Deepawali – The Festival of Lamps in the Age of WhatsApp Wishes

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Every year, as the nights grow longer and the air turns cooler, India begins to sparkle with anticipation. The faint scent of diyas mingles with that of sweets, homes are dusted and decorated, and hearts prepare to welcome the festival of light — Deepawali.

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Deepawali, or Diwali, has always been more than just a festival. It’s a story — of Rama’s return to Ayodhya, of light triumphing over darkness, of knowledge dispelling ignorance, and of togetherness transcending distance. It’s a reminder that even the smallest lamp can push back the deepest shadows.

But as our lives have become faster, busier, and more digital, something subtle has changed. The festival that once illuminated our homes now seems to illuminate our phones instead.

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From Diyas to Displays

There was a time when Deepawali meant more than decoration — it was preparation, participation, and prayer. Weeks before the festival, families cleaned every corner of their homes, not just for appearance but as a symbolic renewal of spirit.

Children eagerly waited to help roll out laddus and chaklis with their grandparents. Neighbours exchanged trays of sweets and small gifts. Diyas were lined up along verandas, glowing softly into the night, their light reflecting in every face gathered around them.

Every gesture, every meeting, carried warmth. The greetings were personal — spoken with eye contact, shared with smiles, and sealed with hugs.

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Now: A Digital Kind of Diwali

Today, our celebrations begin with the soft ping of a notification.
“Happy Diwali ✨,” says a message — one of fifty similar ones arriving before breakfast.

We scroll through identical forwards, each carrying stock images of diyas and fireworks, Our phones glow brighter than the lamps on our balconies.

It’s not that we care any less — it’s that convenience has replaced connection. The act of wishing has become effortless, and with effort goes intention.

Lighting Lamps, Not Just Screens

And yet, Deepawali’s essence is timeless. Its light isn’t just about fire or electricity — it’s about warmth, joy, and renewal. Technology doesn’t have to take that away; it can, if we allow it, help us reconnect in new ways.

This year, instead of a mass forward, send a personal voice message to someone you haven’t spoken to in a while. Instead of posting a “Happy Diwali” status, video call your parents or an old friend. Light diyas not just for tradition, but with gratitude — for the people, moments, and memories that shaped your year.

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The Real Glow

Deepawali is not just a festival of lamps; it’s a reminder to look for light — and to share it.
The light we kindle in others’ hearts lasts far longer than any sparkler or string light ever could.

So, this year, let’s bring back the old warmth in new ways. Let’s wish less with our thumbs and more with our time. Let’s let our homes — and our hearts — do the glowing.

Because no WhatsApp message, no matter how well designed, can ever replace the soft, golden magic of a diya lit by hand and shared in person.

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Happy Deepawali!
May your homes shine with joy, your hearts with peace, and your connections with meaning.

Daily writing prompt

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What is the most important thing to carry with you all the time?

I came across this prompt today and realised that the first things that come to mind are phone, money, keys, weather clothing, and many such things, depending on the person, but most of us forget that some important things that we carry with us always are our ‘smile’, our ‘confidence’, our ‘personality’, etc…..

The Rediscovery of Walking: A Journey Back to Myself

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It was about six months ago, while strolling past the picturesque Chetpet lake in Chennai, just a stone’s throw from my home, that I noticed something simple yet profound: the pathway around it was bustling with walkers. On a whim, I decided to give it a try. Little did I know, it would turn out to be one of the best decisions I’d made in a long time.

Walking has always held a special place in my heart, a habit rooted deeply in my childhood. I fondly remember those evening strolls with my father, accompanying him to the shop a few kilometres away to buy cigarettes (a perfectly normal activity back then). The conversations we shared and the stories he spun during those walks are vivid in my memory, offering anecdotes and guidance that still shape my life today.

As I grew, walking remained an integral part of my routine, weaving through my college years and even into my early career. Though work sometimes dictated my movement, I still managed to get my daily steps in. However, with each rung climbed on the ladder of government service, the hours spent glued to a desk steadily increased, and the time I dedicated to walking dwindled. Adult life, with its demanding rhythm, had gradually nudged this cherished activity to the sidelines.

Now, facing recent health concerns and a strong desire for a healthier lifestyle, walking feels like a natural and intuitive choice. It offers a unique escape from the constant barrage of screens and digital noise, providing a precious opportunity to unwind, reflect, and reconnect with myself. Beyond the undeniable physical benefits, it’s a simple yet powerful way to reclaim a sense of balance and well-being.

Johnathan Livingston Seagull

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Who are the biggest influences in your life?

I was probably in college when I came across this book and like everyone else, it influenced and inspired me greatly. The book is one of the most beautiful pieces of writing and the message it carries is one of hope and transformation. The book teaches us to stop “fighting for scraps“ and aspire to greater things in life. A must read book for everyone.