Move Forward, One Step at A Time

In the vast ocean of life, storm is inevitable, seasons change, days turns into night and so do our circumstances, embracing the reality rather than resisting it gives us the power to control the circumstance, rather than it controls us.

There’s nothing in this world that didn’t happen because we didn’t wanted to. And sometimes life requires us to get lost before you find yourself again. There’s gonna be an absolutely years of smooth and easy flow of your life.

Most of the people nowadays talks about successes, fame, when on the podium, when on top of the world. It is understandable to spread positive vibes, but it is rare we can hear talking about the issues, about failures, what are the lessons.

Sometimes, you have to to have people laugh at you, talk against your back, ridicule you, abandon you, raise brows on you, when you fail. And failure doesn’t always mean when you disappoint them, when you break your promise to them, but when circumstances creates those friction when you felt you’ve been push to the edge of the cliff and nothing to hold on to. Couldn’t sleep thinking of how to pay your debts, when no job, no friends, anxieties, stresses and thought of loosing your mind soon. That is where you dig deep and take the courage to reset, recompose, not to overthink but plan what is the next step. ❤️

Keep moving forward..one step at a time..🥰💪💪

My everyday sanctuary

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KIND REMINDER

Thank you March!

You’ve been awesome, super busy and memorable month.

I wish people would normalize being lost in life.

And just not knowing anything.

Not knowing what your passionate about

Where you want to live, what you want to do, where you want to go – or what lies next

As a society, we normalize going to school

Finding passion, getting a job, finding partner, getting married, having kids

Working hard to earn an honest living..

But what about when shit just doesn’t go that way?

You really just don’t know why you don’t know

Or even where to start so you feel alone.

You feel as though you’re a disappointment to your family.

As if you failed in life, but you haven’t.

It’s ok to not know.

To be lost.

You have your whole life ahead of you to figure things out.

Patience is a virtue

There is no time limit on life.

You don’t need to rush.

Don’t allow society to fixate the narrative of having all your shit together at a certain age.

It is not realistic for most.

Being lost is so much more normal than we think.

And I just wish people would be more transparent about it.

A kind reminder.

Including……ME

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CHECK POINTS

A month of literally constant battle between brain and heart

Wondering why I am, the way I am

Why dream small, when you can dream big!

Want to? or have to?

Can be? or must be?

I know I have to change my mindset.

Or I wasn’t going to be able to finish what I’ve started.

I wish everyday was rainbows and butterflies

But reality check, they aren’t.

So what’s keep holding me back?

Don’t let that feeling get in the way your choices.

Because at the end of the day, there is nothing in between.

We may either be in or out..

Step back or move forward.

Be brave or remain coward!

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UPBEAT DECLARATIONS

I am determined and motivated

I feel great and ready for anything..

I love life and life loves me back

And so today

Anything is possible.

I go for my goals and I reach them

Nothing stands in my way

I am not afraid of anyone or anything anymore..

For I feel confident and all trust in HIM

I believe in myself 100% and I am now ready to live my dreams

I am so lucky to be alive despite of all!

For being alive, is a great place to start.

To enjoy the rain

To rest and chill

To breathe and share the love, and care

To shower hugs to those in pain

And bestow that hope to someone in despair.

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Dear 2023: Affirmation

Promise yourself to be strong

That nothing can disturb your peace of mind

For a peaceful mind creates a peaceful life

As everyone shares their highlights on social media

Don’t feel bad if your life didn’t seem exciting or joyful

Delete everything in your mind

That is not moving you forward

Some of us barely made it through the year

But the important thing is

We’re here!

Ready to go at it again.

I know who I am, and therefore

The opinions, projections, lies, slander that others share

Have no power over me

I am confident in myself and my ways

I know what I stand for and where my heart is

I send peace, love, and healing

To those who seek to harm me.

May we all have a blissful another 365 days of journey around the sun!

Be blessed!

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Year of LOVE

This year has almost gone

It has been a year of changes and challenges

Not all our friends and family made it

Give yourself credit for how you’ve handled this year

You’ve been working overtime on your dreams

Figuring your direction

Taking care of your mental health

Trying to feel comfortable in your skin

Building your connections

Ah yes! It’s Christmas!

The best gift is you!

When you are truly friend and brother of every human being.

When you forgive and reestablish peace, even when you suffer in silence

When on the edge of hope

And trying to hold it all together

You remained calm and gave all you you’ve got

Kodus to you!

For keeping that faith alive.

My heart is full of love this year.

I do wish the same to you!

And so, sharing my blessing…

Of a Merry and Love-filled Christmas from us to you!

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I Am

I am an individual

With enumerable experiences

There’s a complete uniqueness to my essence

Even though in the days where I completely lost and struggles in mundane

There is still uniqueness to my path

Uniqueness to my experiences,

A unique trace of my history, my struggle, my frailty, my vulnerability, my skill

The way I look at the world, the things that makes me smile,

Things that makes me laugh,

Laughter that colors my world to see love

A love that gives me hope, to embrace the “I AM”

That single sunbeam in the window

Drives away my shadows of grief and sorrow

Life gets in the way sometimes

And I’m ready for it

There’s a huge heart in the world out there

But it’s the clarity of who I really am

That will glide me to the dreams to pursue

There is nothing more powerful next to the Creator, but the I am

The “I am” with compassion

With the ability to connect and understand

While keeping those feet to the ground…

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Lifelong Lesson

The best teacher is life right?

But the best way to truly excel is to begin.

So many of us are caught in the consumption phase of

Learning..learning…learning, reading…watching.

Of course it is great to an extent

Take what you need, put it in your pocket

And just go!

The whole point is..

Step outside, try new things and leave where you are right now.

You cannot become what you want to be

By remaining what you are.

Stuck in the past? Let go!

Have regrets and wished you have done things differently?

Move on!

Forgive yourself, accept the present and enjoy life!

Be grateful for being still alive up to this moment.

Bored with life and don’t know what to do with yourself?

Go out! Travel…explore!

One day you’ll wake up and there won’t be anymore time to do things you’ve always wanted.

Just.Do.It.Now.

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Social Media

Sharing once experience is something many of us do on social media in today’s era.

We enjoy sharing our memories, accomplishments and our passions, and in particularly through photos and videos.

When people that you admire share their experiences, it can spur you to do the same.

Who wouldn’t want to be liked, appreciated, and admired?

Not to mention the urge to communicate to the world, to get sympathy.

We tend to feel better about ourselves when we think that we are better than others.

And while there is nothing wrong with wanting to be admired, liked and respected—our nature is such that we care about others’ opinion.

But what is really the essence of social media for me?

Does it makes me happy?

I was running one day, and took a selfie trying to pretend to smile but I knew deep deep deep down inside, my heart was ripping out that time.

A friend who is suffering severe anxieties and even taking anti-depression medications.

I know how he suffer a day, a week or months or years.

But in those times, you can see in social media a happy smiling photos, rained by number of likes.

My heart breaks..

There are people with only 3-5 likes but have plenty of friends

People with 100+ likes who are lonely in life

Couples who look happy together, yet miserable as hell

Couples who don’t post pictures together but are in beautiful, loving relationships

People who knew each other very well, but appear as strangers.

People who are up to their neck in debt, yet appeared lavishly on social media

Remember that media is not a real life, they are just that “appearance”.

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Strong Identity

How is your stress level?

How do you rate your image at the moment?

Does it says you are a kind person but inside full of resentment?

It may be hard to accept it to your face, but let alone be it shown.

There are few of us who shows a strong identity, reliable one and the one that always shows up

But what we really need more than anything is to have a good cry and to lean on to someone’s shoulder

And stop having it kind of holding it all together, and pretend that you are ok

That you are strong, and that you are happy.

It can be powerful idea about being a strong one among others

You are always in the frontline, protecting others

Everyday walking around, acting like warrior

But you yourself is feeling stuck in a rut or maybe feeling lost

Pinning yourself into the wall because you have this fix sense of who you are

Showing that strong identity

Paradoxically, we lost our sense of freedom

Pretending that we are free yet fixated to unfreedom

Imprisoned to having this “strong identity”

Which engages our ability to grow into boredom

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