If you could un-invent something, what would it be?
Foreword:
Most people, when asked what they would un-invent, reach for something large and villainous. Social media algorithms. Nuclear weapons. The reply-all button.
I did too. Briefly.
Then my mind wandered, as bored minds often do toward something far less dramatic and far more suspiciously involved in my daily discomfort.
Because history shows us this…humanity doesn’t suffer most from what it invents loudly, but from what it invents casually – the ideas that slip in without a launch event and then rearrange our inner furniture.
Somewhere along the way, we invented “over”.
No instruction manual. No warning label. Just a quiet assumption that things are supposed to end neatly, conclusively, preferably on time and with emotional closure included.
It seemed harmless. Practical, even.
And yet, here we are, rushing conversations, grieving prematurely, panicking at pauses, and treating unfinished moments like unpaid bills.
So no, I won’t be un-inventing an app today. I’m aiming higher or perhaps deeper. Either way, this is where the detour begins.
Most people would un-invent social media algorithms.
The invisible puppeteers.
The endless scroll.
The dopamine drip that knows you better than you know yourself.
I considered it. My bored brain did too. Then it took a detour.
Let me start with a story. There was once a village that feared sunsets.
Not because they were ugly but because everyone believed the sun left. Each evening, doors were bolted. Stories were stopped mid-sentence. Lovers pulled away too soon. Children rushed their games, terrified of being caught unfinished.
One day, a child asked,
“Where does the sun go when it ends?”
No one had an answer. So they invented one…
“It’s over”.
The child grew up and noticed something strange. The sun never actually disappeared. It just continued elsewhere. Quietly, faithfully, without ceremony.
So the child did something radical.
He un-invented the ending.
The next evening, no doors were locked. People lingered. Stories wandered. Love stayed longer than planned. Nothing ended. It only changed rooms.
Somewhere between childhood and adulthood, our brains were politely rewired. Not by trauma or tragedy, but by calendars, deadlines, and the deeply persuasive belief that life prefers neat conclusions.
Neuroscientists call it pattern recognition. I call it mental furniture we never remember buying. Once the brain learns that things are supposed to end, it starts searching for exits everywhere – conversations, relationships, even joy. Especially joy.
The mind, helpful creature that it is, loves closure the way a cat loves sitting in boxes.
It doesn’t ask whether the box is comfortable.
It just climbs in and decides this must be where things stop.
If I could un-invent something, it wouldn’t be an app, a machine, or an algorithm.
It would be the ending.
Not the natural kind – the kind that arrives gently when something has run its course.
But the manufactured ending we invented so we could control uncertainty.
We un-invented patience and replaced it with conclusions.
We un-invented curiosity and replaced it with closure.
We invented:
This phase is over.
That chapter is closed.
That version of you is done.
That relationship ended.
That dream failed.
Endings made life easier to label. But harder to live. Because the moment we invented endings, we also invented:
Regret
Nostalgia
Fear of starting
Fear of staying
Fear of becoming
Endings taught us to rush joy. To grieve things that were merely changing. To abandon moments that only needed more air.
Even technology didn’t invent this problem, it merely amplified it. Algorithms didn’t teach us to scroll endlessly. They learned it from our fear of stopping before something feels complete.
We don’t actually want infinite content. We want reassurance that nothing meaningful will vanish if we look away.
So what if we un-invented endings?
What if relationships weren’t declared “over” but “evolving”?
What if failure was just a sentence that refused to end with a period?
What if grief wasn’t proof of loss, but evidence of continuation in another form?
What if life wasn’t a series of doors slamming shut, but a hallway with poor lighting and excellent acoustics?
If we stopped ending everything so decisively,
we might finally learn how to stay.
So here’s the question I’ll leave you with…
What in your life isn’t actually over, but you’ve been calling it an ending because you don’t know what else to name it?
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