Dear Wilson: Two

It feels like just yesterday we were bringing you home from the hospital, and then all of a sudden we were celebrating your first birthday, and now here we are again (already?!)

The day you were born, you looked like this:

and now you look like this:

You have learned so much in the last year. You love to run and jump, and you fly around the house on cars and trains and whatever isn’t nailed down. You want to do whatever Gus is doing, whenever possible, and with zero consideration if it’s something a two-year-old could or should be doing.

You adore your brother, and he is still just as in love with you as he was the day we brought you home from the hospital (although he’s less thrilled about sharing certain toys with you now that you know they exist).

You LOVE to eat, and you’re obsessed with eating Nan’s food, and then my food, and then Dad’s food, before you’ll sit down and eat your own. You love mac and cheese, Canadian bacon, broccoli, eggs, salad, and soup, and then all the toddler standbys like chicken nuggets and goldfish. You take bites of things and say, “Mmmmm, lish lish!” You call popsicles and ice cream, “goppagles,” and I hope you never stop.

You have discovered the television and you currently love Boss Baby (“Baby!” for the movie or the show), Sesame Street (“Elmo!”), Mickey Mouse Clubhouse, Daniel Tiger, and Curious George (“Eeee Eeeee!”)

You love animals, and pretending to be a puppy. You love baby dolls and you carry them around with you, or push them in a stroller. You love to read books, and you torture us with the same ones over and over and over again. You like to pretend to take pictures and you hold your fingers up to your eyes (and now your new camera!) and squint and say “Cheeeeese!” I cant walk through a TJMaxx or a Homegoods without stopping so you can smell e.v.e.r.y candle in the store.

This summer you learned to sleep in your own room, and — knock on wood! — it didn’t phase you at all. You give us the biggest kisses goodnight and then you lay in your bed, laughing at yourself, until you fall asleep.

You called me “Baba” for months, but in the last few weeks that’s turned into Mommy. Dad is Daddy, Gus is Dus, and Nan is Nee. You’re learning so many new words and phrases so quickly now, and you have the sweetest little voice. You tell your own version of jokes and then you laugh and laugh at yourself (a trait you undoubtedly got from me).

Happy Second Birthday, you adorable baby boy. We love you so much!

First Day of Kindergarten

This kid, my firstborn – only a few weeks away from his sixth birthday! – got on a school bus today, and started Kindergarten.

What is happening? How did we get here? (Cats and dogs, living together – mass hysteria!)



I actually got to see him today during his lunch break (I just took a part-time job at his school working one day a week, and I was in today to shadow) and he was having a great time.

Aside from a fall in gym class which “required” a bandaid, the rest of his day seemed to be a success (he was most impressed with Recess, soooo…)

He specifically asked to wear his Party Animal shirt, so apparently that’s the vibe we’re going for this school year.

Wilson: Twenty-one -two & -three Months

Wilson’s language development is finally taking off (compared to his *incessantly chatty* brother, I was worried maybe he had a bit of a delay, but not anymore), and I can’t believe that TWO is right around the corner.

Likes: Pretending to be a zombie, mimicking anything Gus does, going down slides, stomping on fountains at the pool, pretending to be Pounce the puppy. Reading books over and over, Sesame Street (particularly Cookie Monster), playing in the sand at the beach, jumping in the waves along the shore, the movie Boss Baby (more bay-bee!)

Dislikes: If Gus won’t let him play, delays reading books, the second the Boss Baby credits start to roll. We’ve had a few glimpses of the terrible twos, and wooo boy, Jesus take the wheel.

Sleep: Officially sleeping in his crib! All night long! Sleep training was a breeze! And successfully shared a room with his brother while we were away at the beach.

Eating: Loves broccoli and carrots with dip, and vacation snacks including pop tarts and party mix. Recently discovered Cheetos, and god help me. He calls popsicles, “goppagles!” and asks for one as soon as he wakes up.

Clothes: 2T.

New Tricks: Summersaults, starting to combine a few words and is responding more conversationally.

Teeth: 16 (those two year molars might be coming in, but 🤷🏻‍♀️)

Vocab: dada, down, all done, uh-oh! Daisy (Day!), Humming Jingle Bells, bye bye, ba-gok! (Like a chicken), moo, hot, Gus (GUH!), Fish (ish), night-night, Hello (owah!) yuck (uck!), yay, beep beep, cheese, ow!, more, monkey (eee-eeee!), down

*ball, meow, bah/mah (sheep and goats), neigh, hisss, juice (joooo!), mama (ba! Or baba), whoa, yeah, hi, up, book (boop), oh yeah, hush, ouch, yeah, wow!, me, brains! (maaaaiiinssss!), baby, burp!, daddy, help, bee (all bugs), apple, oval, tickle-tickle (dikadika!), bowl, boot (also boop), crash, hat, eat, peas, airplane (bowbow), Gus! (DUS!), OK (oh tay!), OH NOO!, HEYYYY!, my/mine, GO!, and every toddler’s favorite: no!

*new since last update

Sleep Training 2.0

I’m knee-deep in transitioning Wilson to sleeping in his crib after 20+ months of co-sleeping in our room.

We never really planned on being co-sleepers, and it’s definitely not for everyone. Personally I felt like it came very naturally to me, and it was just what worked best for us and our babies.

With Gus I fought it for weeks, because, you know you’re not *supposed* to do it. But then you mention it to someone and all the co-sleepers come crawling sheepishly out of the woodwork.

And I won’t get into that much, other than to say, to each his own, and do what feels right for your family, yada yada yada, but IF you decide to sleep with your kids, educate yourself on how to do so safely.

Gus slept with us (i.e. glued to me) until he was 22 months old. Wilson is 20+ months now, and we decided to move him to his room now so he has plenty of time to adjust before Gus starts kindergarten (😭) in the fall.

I’m using the same general plan I used with Gus for his brother, and so far things seem to be going well.

I’m sleeping in his room with him, on a mattress on his floor for a few days, then *theoretically* I’m putting him in the crib and sleeping nearby on the floor.

I say theoretically, because this was the part that enraged Gus. When he woke up in the middle of the night and saw me there he lost his damn mind. Eventually I realized if I wasn’t there to piss him off, he just laid back down and went back to sleep.

So fingers crossed. But we’re getting there.

Wilson: Nineteen & Twenty Months

Likes: Eating Gus’ food, drinking Gus’ drinks, doing whatever Gus is doing. Letting the dog in and out, helping feed her, “whistling” for her at the door. Climbing into his highchair by himself, via the chair next to it. Running around the playground with the older kids whenever possible.

Dislikes: Actually sitting in his highchair for a second longer than he deems necessary. Diaper changes if they last more than 30 seconds. Being left behind by his brother. Mike accidentally scared the bejesus out of him with a dustbuster the other night so I officially have an excuse to stop vacuuming. Really disappointed with the final episodes of Game of Thrones.

Sleep: We’re a few weeks away from finally transitioning from co-sleeping to Wilson moving to his crib, so fingers crossed it’s an easy move for all of us.

Eating: This child is always eating, it’s amazing. He eats his food, and then our food, and then Gus’ food. He will hover over you while you eat and stomp his feet if you aren’t sharing fast enough.

Clothes: 24m but mostly 2T.

New Tricks: He’s starting to repeat new words back to us more and more, and he absolutely understands more than he’s able to communicate back to us. There are a few words and phrases he uses consistently, and others he’s said once and then never again. He FINALLY said “mama” last night for the first time but I had to really work for it.

Teeth: Almost 16, that last canine is taking its sweet time.

Vocab: dada, up, down, all done, uh-oh! Daisy (Day!), Humming Jingle Bells, bye bye, ba-gok! (Like a chicken), moo, hot, Gus (GUH!), Fish (ish), night-night,

* Hello (owah!) yuck (uck!), yay, beep beep, cheese, ow!, more!, monkey (eee-eeee!), wow!, down * new last two months

Wilson: Seventeen & Eighteen Months

I’d forgotten how much I love this age. Everything is fun and new and exciting to watch as Wilson learns new things and masters new skills. He LOVES his brother, and is insanely strong. We decorated for Easter the other day, and everything I pulled from the boxes, he looked at and whispered, “ooooohhhhhhhh!”

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Weight & Height: 24.5 lbs (52%) and 33″ (71%).

Likes: Putting things (mainly his hands) into the toilet, climbing onto the table and emptying the salt and/or pepper shakers, pushing anything not nailed down from one place to the other, tapping all the keys on any keyboard, and running around outside with our friends and neighbors.

Dislikes: Sitting in his highchair, wearing socks, and nose wiping.

Sleep: Occasional tossing and turning (I think teething related) but mostly sleeping soundly. We’ll be transitioning him to his own room soon, once Gus’ school year is over (he’s been in our bed this whole time).

Eating: Currently eats everything I put in front of him (and whatever we have for ourselves), until he gets bored and then he likes to see how far he can throw things across the kitchen. If he’s sharing your food, and you don’t feed him fast enough, he stomps his feet until you hurry up.

Clothes: 24m. I’ve also decided the boys’ clothes should match whenever possible, and I don’t care who knows it.

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New Tricks: He LOVES drawing so we’ve been practicing with markers and crayons (under constant supervision because omg he’s fast). He knows where his nose, mouth, hair, belly and feet are. He’s practicing walking up and down the stairs (with a lot of help) as opposed to crawling.

Teeth: 12, with one more molar and three canines (the worst!) almost through.

Vocab: dada, up, down, all done, uh-oh! Daisy (Day!), Humming Jingle Bells, bye-bye, ba-gok! (Like a chicken), moo, hot, Gus (GUH!), Fish (ish), night-night

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Wilson: Fifteen and Sixteen Months

This kid is seriously the best baby. Things have been crazy at home lately, so he’s had to spend a little more time in a playpen than either of us would like, and he is just the happiest, most flexible little thing. I love him so much.

Likes: Humming Jingle Bells, ABC and Count With Me books, emptying every cabinet he can get into, and helping unload the dishwasher.

Dislikes: When I tear him away from any cabinet he can get into.

Sleep: Occasional tossing and turning (I think molar related) but mostly sleeping soundly.

Eating: loves beans, loves pretzels, trying more and more foods and stealing whatever he can from Gus’ plates, and making a mess as we transition to the table from the high chair. He also apparently really likes sriracha, because anytime I open the fridge, he makes a beeline for that bottle and pops it right in his mouth.

Clothes: 18-24 months.

New Tricks: Climbing up and down from sofa and chairs, down the stairs, climbing up onto tables, and throwing away trash

Teeth: Tooth tally: 8, with molars and canines (the worst!) on the way.

Vocab: mama, dada, up, down, all done, uh-oh! *Daisy (Day!), Humming Jingle Bells, bye bye, ba-gok! (Like a chicken), moo*

*new this month

Wilson: Thirteen & Fourteen Months

In typical second-child fashion, I’ve already missed one update, and am a wee bit late with the next one. Good thing babies can’t read.

Likes: Climbing into, onto, and off of child-size chairs in the playroom, any accessible Christmas decorations, Gus’ toy drill, and anything he can throw.

Dislikes: Sharing, his brother’s boundaries, or if I attempt to leave a room, NOT touching the Christmas tree.

Sleep: Pretty solid sleep from 9-7/8 every night. Currently in the process of dropping nap #2, so our daytime schedule has been sort of all over the place.

Eating: Nursing three times a day, and offering some fruit/veggie mixes along with more and more solid food. Current favorites are: graham crackers, cheese, ham or turkey, chicken nuggets, any sort of potato, more cheese, apples and strawberries, and mac and cheese.

Clothes: 18-24 months.

New Tricks: Waving hello, high fiving, giving kisses, playing peek-a-boo, flipping through books on his own.

Nicknames: Wilsy, Wilbur, Wils, BamBam, Tank, Destructo

Teeth: Four up top, and two below with two more just starting to cut through, and molars are close. Tooth tally: 6+.

Vocab: mama, dada, up, down, all done, uh-oh!

Dear Gus: Five

It seems like yesterday that you were born, no way has it been five years already.

Back then, you looked like this:

Now, you look like this:

I am, admittedly, very biased, but you are one of the sweetest, funniest, most wonderful five-year-olds I’ve ever met.

You are an amazing little painter, and you love to draw pictures, maps, and building plans. You love playdough and making things with pipe cleaners.

You love Hatchimals, Hotel Transylvania, My Little Pony, Octonauts, matchbox cars, Transformers, and Ryan Videos. You could play in a sandbox full of corn kernels for hours. You are great at solving mazes.

You LOVE your little brother, who you regularly refer to as, “the sweetness,” and “the cuteness,” and you currently love playing with his baby toys as much (or maybe more) than your own toys.

You go to school three half-days a week, and you’re learning so much already. The other day you came home and started calling everyone “Jumping Jehoshaphat,” so at the very least, you’re learning some interesting slang.

After several years of finicky toddler eating habits, you’re suddenly ravenously hungry all the time. I fully expect you to grow out of all the new clothes I just bought you any day now. You still love apple juice, french fries, cheese and pretzels more than anything else.

You love to stretch out and float in the tub, but you also like to play with your brother at bath time. You like to have dance parties and ball pit battles before bed. You turn our bed into a stage for “Gus’ Show,” before singing songs or preforming magic tricks.

I was worried that the last year would be hard for you as we adjusted to life as a family of four, but you’ve dealt with any changes we’ve had to make so beautifully. You are so smart, and so sweet, and we love you so much.