I am sick of being the one to drive everyone - when ever they want. I have put a stop to it - but every once family function I still get told to "go get Aunt Carol" - and I refuse and this causes people to be mad at me.
Look, I don't care if she does not want to drive...she can and she does when she wants to go badly enough. She drives to work everyday and long distances to see her sister. But every fucking time she is to get together with mom or come to our house it's " Andi needs to come get me." Umm, I LIVE here, I am already at the get together site and I need to give up two hours of my fucking holiday to cart your ass around??? Drive your own fucking self!!!!! And you can never leave when you want to - you have to call a half hour before you want to leave and ASK if it's convenient for her to leave now...wait a half hour for her to "get ready" and then leave - and still wait because she's never ready. If you make the plans to be somewhere at X time - and it takes Y time to get there and someone is doing you the favor getting your ass - thereby of giving you more of their day-you be ready when they want NOT when your damned good and ready!
Yesterday we were supposed to go to Olive Garden - we needed to be there at 6. Mom announces at 5 that we need to pick up Aunt Carol at 5:30. I responded with _ I will take my own car. Que mom getting pissed off - and me more so ( mainly because mom is pissed at me rather than her entitled sister) and I insisted on taking my own car. Mom left at 5:20 and I left at 5:50..still made it at 6 and still made if before mom and Aunt Carol...because Aunt Carol was not ready and needed mom to do a chore or two for her. Did I mention that mom is 15 years older than Aunt Carol?
Which brings me to another reason I RESENT being the designated chaffeur-- the fucking extras people have no problem demanding when you are already doing them a large favor. It's NEVER as simple as go, they walk out the door and you leave. It's get there, wait for them to finish getting ready, wait for them to also do X,Y,Z or they tell you to do X,Y,Z , they go take care of getting the mail, ect ---and a good chunk of time has passed before you actually leave. Aunt Carol has no problem handing me a scrapping and telling me to scrape ( of snow and ice) her car -- when I am already driving her, or to clean the cat boxes or whatever. Yeah, I am done with it. Other folks state "since we are out I need to stop by this store, that store, pick up the dry cleaning and drop this off at friend's house" And then they get put out when you refuse ( politely). Umm, I am not a fucking taxi, car cleaner, whathaveyou. Find another way or another ride.
So as I was waiting for our table and before mom and Aunt Carol got there, I was leaning against a pole - Aunt carol walks in and walks INTO me, and leans against the same pole, so close that she is now in physical contact with me ---and then gets offended when I move. I really wanted to tell her to go to hell.
Then she started in on my not wearing a coat. And my nephew not wearing a coat.....we're adults. I am 52, nephew is 31 we can decide for ourselves when to wear coats! My mother does not even comment but the bitch aunt should. Yeah,,lady shut the fuck up!!!! So I walked away - and she's all like where do you thinkk you're going? again I am an adult I don't have to ask permission to leave the area.
So dinner is done, we leave and I go for a drive.... and STILL get home before mom- by an hour and a half. Why because the entitled aunt had MORE stuff she wanted done and 'You weren't there to do them." FUCK THAT NOISE.
and it is like this ev.er.y. time. I. drive. No more,,,from now on you want to go somewhere you get your damned ass there yourself.
Monday, February 17, 2014
Monday, February 3, 2014
Fighting with mom again
Mom and I have been fighting. We were discussing my job
search and finances. It did not go well. Mom started in about my
appearance: I am overweight, have long hair and a bit of facial hair.
Now none of this bothers me ---but it bothers mom a LOT. She brings it
up and harangues me about it every time she can. I am sick of it and it HURTS. I get very hurt and angry when she does ---I have told her that and she tells me that"It's for my own good. Sigh.
this time she started in on my hair and I got scissors and tossed them at her and told her if she hates my hair she can cut it. And then left for several hours.
I am so sick of this shit...I have lost 27lbs since November. My favorite singer noticed it for gosh sakes!!!
My hair I like long and my facial hair I cut immediately before an interview - otherwise it's too short to take off...mom thinks I should burn it off like my grandmother did. HONESTLY! that and my father are the ONLY things my mother ever agreed with my grandmother on.
grrrr.
I need a job. So much of this would end if I only had a job.
this time she started in on my hair and I got scissors and tossed them at her and told her if she hates my hair she can cut it. And then left for several hours.
I am so sick of this shit...I have lost 27lbs since November. My favorite singer noticed it for gosh sakes!!!
My hair I like long and my facial hair I cut immediately before an interview - otherwise it's too short to take off...mom thinks I should burn it off like my grandmother did. HONESTLY! that and my father are the ONLY things my mother ever agreed with my grandmother on.
grrrr.
I need a job. So much of this would end if I only had a job.
Friday, January 24, 2014
This would be teh one woman, I never want to meet
Where did this country go so wrong? But for once I agree with "baba wawa"
This is for all the kids born in the 70's who do
Not remember, and didn't have to bear the
Burden that our fathers, mothers and older
Brothers and sisters had to bear.
Jane Fonda is being honored as one of the
"100 Women of the Century."
BY BARBRA WALTERS
Unfortunately, many have forgotten and still
countless others have never known how Ms.
Fonda betrayed not only the idea of our country,
but specific men who served and sacrificed
During Vietnam .
The first part of this is fro m an F-4E pilot
The pilot's name is Jerry Driscoll , a River Rat.
In 1968, the former Commandant of the USAF Survival School
was a POW in the Ho Lo Prison, the "Hanoi Hilton.
!
Dragged from a stinking cesspit of a cell,
cleaned, fed, and dressed in clean PJ's, he was
ordered to describe for a visiting American
"Peace Activist" the "lenient and humane
treatment" he'd received.
He spat at Ms. Fonda , was clubbed, and was
Dragged away.
During the subsequent beating, he fell forward
on to the camp Commandant 's feet, which
sent that officer berserk.
In 1978, the Air Force Colonel still suffered from
double vision (which permanently ended his
flying career) from the Commandant's frenzied
application of a wooden baton.
From 1963-65, Col. Larry Carrigan was in the
47FW/DO (F-4E's). He spent 6 years in the
"Hanoi Hilton", the first three of which his
family only knew he was "missing in action".
His wife lived on faith that he was still alive.
His group, too, got the cleaned-up, fed and
clothed routine in preparation for a
"peace delegation" visit.
They, however, had time and devised a plan to
get word to the world that they were alive
and still survived. Each man secreted a tiny
piece of paper, with his Social Security Number
on i t, in the palm of his hand.
When paraded before Ms. Fonda and a
cameraman, she walked the line, shaking each
man's hand and asking little encouraging
snippets like: "Aren't you sorry you bombed
babies?" and "Are you grateful for the humane
treatment from your benevolent captors?"
Believing this HAD to be an act, they each
palmed her their sliver of paper.
She took them all without missing a beat. At the
end of the line and once the camera stopped
rolling, to the shocked disbelief of the POWs,
she turned to the officer in charge and handed
him all the little pieces of paper.
Three men died from the subsequent beatings.
Colonel Carrigan was almost number four
but he survived, which is the only reason we
know of her actions that day.
I was a civilian economic development advisor
in Vietnam , and was captured by the North
Vietnamese communists in South Vietnam in
1968, and held prisoner for over 5 years.
I spent 27 months in solitary confinement; one
year in a cage in Cambodia ; and one year
in a "black box" in Hanoi
My North Vietnamese captors deliberately
poisoned and murdered a female missionary, a
nurse in a leprosarium in Ban me Thuot, South
Vietnam , whom I buried in the jungle near the
Cambodian border.
At one time, I weighed only about 90 lbs.
(My normal weight is 170 lbs.)
We were Jane Fonda 's "war criminals."
When Ja! ne Fonda was in Hanoi , I was asked by
the camp communist political officer if I would
be willing to meet with her.
I said yes, for I wanted to tell her about the real
treatment we POWs received... And how
different it was from the treatment purported by
the North Vietnamese, and parroted by her as
"humane and lenient."
Because of this, I spent three days on a rocky
floor on my knees, with my arms outstretched
with a large steel weights placed on my hands,
And beaten with a bamboo cane.
I had the opportunity to meet with Jane Fonda
soon after I was released. I asked her
if she would be willing to debate me on TV.
She never did answer me.
These first-hand experiences do not exemplify
someone who should be honored as part
of "100 Years of Great Women."
Lest we forget..." 100 Years of Great Women"
should never include a traitor whose hands are
covered with the blood of so many patriots.
There are few things I have strong visceral
reactions to, and Hanoi Jane's participation in
blatant treason, is one of them.
Please take the time to forward to as many
people as you possibly can.
It will eventually end up on her computer and
she needs to know that we will never forget.
RONALD D. SAMPSON , CMSgt, USAF
716 Maintenance Squadron, Chief of
Maintenance
DSN: 875-6431
COMM: 883-6343
This is for all the kids born in the 70's who do
Not remember, and didn't have to bear the
Burden that our fathers, mothers and older
Brothers and sisters had to bear.
Jane Fonda is being honored as one of the
"100 Women of the Century."
BY BARBRA WALTERS
Unfortunately, many have forgotten and still
countless others have never known how Ms.
Fonda betrayed not only the idea of our country,
but specific men who served and sacrificed
During Vietnam .
The first part of this is fro m an F-4E pilot
The pilot's name is Jerry Driscoll , a River Rat.
In 1968, the former Commandant of the USAF Survival School
was a POW in the Ho Lo Prison, the "Hanoi Hilton.
!
Dragged from a stinking cesspit of a cell,
cleaned, fed, and dressed in clean PJ's, he was
ordered to describe for a visiting American
"Peace Activist" the "lenient and humane
treatment" he'd received.
He spat at Ms. Fonda , was clubbed, and was
Dragged away.
During the subsequent beating, he fell forward
on to the camp Commandant 's feet, which
sent that officer berserk.
In 1978, the Air Force Colonel still suffered from
double vision (which permanently ended his
flying career) from the Commandant's frenzied
application of a wooden baton.
From 1963-65, Col. Larry Carrigan was in the
47FW/DO (F-4E's). He spent 6 years in the
"Hanoi Hilton", the first three of which his
family only knew he was "missing in action".
His wife lived on faith that he was still alive.
His group, too, got the cleaned-up, fed and
clothed routine in preparation for a
"peace delegation" visit.
They, however, had time and devised a plan to
get word to the world that they were alive
and still survived. Each man secreted a tiny
piece of paper, with his Social Security Number
on i t, in the palm of his hand.
When paraded before Ms. Fonda and a
cameraman, she walked the line, shaking each
man's hand and asking little encouraging
snippets like: "Aren't you sorry you bombed
babies?" and "Are you grateful for the humane
treatment from your benevolent captors?"
Believing this HAD to be an act, they each
palmed her their sliver of paper.
She took them all without missing a beat. At the
end of the line and once the camera stopped
rolling, to the shocked disbelief of the POWs,
she turned to the officer in charge and handed
him all the little pieces of paper.
Three men died from the subsequent beatings.
Colonel Carrigan was almost number four
but he survived, which is the only reason we
know of her actions that day.
I was a civilian economic development advisor
in Vietnam , and was captured by the North
Vietnamese communists in South Vietnam in
1968, and held prisoner for over 5 years.
I spent 27 months in solitary confinement; one
year in a cage in Cambodia ; and one year
in a "black box" in Hanoi
My North Vietnamese captors deliberately
poisoned and murdered a female missionary, a
nurse in a leprosarium in Ban me Thuot, South
Vietnam , whom I buried in the jungle near the
Cambodian border.
At one time, I weighed only about 90 lbs.
(My normal weight is 170 lbs.)
We were Jane Fonda 's "war criminals."
When Ja! ne Fonda was in Hanoi , I was asked by
the camp communist political officer if I would
be willing to meet with her.
I said yes, for I wanted to tell her about the real
treatment we POWs received... And how
different it was from the treatment purported by
the North Vietnamese, and parroted by her as
"humane and lenient."
Because of this, I spent three days on a rocky
floor on my knees, with my arms outstretched
with a large steel weights placed on my hands,
And beaten with a bamboo cane.
I had the opportunity to meet with Jane Fonda
soon after I was released. I asked her
if she would be willing to debate me on TV.
She never did answer me.
These first-hand experiences do not exemplify
someone who should be honored as part
of "100 Years of Great Women."
Lest we forget..." 100 Years of Great Women"
should never include a traitor whose hands are
covered with the blood of so many patriots.
There are few things I have strong visceral
reactions to, and Hanoi Jane's participation in
blatant treason, is one of them.
Please take the time to forward to as many
people as you possibly can.
It will eventually end up on her computer and
she needs to know that we will never forget.
RONALD D. SAMPSON , CMSgt, USAF
716 Maintenance Squadron, Chief of
Maintenance
DSN: 875-6431
COMM: 883-6343
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