Dear Theo,
Hi! It’s Daddy! You know, Daddy, the guy who’s always tying your hockey skates super tight before practices and games, and the man who is constantly reminding you to pick your clothes up off the floor and PLEASE don’t throw that ball against the window because this time it might actually break!
It’s the night before your 8th birthday, Halloween of course, and it’s time for my annual attempt at summing up the last 12 months of your life in several hundred words.
Oh Theo. Theo, Theo, Theo. You were most certainly born on the right day of the calendar, because you continue to be a trick and a treat.
As you turn 8, Mommy and I are so proud of you, because the outlines of the man you will become are starting to become clearer and clearer.
This year has seen a lot of change, but two major things haven’t changed at all: First, your complete worship of the sport of hockey. It’s been growing for a few years now, your obsession with all things ice and pucks, but this year it’s gone to another level.
Despite deep reservations we had, we allowed you to join a travel hockey team, the Long Island Edge, this fall. (we were worried it was too much hockey, too soon, but also realized that this is the way you’ll get better, by practicing more and playing games with kids who are at your level.)
You eat, sleep and breathe hockey, even eschewing your normal Halloween costume ideas (Ninja Turtle, Superhero, etc.) for being a hockey player for trick or treating this year. It’s been pretty amazing seeing how fast you’re improving; your skating has gone so much smoother, you’ve got natural defenseman instincts (I think that’s where you’re going to end up as a hockey player, because you’re really good at the poke check) and a few months ago you could never lift the puck up when you shot, and now you spray pucks all over, several feet off the ground.
Watching you play games and score goals has been thrilling, Theo. I hope you always love the sport as much as you do now.
The other thing that hasn’t changed is your love of theater. You were in a couple more local productions this year, including getting to play the big role of Belle’s father in “Beauty and the Beast Jr.” You memorized your lines and of course got to wear a cool costume (your favorite part) and sang the songs with such gusto. We fully expect you’ll be the first NHL player/Broadway star, rushing from MSG to the Winter Garden Theater 🙂
Your personality continues to shine, as you remain a human jukebox. Your music taste is truly eclectic; you love Pink Floyd and Guns N’ Roses (that’s my influence) but also show tunes and the Charlie Daniels Band classic “Devil Went Down to Georgia” and Alanis Morrissette and Christopher Cross. If anyone can find something those artists all have in common, you’re a better person than me.
In school you are thriving; your third grade teacher, Ms. Schieck, has told us how helpful you are in class to your buddies, and that you’re an excellent listener (she should come home with us sometime). You love writing and reading, and are currently writing a team yearbook for your hockey team, with each player’s likes and dislikes, and favorite team.
You still frustrate us with a lot of your behavior at home, Theo, not listening when we have to tell you multiple times to put down the iPad, or to clean up your hockey stuff, and sometimes you and your brother fight and both of you end up crying.
You are a constant contradiction in many ways, my child. You come off the school bus every day, see other kids hug and kiss their parents, and you barely acknowledge my existence while tossing me your backpack.
And yet, when I leave to go play tennis at night, or Mommy isn’t going to be home from work by bedtime, you insist we “kiss me while I’m sleeping” and always give me 4-5 hugs as I’m trying to walk out the door with my tennis rackets.
You ask SO many questions, Theo, some Daddy can answer because I know the answer (“who did the Rangers beat the win the Stanley Cup?” “What time are we going to Grammy and Papa’s, again?”), others I can’t answer because there is no good answer (“why can’t it be sunny all the time?” “Why can’t I have cookies at every meal?”) and others I just won’t answer because you’re 7 (a few weeks ago you watched a YouTube video and then queried “Why aren’t NBA players allowed to wear the No. 69?” After I got done laughing inside, I spouted something like “It’s too difficult for the referees to hold up those fingers when a foul is called. I mean, I can’t tell him the REAL reason, he’s a child!)
But your love of life, and excitement over things big and small, make us smile, Theo. You entertain your brother with your silly faces, and by playing games with him (“Light up Ball” is a current favorite, where you and Nate turn off all the lights in a room and throw around a basketball that glows in the dark).
We are so happy that you seem to be a happy, kind, and love-filled child, and we wish you nothing but awesome things in the year ahead.
Happy birthday, Theo, we love you to the moon and back.
Love, Daddy.













