Irrefutable love

Because of all she has bestowed upon me, I dedicate my heart, my life, and my unwavering devotion to her. This unrefutable feeling, pure and profound, is beyond all doubt, and none can ever take it from us. In my final breath, all my thoughts shall dwell upon her, and in our next life, we shall reunite in the Garden of Eden, where we will dance with butterflies, inhale the sweet fragrance of blossoms, and marvel at nature’s splendor. In eternity, my love for her shall remain unbroken.

What is the level of your intelligence.

Intelligence is seeing life as it is, not as I wish it to be.
I adapt, I observe, I act with discipline.
I don’t chase appearances,


I adapt, I observe, I act with discipline.
I don’t chase appearances,

I understand them.
Results speak for me, not intentions.

School measures obedience, not intelligence.
Life reveals who can think, adapt, and endure.  – Mark Dave

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“A Seed for Futures I Won’t See” 

Legacy isn’t about how likable you were. It’s about what stuck after you spoke.


You may be remembered as rough, blunt, even repulsive in delivery—but if the message you carried changed how people thought, acted, or lived, then your legacy did its job. History is full of people who weren’t warm, weren’t gentle, and weren’t easy to love… yet their words kept walking long after they were gone.


If what you pushed through was carried on—
if someone stood stronger, chose better, or lived braver because of it—
then the approach no longer matters. The result does.


Being remembered kindly is nice.
Being remembered effectively is powerful.


And honestly?
The ones who move people forward are rarely comfortable to be around. They disturb. They challenge. They leave marks.


That kind of legacy doesn’t fade.

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Enough Brings Freedom

At 47, I’ve come to understand something that took decades to settle in my bones: enough brings freedom. I no longer chase what the world keeps dangling—status, applause, excess, or the pressure to prove anything. That hunger to run after more has softened, not because I failed, but because I finally saw clearly. Contentment isn’t quitting; it’s choosing peace over noise.


I’ve learned that contentment is not an accident—it’s an ingredient. You add it deliberately to your life. Without it, even abundance feels empty. With it, even simplicity feels rich. When you stop chasing, you start breathing. You gain time, clarity, and gratitude. You realize that life isn’t measured by how much you accumulate, but by how lightly you can live and how deeply you can appreciate what’s already in your hands.


I am well blessed by God. Not just in things, but in perspective. I wake up with enough, walk through my days with enough, and sleep knowing I am enough. That realization alone is freedom. At this stage of life, I don’t need more to feel whole—I need awareness to stay grateful. And that, in itself, is a quiet, powerful kind of wealth.

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This Christmas 2025

This Christmas, I want to pause and say thank you—from a place of deep sincerity.


I know I am not the kind who talks often. Sometimes we only exchange words once or twice a year, and sometimes there is long silence in between. Life moves fast, responsibilities pile up, and before we know it, time has already passed. Still, despite the distance and the quiet, you never forgot me.


This season, I humbled myself and asked for help—for a gift, whether in kind or in cash. Without hesitation, you gave. No questions, no judgment, just kindness. That meant more than I can properly put into words. Your generosity reminded me that connection is not measured by frequency of conversation, but by the sincerity of the heart.


I truly believe God works through people. What you gave was not just support—it was a reminder that miracles still happen, often quietly, and often through familiar faces. God’s grace showed up through your willingness to help, and I am deeply grateful.


Thank you for being part of my life, even in the silence. Thank you for your kindness, your trust, and your love. I carry this gratitude with me, and I pray that it returns to you many times over.

May this Christmas bring you peace, good health, and blessings beyond what you ask for.


With a grateful heart,
Mark

Church and State

The separation of Church and State exists to protect both, not to weaken either.

The main pillars:

1. Freedom of Religion
The State cannot force any belief, nor can it punish anyone for their faith—or lack of it. Belief stays personal.

2. No State Religion
Government must not favor, fund, or declare an official religion. Power and faith must never merge.

3. Non-Interference
The Church does not control government decisions; the State does not control religious doctrine. Each stays in its lane.

4. Equal Treatment
All religions—and non-believers—stand equal before the law. No special privileges. No discrimination.


Bottom line:
When Church and State are separate, faith stays sincere, and governance stays fair. Mix them, and both get corrupted.

To my Wonderful Children – my life my treasure

I want to tell you something clearly and honestly.

I know there were times I spoke to you with harsh words that you didn’t deserve. I said things that could hurt your confidence, and I take responsibility for that. Those words came from my fear of the future and my desire to make you strong, but I understand now that I approached it the wrong way.

The truth is simple:
You are not dumb. You are not useless. You have a future, and it’s worth fighting for.

From today forward, I’m working on changing how I speak and how I guide you. I will still correct you when you make mistakes, but I will not attack who you are as a person. I want you to grow strong, not because you’re scared of me, but because you believe in yourselves.

I’m learning, just like you.
I’m improving, just like you.
I’m trying, because I love you❤️

I want to say that I am deeply sorry.
It was never my intention to hurt you with the words I said.

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Time has moved so fast, and now I look at you — all grown up, physically well, no long-term injuries, because I always reminded you to be careful in everything you did. That was my way of protecting you, even when my words didn’t match my heart.

I know I made mistakes.
I know some things I said left marks I never wanted to leave.

I am sorry — truly, deeply sorry.

Seeing you growing into the people you are today makes me feel both proud and heavy inside. Proud because you’ve endured so much. Heavy because I wish I had guided you with more patience and gentleness.

As my years move forward and I slowly crawl toward my grave, I want this truth to be clear:
I love you, and I never meant to break you.

—Dad

Jailla

Anthet

Ashley

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The Power of Narrative

Our stories, true or false, shape our reality. The谎言 we tell ourselves can become self-fulfilling prophecies, influencing our choices and shaping our experiences. We become the characters in our own narratives, even if those narratives are built on谎言.

By owning our谎言, we can reclaim our power. Recognizing the谎言 we tell ourselves is the first step towards breaking free from their control. We can then choose to rewrite our narratives, incorporating both truth and falsehood into a more complex and nuanced understanding of ourselves.