Hi: I just want to wish all of you a very merry Christmas.  I hope your day is filled with family love, lots of food, lots of presents, and lots of joy. I hear there is a certain brat among us that has a birthday.  Was it yesterday? Happy Birthday Ellie!  To help you start … Continue reading Merry Christmas Everyone

In Sex with Shakespeare, Jillian Keenan wrote the following: The notion that...spanking... is just a form of foreplay to sex couldn't be more wrong.  Spanking is like a dance or a massage:  it can be erotic, but it doesn't have to be.  (Years later, my friend Abby put it this way:  For us, spanking isn't … Continue reading Spanking vs Sexual Spanking

I received an email from one of you along with a request to have it posted. It seems the brat is in a little hot water because she took such pleasure in another brat's misfortune. So here is the email I received.  Please let her and her Top know your opinions. Let just say that, … Continue reading Asking for a Friend

It's been several weeks since I've posted.  Unfortunately life got in the way.  Tigger and I had a death in the family while another special person dealt with a lengthy hospital stay.  Between those two things we've barely been keeping our heads above water and let Thanksgiving sneak up on us this year. I am … Continue reading Thankful this Season

Thank you all for your patience these last couple of weeks.  Real life got in the way as it often does for us all.  But Hurray! Jillian Keenan has answered our questions.  Please know that several questions were similar enough that I may have grouped them together.  So if your question wasn't handled in a … Continue reading And Now – Ms. Jillian Keenan

Hi everyone.  Right now we all anxiously await Jillian Keenan's answer to our questions.  I promise to post them on the first Friday after I receive them.  I'm still shocked and elated that she is taking the time out of her busy schedule to talk to us via the interview.  I can't wait for to … Continue reading To Topple a Top

I have a wonderful announcement, ladies!  Jillian Keenan has agreed to an interview here on the blog!  Yep, JILLIAN KEENAN!  (glad you can't see me jumping up and down in a most untoppy fashion)For those few ladies that aren't familiar with the name, I've provided a link to a webpage that may help you get … Continue reading I Have Some News for You

Happy Friday, y’all! It sure did seem to take a long time coming this week, or was that just me? I ran into a bit of, um, trouble this week, and it made me start thinking about rules, and accountability, and consequences. (Thanks, Claire, for adding to the inspiration!) Now, I don’t want to give … Continue reading Accountability – A Brat’s Point of View

This wonderful group of ladies represent different countries and cultures, different ages,  differing beliefs, and a myriad of things that make us individuals.  What binds all of us together is TTWD.  But even within TTWD, we have different needs.  For some spanking is always sexual in nature while for others it's a need for accountability.  … Continue reading Are You Lonesome Tonight?

I thought a lot about what to write about this week in the blog and got to thinking about the way we talk about TTWD. I am very lucky to have a buddy in my life who shares our lifestyle. Clare and I are able to talk about life with a Top and its advantages … Continue reading Tigger’s Musings