I had planned on writing on the practical side of holding a strong theology of words soon after I published my last blog. However, I was quickly overwhelmed by the abundance of references to speech in Proverbs. The frequency of passages dealing either with the effects of our words and of words as evidence of character was beyond even what I had expected. I’ve posted a short list (probably less than half) at the end of this blog, in case any of you want to see a bit of what I mean.
From a quick survey in Proverbs one can see that the words of the righteous are in stark contrast to the words of the foolish and evil. Righteous speak words of blessing, life, healing, and advocacy (Proverbs 10:11, 11:11, 12:18, 31:8-9). Fools and the wicked speak words of violence, destruction, curses, perversion, and general evil (10:6, 11, 32; 11:9, 11; 12:6; 15:28). The wise are able to restrain their words, and even the foolish are thought to be wise by the same principle (17:27-28). The stewardship of words creates the atmosphere for them to receive the value they deserve. As words are treated with care, precision, and scarcity the power they contain is released (10:19-20; 12:18-19; 13:3; 15:23, 28; 25:11). Those who don’t live by these principles find themselves in ruin and the recipients of violence (10:6, 7; 14:3).
The Lord isn’t flippant, careless, or crass with His words. There is an intentionality behind everything that God has spoken, is speaking and will speak. From the words He has given is in written form, we know that His words do not return void (Isaiah 55:11). The challenge of this for me is that as a child of God I should also steward my words. It is a great responsibility of all Christ followers to take seriously the weight of opening their mouths. There is a call in Proverbs to consider how we speak to the world around us through intonation and content of what we say, for by our words we affect the lives of people and communities around us. Let us all chose to be life givers, healers and those who give blessing.
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A brief selection of Proverbs concerned with words (emphasis added):
Proverbs 10:6-32 (select verses) Blessings are on the head of the righteous, but the mouth of the wicked conceals violence. (8) The wise of heart will receive commandments, but a babbling fool will come to ruin. (10) Whoever winks the eye causes trouble, but a babbling fool will come to ruin.(11) The mouth of the righteous is a fountain of life, but the mouth of the wicked conceals violence. (13) On the lips of him who has understanding, wisdom is found, but a rod is for the back of him who lacks sense. (14) The wise lay up knowledge, but the mouth of a fool brings ruin near. (18) The one who conceals hatred has lying lips, and whoever utters slander is a fool. (19) When words are many, transgression is not lacking, but whoever restrains his lips is prudent. (20) The tongue of the righteous is choice silver; the heart of the wicked is of little worth. (21) The lips of the righteous feed many, but fools die for lack of sense. (31) The mouth of the righteous brings forth wisdom, but the perverse tongue will be cut off. (32) The lips of the righteous know what is acceptable, but the mouth of the wicked, what is perverse.
Proverbs 11:9 With his mouth the godless man would destroy his neighbor, but by knowledge the righteous are delivered.
Proverbs 11:11 By the blessing of the upright a city is exalted, but by the mouth of the wicked it is overthrown.
Proverbs 12:6 The words of the wicked lie in wait for blood, but the mouth of the upright delivers them.
Proverbs 12:14 From the fruit of his mouth a man is satisfied with good, and the work of a man’s hand comes back to him.
Proverbs 12:18-19 There is one whose rash words are like sword thrusts, but the tongue of the wise brings healing. (19) Truthful lips endure forever, but a lying tongue is but for a moment.
Proverbs 12:25 Anxiety in a man’s heart weighs him down, but a good word makes him glad.
Proverbs 13:2-3 From the fruit of his mouth a man eats what is good, but the desire of the treacherous is for violence. (3) Whoever guards his mouth preserves his life; he who opens wide his lips comes to ruin.
Proverbs 14:3 By the mouth of a fool comes a rod for his back, but the lips of the wise will preserve them.
Proverbs 15:1 A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.
Proverbs 15:23 To make an apt answer is a joy to a man, and a word in season, how good it is!
Proverbs 15:26 The thoughts of the wicked are an abomination to the LORD, but gracious words are pure.
Proverbs 15:28 The heart of the righteous ponders how to answer, but the mouth of the wicked pours out evil things.
Proverbs 16:24 Gracious words are like a honeycomb, sweetness to the soul and health to the body.
Proverbs 17:27-28 Whoever restrains his words has knowledge, and he who has a cool spirit is a man of understanding. (28) Even a fool who keeps silent is considered wise; when he closes his lips, he is deemed intelligent.
Proverbs 18:4 The words of a man’s mouth are deep waters; the fountain of wisdom is a bubbling brook.
Proverbs 18:6-8 A fool’s lips walk into a fight, and his mouth invites a beating. (7) A fool’s mouth is his ruin, and his lips are a snare to his soul. (8) The words of a whisperer are like delicious morsels; they go down into the inner parts of the body.
Proverbs 21:23 Whoever keeps his mouth and his tongue keeps himself out of trouble.
Proverbs 25:11 A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in a setting of silver.
Proverbs 31:8-9 Open your mouth for the mute, for the rights of all who are destitute. (9) Open your mouth, judge righteously, defend the rights of the poor and needy.