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فى الأعدادية كنت باخد دروس مع زميل شاطر أوى…كان المدرسين دايما يدولوا فلوس فى الدرس عشان بيحل صح وبسرعة وكنت بغير منه. بمرور الوقت كنت بذاكر و اجتهد اكتر عشان ابقى زيه. كنا اعز صحاب على مدار 5 سنين اعدادى و ثانوى و جبت فى الثانوى 97%. كان ليه أثر كبير عليا فى المستواي التعليمى بس كنا مبنركعهاش

دخلت الكليه و اول شهر كان عبارة عن اعاد مع شلل صحابنا ولاد و بنات و ضحك و تهريج ومش فاهم اى حاجة فى المواد. حصل موقف مع حد فى الشله وقررت اسيبها. سعتها كان فى طالب من اعجاب دكتور المادة بأجابته نزل من المدرج و باس دماغه. المهم قولت ده الطالب اللى قعد جنبه. طلعت 13 الدفعه الترم ده. بس برده بين الوحد وربنا مسافة كبيييييرة

فى واحدة من الشغلانات اللى أشتغتلها كان صاحبى شخص ملتزم و كنت ملازمه على مدار 9 شهور. خلال و بعد الفترة ده اتخلصت من حاجات كتير غلط فى حياتى و التزمت بالصلاة و ما أدراك ما صلاة الفجر. الواحد لسه قدامه كتير لحد ما الباطن يبقى أقرب الى الله …بس الحمد لله

المرء على دين خليله فلينظر أحدكم من يُخَالِل

أيها الشباب، أين المفر؟ العذوبية تقتلكم من ورائكم، والزواج أمامكم، وليس لكم إلا الصدق والصبر، واعلموا أنكم في هذه التجربة لستم الاولين…واسئال مجرب يابنى ولا تسئلش طبيب

حبيت انقل لكم شئ من خبرتى فى موضوع الخطوبة…لعلها تفيد احد ان شاء الله. مجموعة من الخواطر فى عدة اتجاهات لعلها تعينك على اسعاد الاخر وشعوره انك الشخص المناسب

أ – ماذا تريد الفتاة؟

لا اعلم! لست انثى…دعنى اخمن

تريد ان تشعر بالامان حينا تنتقل لبيتك..فهى ستترك كل اهلها لتكون كل اهلها…واعلم ان الكذب احد افتك الادوات للقضاء على هذا الشعور…ايضا كلما اتضحت معالم شخصيتك زال الغموض..فاحرص على ان تبين شخصيتك

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فى اخر مرة اتكلمت عن تأثير البيئة..وعن ثورة بدائتها على نفسى أملاً منها ان تكون مرجعية تصرفاتى هيا دينى وليس ما ترسمه لى البيئة المحيطة…

كيف بدأ التغيير وما علاقته بالزواج؟

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تربيت فى اسرة بسيطة شأنها شأن كثيراً من الأسر المصرية الرائعة و لكن…رغم كونهم مسليمين…الدين ليس الحكم فى تصرفاتهم انما ارائهم و خبراتهم التى اكتسبوها فى الحياة…والتى الدين جزء منها

و يستطيع الأنسان ان يرصد فى البيوت المصرية العديد من الافعال التى لا ترضى الله…ولكن للممجتمع مبرارته العجيبة…فاذا قلت لخالتك ان لبس ابنتها لا يرضى الله…قالت انها صغيرة ولسه ماتجوزتش و بكرة تعقل…واذا قلت لصديقك ان فرحك بكل هذا الرقص و التنطيط و الأختلاط لا يرضى الله…قال ده ليله فى العمر…ولا تجد من يقول فعلاً لم اكن اعلم …ان صح كلامك ساتبعك و اترك هواى

و لكن ليس هذا الجزء المضحك

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oops…هللو أفرى بودى…ميس يو ألل

معلش يا رجالة…جديد على الكتابة بالعربى

ايها المواطنون…فى هذه الظروف العصيبة التى تمر بها البلاد…قرر المهندس مصطفى سعد ابراهيم… تخليه عن الصياعة و العزبية… و كلف الاسرة الفاضلة بتولى مسئولية البحث عن العروسة

طبعاً كل شاب يبحث عن الفتاء اللى يكمل بيه نص التانى أو يقضى بيه على نصه الأولانى..وفه كذا طريقة عشان تلاقى الفتاء ده

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SA,

I was checking my last post (The one written by me), It was at 14/1/2009. WooW.  More than a year passed and I have not blogged anything. Too bad :(, will try to do a back. :), I have many thoughts to talk about.

Today post is a bit new than others. I used to talk about my thoughts & situation.  This time, I am blogging about a change in mind. Change in my thoughts, that definitely will affects my attitude in next stages.

BTW, I am a person who thinks much in his thoughts and update them.  So, be careful. You may read a post for me about my opinion in something, and nowadays you may find me have totally a different opinion! Do not know either this is good or not!

OK let’s focus on the updated thought. Today, I have 1.5 year experience in teaching; I passed with a mix of feelings, between too frustrated & too happy.

Why too frustrated? From the college course! Much routine! and the worst, the students. Most of students attend for catching more grades. Rarely meeting who come to learn new thing.  Rarely meeting interested students. Most of them come for grades (Sorry, but specially girls). Sometimes you are explaining very trivial lesson, and you told them what you will describe. A simple expected thing, should be that, the best students [In terms of grades] will not come, they can manage such lesson in home, in more efficient way [in terms of time], although so, you find them come (Although no attendance).

Why too happy? From ACM activity! I backed to train juniors. The best thing, you find yourself facing around 50 student, 30 of them may be too interested, pushing you to do your best to learn them, and this time, No grades!

I met my favorite TA, Eng Wahab, and talked with him about that, he told me he like teaching and is too happy when he can change a student. He mentioned his last experiment in algorithms course, and how he managed to catch some students, and push them to think & solve [shal el torab elly fe dem3’hom]. Some times you meet very good people, they just wait who help, push and motivate.

2 days ago, I was thinking about the sheikh in mosque. Who are the attendees? People in such bad age, are doing terrible things in their life. An age where even basics are understood wrongly, people acting with their own definitions for what is right and what is wrong!

If the sheikh thought that after his lesson most of these people will change, then he does not know anything about the hard task he accepted to do. If he get bored from repeating and trying to motivate and warn again & again then he is in the wrong place!

I remembered “لئن يهدي الله بك رجل واحد خير لك من حمر النعم صدق الرسول الكريم”. That is too important point, accepting being one of those who have to change/educate others is a hard task. If you accepted it, do not expect much. You will not influence hundreds of them. But, you still can change some of them & can remind others that they can change.

Doing a simple mapping, college like mosque, sheikh like teacher and mosque attendee like students. A teacher faces same situation. This means a bigger challenge. You wanna affect more students, inspire & motivate them. Whatever through college or private course or activities, it is your turn to do it. you accepted such role, and you have to do it in the right way!

That is my new thought; I will not be frustrated again when having a class. Just doing my best and trying to guide as much as possible.

Hope this article ideas are organized, and hope my updated thoughts are not too wrong, else they will be changed again 😀

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Finally, Mostafa Saad Ibrahim is a Teaching Assistant.

May be it is not important thing for many people, but for me, it means much and much.

When I was at first year, I used to explain for my friends what they did not understand. They always gave me impression that I am good in explaining. This setuped up my goal to be TA and thanks God, another dream of mine is achieved.

Let’s write it here again, 12/10/2008 Mostafa Saad taught his first Lab. It was SWE1 Lab for DS students. They were really nice.

And now, let’s move to the part that i wished to share it here.

When the schedule was about to appear, I wished to have programing2 subject. I was upset to have SWE not prog2. After that, I was again more sad to be with DS not CS. And also I wished not be with my friend Islam, so that we deal with an older TA and gain experience.

We should always accept what Allah selected for us. The prog2 will be studied in Java with Arabic. Many TA and students say it is disaster if it will be that way. Also CS/IS SWE1 students like army, not group of students. Their TAs suffers from explaining again and again, setuping software in many machines. Really much todo. More students in Lab, more effort needed.

Thanks God for my 20 DS student. They were really easy to manage and just small number of machine to handle.

Finally, Eslam and me, were perfect. We set the plan for the Lab together. Also we criticize other TAs, and set solutions for thier problems. In the lab, I feel as a decision Maker as I used to be. If I was with an older TA, I will just be the new baby TA who should follow their strategies most of time.

Although I did not get anything from what I wished, I believe that I got now the best combination. Thanks God for ur selections for me.