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This is what I’m looking for when I say the word weakness. I want to reach You in profoundly important ways …such as, allowing you to be weak with me. And by now we all understand I’m not simply talking about the “submissive” weakness of sex play; rather, I’ll invite you, allowing you to go safely to deep, vulnerable places within yourself that you’ve probably dare not go with anyone else.
The storytelling reflection which ends with the aching with anticipation is just wonderful. As You well know, I realize I am appealing to the older, wiser crowd here–those who can truly appreciate delay, aching, surprise, vulnerability….
It is my belief and hope that I offer my men something that is not easily attainable elsewhere. What truly matters, what is truly exciting for me (and I hope for You) is the relationship we build with each other over time rather than during some single “hot” sexy call. From our equal vantage point it is far more enticing if we both see the value of building a long-term relationship with each other. Certainly relationships exist at many levels; but it is relationships that allow for the building of trust and for the willingness to become truly vulnerable. I don’t want to simply have a single “hot” conversation with You. Rather, I want to have a special, permanent place in Your world. It is a place for You of safety, of wonder, of surprise, of aching, of needing, of craving, of vulnerability–and of excitement You have not yet imagined. I want to become a secret treasure in Your life.
Just some thoughts…
Yours, Kris
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What can I say about my men?
I know, “my men” sounds of such ego. But they are my men. Over the years I’ve been blessed to know a lot of wonderful men.
I listened to them. I felt them. They shared parts of themselves with me that others in their lives have never met. I am honored they trusted me to be the confidant of their private desires.
To my men who are no longer on this earth, god I miss you. I miss the us we created taking each other to heights that I was certain we couldn’t possibly reach again. Yet we continued to top those erotic moments. I think of you so often. I still talk to you. I know you hear my thank you for being a part of my life and feel my gratitude for allowing me to be by your side while we shared your private sensual journey. In a beautiful secretive way we are forever connected. That thought makes me smile. I’ve enjoyed my livelihood since 2001 and working in my field this long, I’ve accepted I will loose many of you. Sadly, I have. It is my men that are no longer here with us that I honor tonight.
I thank you for finding me.
Yours Always, Kris
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I had such grandiose ideas of a 2021 posting…
I heard a perfect saying recently. The days can be so long, and the years just fly by. I feel that.
By the time I wanted to write again, our nations politics continues to rear its ugly head. No politics here. Just breathe.
I truly believe everyone needs to masturbate and calm the fuck down, she said in her sexy voice.
My wish, is that you stay safe, stay healthy, and remember I am here to help you enjoy ourselves.
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The sun is surprisingly hot beating heat through the windows, while outside is the cool crisp reminder that the air still belongs to autumn.
A hot cup of apple cider gently spiked with brandy…
A relaxing afternoon…
Sweet masturbation…
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Cooler mornings. Cooler evenings. Wrapping our heads around the abrupt darkness arriving far too early in our day. However, it slows us down, as hibernation is meant to.
The autumn vibrancy of colors in the sunrise and sunsets, are ripe with oranges and golden hues.
Slowing us down…not just our mammal bodies, but our sexual selves. Enjoy taking longer to make love, to masturbate. Warm yourself with purposeful deeper reaching touches and teasings.
Don’t rush…it’s a long darker time ahead…
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Those colors of autumn.
While I was watching the winds undress the leaves from the trees, I confess a sadness watching the colors being taken and pulled away from such stoic wooden skeletons. The easily discarded vibrant shades of rusts, purples, yellows, reds, golds, oranges, greens, and burgandy that are now making the most beautiful forestland carpet.
I watched as the breeze gently and sometimes roughly swayed each branch up and down, and back and forth forcing its strength upon the branches. I soon realized I was privy to a very private sensual dance in nature. Private, right out in the open? Yes. Because how often do we actually stop and take the time to watch autumn undress?
It was quite sexy seeing the trees nakedness slowly revealed. I didn’t see it as a woman undressing for her lover. I saw it more as the dramatic exaggerated dance of a sexy burlesque performer slowly revealing herself, knowing your eyes were glued to each movement but you could never touch her. She, that magnificent tree was in total control of the show.
Appreciate the swirling leaves, the release of color, and especially the letting go, knowing that it’s the beginnings of a long hibernation leading to renewal.
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I cannot begin to wrap my head around many of the long term results we are all now dealing with in our world. Covid 19, deaths of friends and relatives, loss of jobs, incomes, loss of ourselves, loss of companionships, political climate, racial climate, looting destruction, shootings, climate change, fires in so many states: Colorado, California, Washington, Oregon…it can all feel so hopeless.
This is not to make light of any of the aforementioned issues we all are experiencing, and have touched each of us in a myriad of ways. I simply feel the need to remind myself/us of some more pleasant hopeful moments as autumn approaches.
A change of seasons is upon us. Autumn arrives this month. Take a moment to incorporate any and all of these simple very human pleasing activities.
And then of course after enjoying some apple cider and decorating, there are other pleasures in the new crisp air to be reminded of. There is a different sensuality to be discovered in each season. We should listen to and honor our bodies as they respond to changes in the earth’s temperatures, or adapting to more or less light and darkness. We find we are either craving warmth and adding quilts to beds and layers of clothing, or shedding our multiple layers, sleeping naked in sheets and embracing the warmth.
Allow autumn to influence your sensuality and in turn enhance your sexuality. It is natural, soothing and healing to keep our bodies one with nature. Languish in those quilts. Having layers of clothing to remove is erotic. Sip those warm drinks, and masturbate. Alone and together. Relearn you’re body and your partner’s. Take your time. Slow dow. Savor and enjoy those moments.
Not only is it the season when our bodies are desirous to begin hibernation, but all that is happening around us warrant our attentions and are reminders to take full advantage in those moments, make memories, be appreciative, be kind to others and ourselves. This date alone is a stark reminder that life is short, and control is indeed an illusion.
Slow down. Embrace your sensual sexual self…
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It was recently said to me, that I was an indulgence…
Indulgence:
* a gratification of desire
* an occasion of when you allow someone or yourself to have something enjoyable
* giving way to one’s desires
* giving yourself something that you don’t need
Self Indulgence:
* indulging in one’s own desires, passions, whims, etc.
* to have or do the things you enjoy very much
I confess, looking at an Indulgence in this light, makes me feel very special.
Finally the daylight is longer, and this dreary hibernation of winter is coming to a happy ending.
So looking forward to Indulgences…
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Ever feel alone in your desires, fetishes, kinks?
You are not alone . . .
Your wonderfully erotic thoughts are yours and mine to enjoy together.
Explore and embrace your desires…
I am here. 
The Phone Courtesan 