
This is the deepest and most difficult question all Christians
must struggle with during their walk on Earth.
He said to him the third time, “Simon, son of Jonah, do you love Me?”
Peter was grieved because He said to him the third time, “Do you love Me?
(John 21: 17)
But why ask a third time?
In our lives Jesus asks us many times in a single day, “Do you love Me?”
It is easy to say, “I love you”. I hear young people say that they love someone or that they are in love nearly everyday; one week they love one person the next week another. It is easy for man to say I love you to the woman he wants to marry. It is equally easy for that woman to repeat those words. But after marriage after ten or twenty years of marriage do those same two still show their love, their sacrifice through their actions, their faithfulness, their dying to self and give their all to their mate.
Saying you love someone is the easy part, proving that love through your actions and through the pain of self-sacrifice is the true evidence of ones devoted love. Going to work at a job you might not feel fulfilled in, to supply the home with income; bringing home a dozen roses for no reason; making that special dinner when your spouse has lost that youthful appearance; giving up childhood activities to spend time with your own children; staying away from opposite sex relationships even though your heart and flesh burn for that person. This are the actions that show others we love them.
Do we stand up for the unborn children?
Do we stand for one man-one woman Godly marriage?
Do we stand for marriage for life without divorce?
Do we stand for righteousness and holiness in our daily lives?
Do we stand for being good stewards of God’s money?
Jesus asks us daily to prove out our love through our thoughts and actions.
His purpose is to separate us from who we think we are. To remove us from our worldly image and attachment to our personality, our own self-image, our own earthly belief system. We are to be set apart from this world, from the flesh, and from those human thoughts that lead us away from Christ. He wants to break down those old man beliefs, images, self-talk, and replace them with the new man, new beliefs, Christ like image, and God-talk instead of self-talk. By sacrificing our own personalities and accepting His ways we show God that we love Him.
He tells Peter to “Feed My lambs”, “Tend My sheep” and “Feed My sheep”.
As Christians we are to be about God’s work. We are to be giving up our human wants, our self-image, our fleshly desires to tend to His work of bringing others to Christ. We are not needed for God’s work to be done, but doing God’s work is needed for us to grow closer to God. Because we are still in our human form on earth with other humans the best gift we can give back to God is our obedience, sacrifice, humbleness, and love for one another. As Christians we show our love for Him through loving others. By sacrificing we are freed from our earthly chains, we are lifted up through giving up our earthly human self-interests. Obedience to God gives us freedom from our flesh.
He wants to divide our soul and spirit from the flesh and bone,
For the word of God is living and powerful, and sharper than any two-edged sword,
piercing even to the division of soul and spirit, and of joints and marrow,
and is a discerner of the thoughts and intents of the heart.
And there is no creature hidden from His sight,
but all things are naked and open to the eyes of Him to whom we must give account.
(Hebrews 4:12)
He knows the depths of our thoughts, our hearts, and sees our actions. The only response we can have then asked, “Do you love Me” is to pour out our lives to Him, in humble obedience, self-sacrifice, and living our lives by the guidance of the Holy Spirit who is indwelt in us. If we continue to live our lives by our own human selfishness then we cannot say we truly love Him. We have spent our whole earthly lives building up our image, our self-perception of who we are. Christ asks that we let go of the old man and be renewed in Him and replace our old thoughts with Christ like thinking which will reflect Christ like actions.
Jesus says, “You follow Me” regardless of what others do!
Jesus said to him,
“If I will that he remain till I come, what is that to you? You follow Me.”
(John 21: 22)
We cannot look around and watch what others do. We must do what Christ would have us do regardless of the status quo. We must do what Christ would have us do even if our friends, relatives, coworkers, and the modern culture fight against His word and His way. We are to be set apart, sacrificed, humbled and obedient to Him.
Jesus tells us that if we truly love Him we will persecuted during our walk with Him.
Most assuredly, I say to you, when you were younger,
you girded yourself and walked where you wished;
but when you are old, you will stretch out your hands, and another will gird you
and carry you where you do not wish.”
This He spoke, signifying by what death he would glorify God.
And when He had spoken this, He said to him, “Follow Me.”
(John 21 :18)
God Bless, riggword
From Oswald Chambers’ “My Utmost for His Highest”
THE UNDEVIATING QUESTION
“Lovest thou Me?” John 21:17
Peter declares nothing now (cf. Matthew 26:33-35). Natural individuality professes and declares; the love of the personality is only discovered by the hurt of the question of Jesus Christ. Peter loved Jesus in the way in which any natural man loves a good man. That is temperamental love; it may go deep into the individuality, but it does not touch the centre of the person. True love never professes anything. Jesus said – “Whosoever shall confess Me before men,” i.e., confess his love not merely by his words, but by everything he does.
Unless we get hurt right out of every deception about ourselves, the word of God is not having its way with us. The word of God hurts as no sin can ever hurt, because sin blunts feeling. The question of the Lord intensifies feeling, until to be hurt by Jesus is the most exquisite hurt conceivable. It hurts not only in the natural way but in the profound personal way. The word of the Lord pierces even to the dividing asunder of soul and spirit, there is no deception left. There is no possibility of being sentimental with the Lord’s question; you cannot say nice things when the Lord speaks directly to you, the hurt is too terrific. It is such a hurt that it stings every other concern out of account. There never can be any mistake about the hurt of the Lord’s word when it comes to His child; but the point of the hurt is the great point of revelation.
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Paul Harvey was a Good Godly Man!
From Michelle Malkin:
RIP Paul Harvey
By see-dubya • February 28, 2009 09:21 PM
(Post by guest-blogger emeritus See-Dubya)
One of the great voices of authentic heartland America fell silent today. Paul Harvey was doing nationwide conservative talk radio for decades before anyone thought of it as conservative talk radio. Everybody recognizes his distinctive, quirky voice with the…….odd pauses and offbeat emphases, but his success was about far more than his distinctive diction.
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