A Baleful Tale of a Pastor’s Sexless Wife’s Influence

Posted on 2026/01/21 by Jack

A pastor’s wife who is incapable of normal sexual relations leads to the downfall of a spectacular ministry.

Readership: All; Christian Men
Theme: Christian Community; Metacognitions; The Christian Red Pill
Length: 1,000 words
Reading Time: 5 minutes

Intro

In the previous post, the 2 situations of divorce that Tubal Cain mentioned are both examples in which the wife was clearly at fault. Here’s another true anecdote in which the husband / pastor was more or less at fault, catalyzed by his wife’s incapability of fulfilling marital duties (i.e., normal sexual relations). I’ll call this Case Study C.

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If the Pastor’s Wife ain’t Holy, ain’t Nobody Holy

Posted on 2026/01/19 by Jack

What is the overall influence of a Pastor’s wife in a femcentric church?

Readership: All; Christian Men
Theme: Christian Community; Metacognitions; The Christian Red Pill;
Length: 1,400 words
Reading Time: 7 minutes

Intro

This post contains a few observations about the influence of Western Protestant pastors’ wives, with a summary at the end.

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The Threatpoint of No Fault Divorce among Clergy

Posted on 2026/01/16 by Jack

How No Fault Divorce is weaponized against church leaders.

Readership: All; Christian Men
Theme: Christian Community; Metacognitions; The Christian Red Pill
Length: 1,100 words
Reading Time: 6 minutes

Intro

Weaponized No Fault divorce is certainly on most men’s radar these days.

I believe much of the current awareness of this crime against both faith and humanity was made possible by Dalrock’s exposé of this malady. Older readers may recall Dalrock’s observations about wives’ threatpoints and the churchian’s flaccid response to these behaviors — behaviors now deemed selfish and evil by the Christian Manosphere.

Here are a few of Dalrock’s posts on this topic, in case you came late to the Christian Red Pill.

In sum,

  • Wives withhold compliance and sex in a very effective strategy to manipulate their husbands’ behaviors and decisions more to their liking.
  • Wives use No Fault divorce as a threatpoint to coerce or force their husbands to do or to accept nearly anything to avoid committing mass carnage against the children.
  • More often than not, divorcing wives cite unbiblical and willy-nilly reasons for all this.
  • Churchianity, the courts, and all of Western society fully enables and supports all of this.

In this post, I want to expose one unique way that this threatpoint applies to clergy, i.e., deacons, elders, pastors, priests, and other leaders in the church, and also laymen’s overall interest in church.

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The Emergence of the Red Pill Christian

Posted on 2026/01/14 by Jack

Paul Elam’s exposition on the rise of the Christian Red Pill.

Readership: All; Men; Christian Men;
Theme: The Christian Red Pill
Length: 3,000 words
Reading Time: 16 minutes

Intro

Paul Elam released a landmark exposition in his podcast, The Emergence of the Red Pill Christian — 425 Episode 4 (2024/6/21).  If you haven’t heard it yet, it’s a must if you wish to stay current on developments within the Christian Red Pill sphere.  Elam has used this exposition as a springboard for many of his more recent discussions and interviews.

For the Red Pill record, for doing text searches, for the ease of citing quotations and references, and for the sake of discussion, I’ve transcribed Elam’s exposition below.  [Images, links, and section headers added by Jack.]

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Beatniks, Hippies, Boomers, and the Emergence of Post-Modern American Culture

Posted on 2026/01/12 by Jack

How the Boomers rose to cultural preeminence, and ultimately worldwide.

Readership: All
Theme: The Christian Red Pill
Length: 2,300 words
Reading Time: 12 minutes

Foreword

RonTomlinson2 asked,

“My overriding interest in boomers is: How on earth did they get that way?  Because the best men died in two world wars?  Because of mixed schools / more female school teachers?  LSD and pot?  Less corporal punishment at home?”

In this essay, I’ll expand my response to RT2.

I’ll briefly recount the historical development of the liberal counter-culture that formed the backdrop of the Boomers’ childhood and adolescence, and how this contributed to the formation of their own sub-culture of “sex, drugs, and rock music”, dissident life philosophies, and rebellious values — what we now call “Post-Modernism”.

Altamont Speedway Free Music Festival, 1969/12/6
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Requiem for the Blue Pill

Posted on 2026/01/09 by Jack

The modern intersexual / social contract is intractably revoked, thanks to The Red Pill.

Readership: All
Theme: The Christian Red Pill
Length: 700 words
Reading Time: 4 minutes

Social Systems Depend on a Shared Mythos

A while back, I wrote,

“Any system depends on a majority of people playing respective roles that support the system. Having a critical mass of people conforming to such roles is what makes the system work.”

A social paradigm can only ‘work’ in reality so long as the masses share the same faith beliefs or mythos concerning human ambitions, nature, and purpose.

“The current system is broken because there is too much confusion and disagreement over what those roles should be. Men prefer traditional gender roles, while women want a revised role of being independent from men. We are far enough into it to see where Feminism will lead (female dominance and male oppression), and as more men see the eventual outcome, more men are fighting against it.”

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The Blue Pill is Boomer Morality

Posted on 2026/01/07 by Jack

Moral codes are changing back to pre-Boomer times.

Readership: All
Theme: The Christian Red Pill
Length: 1,500 words
Reading Time: 8 minutes

First of all, before we get into it…

What is The Blue Pill?

Looking back over the past several decades (I’m 53, so I would know), I would summarize The Blue Pill as…

  1. A Compromise — The Blue Pill is a collection of lies that men have bought into as a compromise with the overweening societal forces that Feminism and sexual liberation have wielded over the past 60 years; thus identifying said compromise as a symptom of Boomerism.
  2. A Faux / Relative Morality — The Blue Pill is an expression of what I’ll call ‘Boomer Morality’ in this essay and the next, best encapsulated in Boomer / Complementarian theology, although it isn’t truly moral at all (only from their own gynocentric viewpoint).

I’ll explain these two points further below.  I’ll make some loose assumptions, but overall, it correlates quite well.

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2025 Sigma Frame Performance Report

Posted on 2026/01/05 by Jack

Σ Frame’s ninth annual traffic performance report.

Readership: Anyone interested
Length: 3,800 words
Reading Time: 20 minutes

History, Goals, and Purposes

Even in this age of apostasy and tribulation, God continues working throughout the lives of many men, as well as my own.  I have always written with the conviction that my testimony, my life experiences, and the things I’ve learned are valuable to other men, and that it’s important for me to share these things for the benefit of others.  It is for this reason that I’ve had a habit to pray frequently about the purpose of this blog, what I should write about, and what men need to read and know.

My work as a Blogger began on March 7, 2008.  My original purpose for blogging was to distribute teaching materials (for a Sunday school class I was teaching at that time) in an easily accessible and shareable format, and to foment discussion. The general appeal, and the quality that made my teachings popular, was its focus on applying the scriptures to the metaphysical incongruences of human nature through an ontological lens that would now be called a Mystical or Romantic Christian approach.

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Updates

Posted on 2026/01/02 by Lexet Blog

WTF is going on?

Readership: All
Theme: The Christian Red Pill
Length: 1,600 words
Reading Time: 9 minutes

Intro

Jack’s post, Thus Saith Ye Olde Red Pill Lore (2025/12/15) described how Red Pill wisdom has not just gone mainstream, it has become the new standard for based thought.

Funny timing. I was writing a note in a similar vein and planning on sending it in.  Well, here it is.

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Summary of Christian / Mystical Awareness (2025/12)

Posted on 2025/12/21 by Jack

Finishing off the year with some crucial insights.

Readership: Christian Men
Theme: Christian / Mystical Awareness
Length: 600 words
Reading Time: 3 minutes

Overview

This month polished up some ideas that were introduced in an earlier theme, Awareness and Introspection, that aired in August and September of this year.  I split this theme up because it was 3 months long, I needed more time to research and prepare these posts, and I wanted readers to get a fresh take on the posts below. Interestingly, it coincided with similar articles appearing around the sphere in December.

Closely related posts that appeared around the sphere during this month are included.

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