi. I love you both deeply. I can never forget our eldest, Dr. Zahra Abdiaziz Hamash — your encouragement has always been my fuel, both in the past and for the journey still ahead.

Today, I am a university lecturer. The opportunity to teach has shaped me, strengthened me, and helped me build the kind of patience and character I need to pursue the life I want. I’ve faced my share of challenges, including hearing comments like:

“You’re just a girl — what are you learning all this for?”

But those words never broke me. They never changed my goals.

As a young girl, I had a deep love for education. I wanted to go far. I wanted to become the kind of woman that other girls could look up to. And by the mercy of Allah, I’ve become that woman. My dreams didn’t stay dreams — they became my reality.

I’ve always loved swimming, reading, watching movies, and spending time with people I can learn from — people whose experience adds value to my own. If there’s one piece of advice I’d offer anyone chasing their goals, it’s this: be patient. Let no challenge distract you from your purpose. Keep going, no matter how hard the road may seem.

And lastly, I want to give special thanks to my cousin, my big sister, and my closest friend — Maryan Ibrahim Garcade. You’ve been my strength, my support, and my safe place. I love you, dear sister. Thank you for being by my side — in every way, always.

With love and gratitude,

Leila Abdiaziz Mohamed

My Younger Self Series – Brian

What’s life without hope? What’s life without goals? What’s life without a dream?

Dear Little Brian, I know you are questioning yourself about everything that’s happening to you right now, the pressure, the silent battle that you are consistently fighting without anyone noticing. I know it feels like you don’t have anyone to give you a hand, no one to open up to through tough times, no one to remind you how amazing you are in the little things that you do but you still you continue pushing no matter what. You refuse to give up and that’s what makes you stronger than you think.

I have seen you gradually grow and develop from time to time and I know you are really smart and talented. Mom and Dad might not have the full abilities to be able to support you through your career or getting to you dream but there is hope and light at the end of the tunnel. Things may not seem to be working out through this journey but trust me God (Allah) never gives you battles that you can’t handle and i can testify that.

Through this journey, I kept asking myself: When will I ever make it? When will I achieve my goals and live my dreams? These questions echoed in my head every single morning. But with time, I came to realize something, sometimes in life, you just need to look back, and you’ll see you’ve already made it It’s only that each time you achieve one dream, you create another. At one point, you desperately wanted something that you now already have. And the moment you had it in your hands then you immediately set your eyes on the next dream.

Life is like a book. You start with a single word, then move to the next until you form a sentence. You finish the sentence, then build a paragraph. Paragraph by paragraph, you finish a chapter. And when the chapter ends, you turn the page until eventually, the book is complete. Then you begin a new one. That’s what life is, a series of chapters each one preparing you for the next.

You might not have everything you need to get to your goal but use what you have, that’s already enough to get you the next thing you need to keep on getting closer and closer to your goals. So, keep on turning the pages little Brian. Don’t rush to finish the book every word, every chapter matters. And one day, you’ll look back and realize the story was worth it all along.

Love,

Your Future Self.