
I see many people wrestling with how to bring balance, fun and fulfillment to our professional lives. It is easy to get consumed by what we used to call the "tyranny of the urgent." Need to respond to that e-mail, write that report, phone calls to return, meetings to attend. Needless to say, there are times when we DO need to be responsible and work through our to do list
Sadly, however, sometimes these things capture us and we don't even realize that we often play outside the margins of our lives. Stress, anxiety, chaos all seem to follow. That is, WE FAIL!
That is, I fail.
I have adopted (as have a few of my colleagues) these three guidelines to help me work within the appropriate margins:
- Work with likeminded people and not assholes. The latter drain energy (and yes, the description is necessary).
- Have fun! When possible, make your play your work and your work playfull!
- Work together so as to make a greater impact. This, of course, is what I strive to do through REACT Services.
The funny thing is, once you follow rule number one, everything else seems to come together nicely!
A book I read a while back had these helpful comparisons:
Marginless is fatigue; margin is energy
Marginless is red ink; margin is black ink.
Marginless is hurry; margin is calm.
Marginless is anxiety; margin is security.
Marginless is culture; margin is counterculture.
Marginless is the disease; margin is the cure.
So, today I am going to "schedule" escape from e-mail, reports, telephone calls and the like.
Maybe I'll sleep in.
Soak in my hot tub.
Go out to dinner with friends.
Play my guitar.
Walk on the beach.
Write more.
Tennis would be great
Wow, there is much to choose from!
For a great perspective on this topic, see my colleague, Chris Bruno's excellent paper called, "The Danger of Christian Drivenness."