Here are 10 thoughtful themes for a Samhain service, focusing on reflection, honoring ancestors, and embracing transformation:
- Remembering Our Ancestors
Honoring the lineage and wisdom passed down through generations. - Embracing Death and Renewal
Seeing death as a natural part of the cycle that makes way for new beginnings. - Facing Our Shadows
Bringing light to our inner darkness to foster healing and growth. - The Thin Veil Between Worlds
Exploring the spiritual connection between the living and those who have passed. - Letting Go and Making Space
Releasing what no longer serves us to welcome transformation. - Stories from the Other Side
Sharing tales and memories that connect us to those who came before. - Honoring the Cycles of Life and Death
Recognizing the balance and interdependence of all living things. - Grief as a Sacred Journey
Validating grief as a process that leads to deeper understanding and compassion. - Lighting the Way: Rituals of Guidance and Protection
Using symbols and practices to honor and protect during the darkening season. - Renewing Our Commitment to Life
Finding strength in endings to fuel a renewed passion for living fully.
Here’s a list of children’s picture books matched to each of the 10 Samhain service themes, with 2-3 books per theme:
1. Remembering Our Ancestors
- The Relatives Came by Cynthia Rylant
- Always Remember by Cece Meng
- The Keeping Quilt by Patricia Polacco
2. Embracing Death and Renewal
- The Fall of Freddie the Leaf by Leo Buscaglia
- The Invisible String by Patrice Karst
- Llama Llama Misses Mama by Anna Dewdney
3. Facing Our Shadows
- The Dark by Lemony Snicket & Jon Klassen
- When Darkness Comes by Pete Sutherland
- In the Dark by Barbara Shook Hazen
4. The Thin Veil Between Worlds
- Ghost Wings by Barbara Helen Berger
- The Little Old Lady Who Was Not Afraid of Anything by Linda Williams
- Scary, Scary Halloween by Eve Bunting
5. Letting Go and Making Space
- Goodbye Autumn, Hello Winter by Kenard Pak
- I’m Gonna Like Me: Letting Off a Little Self-Esteem by Laura Numeroff
- The Empty Jar by Scott Magoon
6. Stories from the Other Side
- Milo and the Magical Stones by Marcus Pfister
- Grandma’s Stories by Carmen Agra Deedy
- The Night World by Laura Amy Schlitz
7. Honoring the Cycles of Life and Death
- The Giving Tree by Shel Silverstein
- The Very Hungry Caterpillar by Eric Carle
- Butterfly by Patricia Polacco
8. Grief as a Sacred Journey
- The Goodbye Book by Todd Parr
- Ida, Always by Caron Levis & Charles Santoso
- Tear Soup: A Recipe for Healing After Loss by Pat Schwiebert
9. Lighting the Way: Rituals of Guidance and Protection
- Night Tree by Eve Bunting
- Lanterns and Fireflies by Sarah Brennan
- Bear and the Moon by Matthew Burgess
10. Renewing Our Commitment to Life
- The Dot by Peter H. Reynolds
- Oh, the Places You’ll Go! by Dr. Seuss
- Have You Filled a Bucket Today? by Carol McCloud

