Goodbye 2013! I will simply call it my “Comfort Zone” year.
Welcome 2014! My first resolution is to get out of this “Comfort Zone”.
Goodbye 2013! I will simply call it my “Comfort Zone” year.
Welcome 2014! My first resolution is to get out of this “Comfort Zone”.
اصدقائي اللي تابعوني وانا بحط كل يوم برامج رمضان الدينية وعارفة انه بعضكم كانوا بيستنوها كل يوم, شكرا جزيلا على تشجيعكم ليا اني مكسلش في الموضوع ده باللايك او التعليقات او حتى انكم تفكروني لما اتأخر شوية 🙂
يا رب تكونوا استفدتم بالموضوع ده ويجعله في ميزان حسناتنا كلنا.
اللهم اقبل منا صيامنا وصلاتنا وقيامنا ودعائنا في هذا الشهر الكريم.
كل سنة وانتم طيبين ويا رب يبلغنا رمضان القادم ان شاء الله
يا رب يجمعنا علي خيري الدنيا والاخرة
.العيدية بقى: انا جمعت اللينكات كلها في اكسيل شيت وكمان زودت برنامج خواطر علشان فيه ناس كانت بتتفرج عليه
انشروها بقى علشان توصل لأكبر عدد ممكن والفائدة تعم ونكسب كلنا الثواب
علشان انا متعودة اعمل Root Cause Analysis لأي حاجة تحصل (مهندسة ومتبرمجة اعمل كده غصب عني), ده رؤيتي لاسباب اللي بيحصل في اول انتخابات رئاسية بعد الثورة:
بعد هذا التحليل المتواضع الشخصي, اقول “ان الله لا يغير ما بقوم حتى يغيروا ما بأنفسهم”, فمن الواضح اننا لم نتغير بما يكفي حتى ينصرنا الله النصر القوي فأعنا يا الله على تغيير انفسنا حتى ترضى عنا ونستطيع بناء دولة مدنية على اسس العدل والتسامح والحب وتقبل الأخر بكل اختلافاته.
One year passed,thank you ya #ALLAH for such a bless in my life and forgive me for all the times I didn’t appreciate it #QuitSmoking
— Islam Samy (@Zero__King) April 3, 2012
This was the beginning of some tweets from a friend who DID successfully quit smoking from exactly ONE year.
I found them very inspiring even for me although I am not smoking, but I found they can inspire anyone who wants to quit any bad habit he has.
Dear cigarette , I may miss you …but I missed my health much more…
#QuitSmoking
Do you think you own yourself to the degree to ruin it for nothing in return?!
#QuitSmokingLooking inside your future kid’s eyes,don’t you think he deserves a better father?!
#QuitSmokingDoes your wife deserve to smell your breaths full of dirty smoke smell each time?!
#QuitSmokingWhen the last time you tried to run 20 meters without that feeling that your heart will leave your chest forever?!
#QuitSmokingDid not miss the smell of fresh air in the morning invading your lungs?!
#QuitSmokingSearch inside yourself, everybody smoke for a reason….
#QuitSmokingDon’t know the reason, so what is the use of insisting doing something you don’t know why doing it ?!
#QuitSmokingLike hospitals?,, no,,, you should start practicing to like them…
#QuitSmokingYou are special without making such an action, believe in this….
#QuitSmokingYou are not the Hollywood movie star when you are smoking that Cigar!!
#QuitSmokingWhat you will say on the grave answering “عن جسمك ،، فيما أبليت “?!
#QuitSmokingYou will feel the achievement when you quit, the achievement in standing against yourself and beat it!
#QuitSmoking“I would die anyway” smoker said,, yes, you are right but don’t kill yourself by your own hands!
#QuitSmoking“I am okay now, I will quit one day”,, well…. this day seems to be never coming…
#QuitSmokingWhen you quit, there will be no background music, no special ceremony, you will just stop it!!….
#QuitSmokingFor God sake, didn’t you ever feel like a damn prisoner, a fool following nonsense?!….
#QuitSmokingLife is not long my friend, make full use of time, money and health…..
#QuitSmokingWhat are your capitals??,, I think they are my good health and youth, okay why you are ruining your most important capital?
#QuitSmokingSmoking is not an activity, it is something you do cause you do not want to do other things.. Fill your spare time…
#QuitSmokingImagine that the money spent in a month on smoking for one person can cure some other person diseased
#QuitSmokingYou “SURE” can quit but you don’t want to do it now,, smoker said,, okay you are weak enough to believe this lie!
#QuitSmokingOne cigarette is like 10,, the bug is on the concept basically….
#QuitSmoking
That T-shirt is more black than your lungs dude, just a black damn joke 😀
#QuitSmokingHow you can explain it when you see a younger friend or brother smokes taking after you ?!
#QuitSmokingTried and failed, okay,, try again and again, it is more important than anything else
#QuitSmokingGiving up smoking comes without any prior notification, I kept the packet in the drawer and just quit …no more…
#QuitSmokingDamn the diseases and illnesses and your health,, don’t you feel weak bounded to such small thing and behavior ??!
#QuitSmokingCan you imagine your best moments in life…. while smoke take its part anyway or anyhow from the scene?!!
#QuitSmokingYou are so responsible to the degree that you smoke now and want somebody else take care of you later??!
#QuitSmokingThink about motivation to help you,,… good health is not a motivation, Reda from ALLAH is not too??
#QuitSmokingIt is never too late to quit smoking, if you just have one day of your life left, live it as it should be….
#QuitSmokingSunset is also beautiful without smoking, coffee breaks can do without smoking….
#QuitSmokingMay be you will lose many things when you quit, but you will lose much more if you hold and insist…
#QuitSmokingNeed help, ask it from your beloved persons,, they will help you and support you….
#QuitSmokingAfraid to feel ordinary? well.. you are not.. you have just came back from river’s other side… Is that ordinary?!
#QuitSmokingSmoking help thinking?? …. mmmm…. it is clear… from your thoughts!!!!
#QuitSmokingI can stop whenever I want….. LIAR.. Stop now if you can!!
#QuitSmokingI just smoke 2 cigarettes per day…. mm…. as if 2 cigarettes per day keep the doctor away!!
#QuitSmokingDon’t you think ever that your daughter hate your teeth outlook while you give her dady’s supposed beautiful smile?!
#QuitSmokingMy family are all smokers, so I can not give up ….. Start with yourself and may be you have an influence on them..
#QuitSmoking“Cancer come even to non-smokers, huh”, well…you are right, but probabilities are higher for smokers.. Be logical..
#QuitSmokingDo you think your wife or fiancee like you smoking??…. She just loves you enough to bear your foolish actions..
#QuitSmokingWhy you feel ashamed of smoking when somebody you respect is passing in front of you??… If it is something normal?!
#QuitSmokingTake the lead by quitting,, may be you inspire others… and become a living proof that it could happen…. once upon time….
#QuitSmokingDon’t be alone, get busy, read, work, do sports, work on your hobbies, spend time with family…
#QuitSmokingSmokers make fun of you, look at them and smile. You are a nightmare to them, a man defeat his laziness, a man take over his life..
#QuitSmokingDon’t count days which you don’t smoke… When you count,, it means you care, and you don’t give a damn now!!
#QuitSmokingYou can write that on your resume…. it will show them that you have the guts…. you can do whatever it takes!!
#QuitSmokingTell everyone when you quit, try to protect yourself from your bad version… “I will seem so goofy if I smoke again”….
#QuitSmokingRemember, you lived a life before being a smoker and You can get back to this life.. not a big deal. Off the road.. then on the road..
#QuitSmokingIf you smoke 1 cigarette even after quitting, it is not one cigarette. It is dishonor, terrible defeat a face broken in a mirror
#QuitSmokingStay low for a while on the beginning… Go far from things remind you of smoking…. Force non-tendency….
#QuitSmokingYour choices really say who you are….. You smoking says much…. You quitting says much too!
#QuitSmokingDo you know that you still have to ask ALLAH for forgiveness for all those cigarettes you smoked??….
#QuitSmokingDo it for the one you love, Do it for ALLAH…. Do it for yourself…..
#QuitSmoking
I have changed my lifestyle.I have turned my table,twisted my fate…created a newer version of me……can you ?? #Quitsmoking
— Islam Samy (@Zero__King) April 4, 2012
These are the tweets I liked best, but you can find all the tweets on Twitter Search: #QuitSmoking from:Zero__King
J’ai changé mon jeans en un pantalon classique et aussi mis mes chaussures en cuirs. J’ai mis un peu de maquillage pour qu’il voit la dame que je suis maintenant et non pas la petite adolescente qu’il avait connu.
– Est-ce que c’est trop? Non, il doit voir que j’ai changé. Est-ce que ça va être le même quand il voit ces changements? J’espère bien qu’il soit le même? Est-ce qu’il a aussi changé? Est-ce qu’il est devenu l’homme en charge de sa vie au lieu du jeune qui était amoureux, jaloux et rempli de vie et folie parfois?
Le voila, il me téléphone pour me dire qu’il est proche. J’ai entendu sa claire voix après toutes ces années. C’est lui, le même je crois. Maintenant, je le vois dans son manteau et me cherchant avec ces yeux. On s’est trouvé finalement et maintenant, qu’est ce qu’il faut faire? Je n’ai aucune idée. Je ne sais pas même comment le saluer. Juste main dans la main et une simple “Comment ca va?” ou une grande “Tu me manques beaucoup” avec toute la chaleur de ces années.
Il m’a tendu sa main, j’ai tendu la mienne et POOUUFF!!! je suis retournée 8 ans. Je suis maintenant la petite adolescente qui avait quelques bizarres sentiments pour un étranger qu’elle a connu pour juste une semaine. Je ne pouvais pas cesser à sourire et je ne me rappelle plus qu’est ce qu’on disait. Je ne me souviens maintenant que je suis sur la lune avec une personne très spéciale pour moi.
On a mangé, on s’est baladé, pris des photos et sans le sentir, on a commencé a raconter nos histoires d’amour. Ca fait beaucoup je ne me suis pas senti à l’aise avec quelqu’un en lui racontant quelque chose si personnelle. Et sur un café, plus de deux heures de chit-chat sur toutes sortes de choses. Il ne cessait pas de raconter et je voulais bien écouter. Mêmes nos silences étaient beaux et remplis de mots.
De temps en temps, il me donnait ce regard dans mes yeux dont je me souviens très bien depuis 8 ans. Le même regard n’a pas changé. Ce même regard que je sens plein d’un pur amour et de quelque jalousie et puis il me dit quelque chose j’entends pour la première fois: que j’ai encore les mêmes yeux très “شقية” et qu’il ne peut pas les résister. Vraiment, j’avais cet effet sur lui? Et il apparaît que cet effet est toujours là exactement comme son effet sur moi.
Pendant tout le chemin en retournant, on a parlé comment rien n’a changé, comment 8 ans sont passés en un clin d’oeil et comment on sentait qu’on s’est juste laissé la semaine dernière.
C’est une des plus belles nuits de ma vie que je n’oublierai jamais comme celle quand je l’ai rencontré pour la première fois.
“Even now, I believe that for the most part, love is about choices. It’s about putting down the poison and the dagger and making your own happy ending… most of the time. And sometimes, despite all your best intentions, fate wins anyway.”
“Too much of anything, even love, is not always a good thing.”
“All anyone needs is someone to step in and let us know we’re not alone”
“What’s important is that we never stop believing we can have a new beginning, but it’s also important to remember that, amid all the crap, there are a few things worth holding on to.”
“No matter how hard we try to ignore or deny it, eventually the lies fall away, like it or not. But here’s the truth about the truth. It hurts. So we lie.”
“I need something to happen. I just need a sign. I need a reason to go on. I need some hope, and in the absence of hope, I need to stay in bed and feel like I might die today.”
“There’s no such thing as a grown-up. We get bigger, taller, older. But, for the most part, we’re still a bunch of kids, running around the playground, trying desperately to fit in.”
“I’ve heard that it’s possible to grow up, I’ve just never met anyone who’s actually done it. Without parents to defy, we break the rules we make for ourselves. And we hope against all logic, against all experience, like children, we never give up hope.”
“There comes a point in your life, when you’re officially an adult. Suddenly, you’re old enough to vote, drink and engage in other adult activities. Suddenly, people expect you to be responsible, serious, a grown-up. We get taller, we get older. But do we ever really grow up? In some ways we grow up; we have families… we get married, divorced… but for the most part we still have the same problems that we did when we were fifteen. No matter how much we grow taller, grow older, we are still forever stumbling… forever wondering, forever… young.”
“We all think we’re going to be great and we feel a little bit robbed when our expectations aren’t met. But sometimes expectations sell us short. Sometimes the expected simply pales in comparison to the unexpected. You got to wonder why we cling to our expectations, because the expected is just what keeps us steady. Standing. Still, the expected is just the beginning, the unexpected is what changes our lives.”
“The expected is what keeps us steady. It’s the unexpected that changes our lives forever.”
“He’s going to wake up and have no one. you’re going to go home and have no one. It’s better to have someone. Even if it’s the most painful thing you have to do. Even if it’s the most painful thing you’ve ever had to do. I think it’s better to have someone.”
“At some point, you have to make a decision. Boundaries don’t keep other people out. They fence you in. Life is messy. That’s how we’re made. So, you can waste your lives drawing lines. Or you can live your life crossing them. But there are some lines… that are way too dangerous to cross.”
“The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing, not curing, not healing and face with us the reality of our powerlessness, that is a friend who cares.”
“So love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who don’t, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance, take it. If it changes your life, let it. Nobody said that it’d be easy, they just promised it would be worth it. Eventually feels a lot better than actually.”
“Knowing is better than wondering, that waking is better than sleeping, and even the biggest failure, even the worst, beats the hell out of never trying.”
“Friends are the family we choose.”
“I just need something to happen, I need a sign that things are going to change. I need a reason to go on. I need some hope! And in the absence of hope, I need to stay in bed and feel like I’m going to die today.”
“Enough is enough. But at other times, there’s no such thing as enough, the glass is botomless… All we want is more.”
“Nobody likes to lose control, It’s a sign of weakness, of not being up to the task. No matter how hard you fight it, you fall. It’s scary as hell. Except there’s an upside to the free fall. It’s the chance you give your friends to catch you.”
“The world of pretend is a cage, not a cocoon. We can only lie to ourselves for so long. We are tired, we are scared, and denying it doesn’t change the truth. Sooner or later we have to put aside our denial and face the world, head on, guns blazing… Denial. It’s not just a river in Egypt. It’s a freakin’ ocean. So how do you keep from drowning in it?”
“Pain, you have to face it, you can’t outrun it, because life always makes more”
“Whoever said ‘What you don’t know can’t hurt you,’ was a complete and total moron. Because for most people I know, not knowing is the worst feeling in the world.”
“Sometimes it’s better to stay in the dark. In the dark, there may be fear but there’s also hope.”
“Communication. It’s the first thing we really learn in life. The funny thing is, once we grow up, learn our words and really start talking, the harder it becomes to know what to say. Or how to ask for what we really need.”
All of us have all kind of friends: casual friends, work friends, close friends, best friends. But this last weekend I discovered I have the best kind of friends that I believe a lot of people do not have: “Lifetime Friends”.
I actually do not remember how was our first meeting, maybe it was a great one, maybe it was not a very good one. I do not know how or why I picked them to be my closest friends or maybe they picked me. I think it was something spontaneous because we were very young to even think about it. We grew up together, did everything together, went everywhere together, wept together, laughed till having tears together and learned life together.
Life did not let us be always the closest to each other as we were in our childhood due to a lot of things, but what is between us remained deeply the same even if we don’t always feel it. I am not even able to describe it.
I only felt it as soon as I saw one of those lifetime friends’ sparkling and glowing in her engagement dress and coming hand in hand with her fiancé. I immediately found tears in my eyes, I felt happiness i can never ever describe although distance separated us for a looong time since we left school. At this moment, I felt that our friendship was built stronger than anything, stronger than distance and time and any circumstances. I felt i am the luckiest to have this kind of friends that a very small minority have.
I simply love you my dearest friends, you will always be the closest to my heart.
This is an article I just read about writing code and here is what I liked the most and actually faced a lot in real life:
Rewrite It: If it’s broken, don’t fix it. Rewrite it.
Stop Designing, Start Coding: Your program will always be better off if you spend a day writing it 6 times, rather than designing it 6 times and writing it once.
Code Is For People To Read: Only as a side-effect is it for computers to run.
Correctness Wins: If you don’t have enough time to do things right, then don’t do them.
Have you ever had a best friend that you loved so much, had a lot in common and lots of good memories together and then suddenly you became strangers? I had, and unfortunately it was more than once and with different type of friends. With school and childhood friends, I said we have grown up and changed so we are not the same persons anymore. With college friends, I began to discover some attitudes that I didn’t like so I decided that I don’t want these persons to be close to me anymore. With some other friends, it was simply life that got us apart. It was the circumstances around us that prevented us from being friends anymore. Despite everything good that was (and sometimes I think it still is) between us, we cannot be friends anymore. We are strangers, or pretend to be.
The bigger problem is when I still bump into these persons frequently; either they are neighbors, or there is some common friends so we have to go out together sometimes, or we work at the same place. And the world is really small so I have to be always prepared to surprises! I have to be prepared how I will react with those persons. Will I just ignore them and pretend they are not here? Or will I throw a casual “Hi” like I do with persons I don’t know? Or will I act normally and go into normal conversations with them? I tried all of this and each time I feel awkward. Each time I begin to think again: “What the hell happened?!?!?”
Each friend I have really impacts me in a way that I feel I carry a part of him always with me. So, when we become strangers, I feel this part is missing. Each friend has his own part and no other friend can replace it. Up till now, I don’t know how to deal with these missing parts. That’s why:
“I hate loosing people”