“Move your hand!” She threatened, rearing back for another strike. The shocking blow from her squarely landed knee and the resulting deep ache that spread up to my stomach had instinctively moved my hand to shield my shriveled dicklet. I tentatively pulled it away not a moment too soon as a another knee come crushing upwards between my spread legs.
     “You have to take your punishment,” she said through clenched teeth. Earlier, she had complained my pajamas were too baggy and provided too much cushion. I obediently pulled them down, exposing myself fully, only to hear her laugh.
     “Put that away, none wants to see that nasty little thing. It’s so funny looking.  Who would want to look at that?” I pulled them back up, my cheeks burning as I reassumed the position.
      Slap!Slap! SLAP! Three more from her upturned palm straight to my shrinking balls. I hoped at least one would hit the head and offer some much needed stimulation but they all found the target of my soft quivering scrotum, doubling me over once again. I looked up at her with my eyes misting only to see her grab the riding crop.

Some educational excerpts from Uniquely Rika. Though I don’t recommend this book for fetishists, it’s good for beginners and vanilla type D/S relationships.

-minxy

This post isn’t like our normal posts. I’m here to be a little educational today, and address some issues I have read about online and in other blogs.

I have noticed that a lot of men in chastity want to feel small, and not good enough for their partner. Dommes sometimes don’t realize how important this is in a psychological tease. Yes, there is more to teasing than just physical and emotional. You want to get under his skin, and tell him things (you think) will hurt him. He wants you to be mean to him. He needs you to make fun of him.

Here is a little advice for all of you femdommies, dommes, mistresses or what have you. Even if your subby is moderately sized down there, don’t let him think that. You want him to know that he is inferior to you, and that he could never be enough for you.  That’s something he has to work for: to feel like he has earned pleasure or to be teased and denied.

So let’s say your subby has an average sized cock inside his little chastity cage. It’s been a week without letting him out, and, let’s face it, sometimes you miss his little pathetic humps.
Don’t allow it. Instead, try some roleplay. For instance, after I was done teasing my subby into several ruined orgasms, I was sufficiently turned on and was in desperate need for attention- but a little more than just the mouth kind. I wanted a big dick. Obviously,  I’m not going to let me subby fuck me with his. This defeats the entire purpose of you having control over his pleasure and emotional. (Though there are times when intercourse is allowed, we’ll get to that later)

What you need to do is have him wear a strap on over his chastity cage. If you’re like me, and don’t always like the feeling of a fake dong, you can have him run it under hot water for a few minutes,  and lube it up so it feels more real. I wore a blindfold this time, and we pretended that he (sissyboy) was someone else. We roleplayed that he was a more masculine man, fucking me better than my subby ever could.

Ladies: even if you think your man has a big enough part for you,  don’t ever, ever let him know that. Keep him below you,  and wrapped around your finger. Tease the hell out of him about his tiny cock. You can even look up images online of dicks that look better than his (even if you don’t really think so). The point is to keep the fantasy alive so you’re both happy and in a healthy chaste relationship.

Now, onto the next part. When you can allow intercourse. Sometimes the occasional, “I feel bad for you,” intercourse is okay… but try not to let him finish. Most of the time when I ride my subby, it’s after I have ruined his orgasms so many times that he can hardly squeeze anymore out.  That way, he doesn’t cum, and I can hump him to completion and feel like I had good, fulfilling sex. It’s even more fulfilling because I had control the entire time. If you don’t like being on top, I suggest getting numbing agents so he doesn’t accidentally squirt all over you.  We wouldn’t want that.

I hope this was somewhat helpful. If you’re a subby reading this, and you have these issues, discuss them with your domme. These issues are very important and need to be adressed in order to keep your relationship happy and healthy. If you’re a domme reading this, congratulations! You don’t need to take all of my advice, but it certainly helps! Change it up a bit. Do what feels right for both of you.

With love,
-minxy

I’m in a deep sleep, dreaming… in this dream, I (Minxy) am coercing a man to have sex with me. We’re kissing passionately, and he holds me tightly and forces his tongue down my throat. 

I slowly start to wake up. Still lucid, I roll around our bed in a state of arousal. I feel my little sissyboy behind me, holding me, and his little cage pressed up against my butt. I realize now that there is no stallion kissing me, and that my dream was a misinterpretation of my sissy snuggling me in bed.

Half awake, I’m still fantasizing of this mysteriously sexy man. How wonderful it would be to be fucked again, by someone bigger, stronger and more masculine than my sissyboy.

-minxy

Happy Valentine’s Day fellow subbies, chasties, dommes, sissies and goddesses.

Remember, just because it’s Valentine’s Day doesn’t mean you get to take off your chastity device. Make sure all of you femdommies tease your subby a lot today… and subbies, make sure you’re extra respectful to your domme today, especially if you want to be let out early.

Lots of love,
-Minxy

Another excerpt from Female Domination by Elise Sutton.