Friday, January 02, 2026

A year in review: 2025

As I sit here on the last year of 2025, depressed because I missed a packet pickup for a race we were supposed to do today, I'll get started on the reminiscing of 2025... 

1) Where did you begin 2026?
In Monterrey, with my parents and my sister and her husband, eating tamales, and seeing the fireworks across the city and going through Spotify music lists!

2) What was your status by Valentine's Day?
I don't celebrate Valentine's, so it was probably like any other day.

3) Were you in school (anytime this year)?
Not really, though I still work in a Big 10 University.

4) How did you earn your money?
I continue to work for a Bioenergy Research Center coordinating fun research, though this year I also made some extra money from being a translator.

5) Did you have to go to the hospital?
Not this year, thankfully, though clearly I was working on my VIP card for the Urgent Care, especially towards the end of the year, with back to back Strep and Covid-19 infections.  

6) Did you have any encounters with the police?
Yes! The police was called when I picked up the boy at DTW this summer after his first solo flight back from Germany, because Delta had really fucked up a minor travel set-up, and they wouldn't release the boy to me! Officer Staples arrived and basically said this wasn't a police issue, and thankfully I always carry a copy of the boy's birth certificate with me, and things worked out!

7) Where did you travel this year?
Within Michigan: Detroit, in January for the Auto Show with my boys and Lauren, in March with the boy and Ryker for day of no school just to have fun, in May to see Ben Folds with the Detroit Symphony Orchestra, in October with Lauren and Lori to go to the DIA for the Day of the Dead Altars, then i
n November to see the boy and his ELHS band play at Ford Field; Traverse City and surrounding areas in February for our revived Wine Weekend with friends; Marquette in February with friends to do a Becoming an Outdoor Woman workshop, which was so cool, especially crossing the Mackinac Bridge and seeing the frozen northern shore of Lake Michigan; Hickory Corners for a summer student trip in July and meeting in October; Ann Arbor  in March to see a Lego exhibit with Adrianna and Anso, June for a half marathon from Dexter, then in September to hang out with Tina, Helen and Adrianna; Whitefish Point and Tahquamenon Falls in the UP in July and August as we dropped off and picked up the boy from his camp; Munising and Pictured Rocks for a backpacking trip with Maureen in X and then again with my boys for Labor Day for hiking and kayaking along Pictured Rocks; Silver Lake with Lauren for a camping weekend in August; Flint for the Crim in August; Grand Haven and Grand Rapids in September to show Moritz around Lake Michigan and Art Prize; Frankfort/Beulah area in November with Mayra for our weekend spa trip; Howell in December to catch up with Adrianna; and of course, the surrounding towns of BathDewittSaranacShepherdGrand Ledge for athletic and band competitions.
Within the US: Madison, WI for work in January, then for a fun Mother's Day weekend with the Shors in May for Jake's graduation; San Diego, CA to visit Emma and her family in January; Spartanburg, SC in February to visit my Man’s family, then in March again, sadly, for my Mother-in-Law's funeral; Milwaukee,WI in May for my yearly work conference; Coventry, CT for Memorial Day weekend with the Shors in late May; Akron, OH for a DragonBoat race and a short visit to Cleveland, OH right after to check out the Cuyahoga National Park in JulyChicago, IL for a Dua Lipa concert and to visit with my cousins in September; and Moab and Ogden, UT in late November to visit with friends.
Within Mexico: Monterrey, NL in June with the boy, then in December for Christmas and New Year's. It is so fun to stay at our own place now!
Outside Mexico and the US: In June we went to Germany to visit with my brother and went to Stuttgart, Esslingen, Bad Wildbad and Sommerberg, Tübingen, Hechigen, Frankfurt, and then after dropping the boy off at the airport to join his ELHS cohort, my Man and I went to Magdeburg to visit with my brother and see him sing; I went to Italy to meet up with Barbara in Milan, went to Lugano in Switzerland, briefly, Lake Como. It was awesome. Canada - Sault St. Marie in July on our way to drop off the boy at camp, then in August on our way to pick the boy up. 

8) What did you purchase that was over $1,000?
Plane tickets for Germany, Mexico, car repairs, a health program, and new sofas!

9) Did you know anybody who got married?
Christine and Alex.

10) Did you know anybody who passed away?
One of the boy's teachers at his daycare passed suddenly this year; I wasn't able to go to the Memorial but my Man and the boy went. 

11) Biggest surprise?
Can't think of anything right now... 

12) Did you move anywhere?
Not this year, thank Shiva!

13) What concerts/shows did you go to?
Ben Folds and the Detroit Symphony Orchestra, Dua Lipa... And last but not least, the boy’s marching band performances and the band concerts from school. All fun!

14) Are you registered to vote?
Yes! Not that my vote mattered much this year. Ugh. 

15) Who did you want to win Dancing with the Stars?
I couldn't care less about Dancing with the Stars... that said, we continue watching SNL religiously on Sunday mornings, and we finished watching the whole Seinfeld series with the boy. 

16) Where do you live now?
Still in the currently frozen land of Michigania...

17) Describe your birthday.
I celebrated my 49th birthday in a very mellow way this year - we had our exchange student with us, and that day we just went to eat at Maru. The boy got me a funny card that meows. 

18) What's one thing you thought you'd never do but did in 2025?
Backpacking for 4 days! Also, hit a deer with Isabel (while driving in Utah!)

19) What has been your favorite moment?
Several come to mind. I have definitely enjoyed seeing boy in band concerts; seeing him -again- in Ford Field this year was really cool; the same can be said for all of the boy's track and cross country meets, and Marching Band performances. Being at Picnic Point for a run with my boys on Mother's Day was pretty special, as was celebrating Mother's Day in Madison with my 3 children (the 2 Shor kids and the boy!). Seeing the boy running along the river in Frankfurt was pretty awesome. Standing under Delicate Arch in Arches National Park with my boys was one of the happiest moments of my life! And I was so happy and thankful for my whole family to be together for my parents' 50th wedding anniversary in Monterrey! 

20) What's something you learned about yourself?
I'm not sure about that this year; it was emotionally rough. Getting close to the start of menopause has not been fun.

21) Any new additions to your family?
No.

22) What was your best month?
I can't think of any month that was better than the other... they all had something good. The summer was really busy but really fun!

23) What music will you remember 2025 by?
Grupo Frontera - No se Va

24) Who has been your best drinking buddy?
The LUPEC ladies have made a revival with only 2 of the original members and extra friends, and we had some gatherings this year, which has been fun!

25) Favorite night out?
Sushi and movies at home with my boys on Friday night!

Saturday, December 13, 2025

A dream come true!

Monday - Sunday November 17-30, 2025
Cold and snowy

The first week of this block flew by. Work. Runs. Strength training. Tae Kwon Do. All fun stuff. I even had a haircut with Jenny on Wednesday. The main thing was the boy's XC Banquet, which was fun. He got some awards, though my favorite thing was Jackson passing him on his hair bandana that had been passed on to him. He is such a sweet kid, and I will forever be grateful to him for having been so welcoming of the boy and his friends last year. 
ELHS XC Boys!

Passing on the bandana!

Then, the travels began. We decided last-minute to spend Friday night at a hotel and avoid rushing Saturday morning, so we left home in the evening, after dinner, and made it to a hotel by a new parking lot we were going to try after Al had also recommended it. I wasn't opposed to the idea of saving money in parking, especially now that the parking at DTW has gotten ridiculous (and that reminds me, I should book the Flyer and a hotel for our Christmas trip!). 

We slept, then Saturday morning we were up early, packed, and then went to park to this new place, took the shuttle to the airport, and soon enough we were off to Salt Lake City for a trip many, many years in the making... 19 to be exact. Back in November of 2006, I went to visit my friend Isabel in Utah, where she had taken a job at Weber State in Ogden. I wanted to see her of course, but for some years before then, I had dreamed about going to see Arches National Park, so I told her I'd go but we'd have to make the drive to Arches, which we did. And she loved it, so much that she's been back countless time and eventually she and Hugo bought a place in Moab, which Mayra and I visted back in November of 2022.

I love that area. It truly is one of my happy places in this world. My Man had been there before we started going out, but he and I had never been there together, and of course, the boy had never been, so when trying to decide what to do for Thanskgiving this year, we figured we would go and visit our friends and make it there finally together. 

They picked us up from the SLC airport in the late morning, and after stopping for lunch in Spanish Fork, we made it all the way to Moab, but instead of going straight to their place, we stopped to do the Corona Arch Trail, which was amazing and not as busy as it is not officially part of Arches National Park. 
Friends at Corona Arch!

The hike was fun, not too long, and even felt a bit warm, but was so good after all the sitting around flying and driving earlier in the day! We even got to see 2 crazy guys doing base jumping! Insanity. 
Guys about to do base jumping!

After that we went to their house, had dinner there, and I basically called it an early day. 

Sunday morning the boy and I were up early to go for a run. This time I wanted to run a little longer so we went into the Hidden Valley Trail area, but instead of doing the pedestrian trail that goes up, we just followed the trail for the off-road vehicles, which was fun. I ended up talking to a woman who was visiting from Wyoming for a bit. Fun to see the early people, and definitely gorgeous to take in the scenery and share that with the boy. 
My favorite runner leaving me behind... 

Gorgeous Hidden Valley Trail run... 

I got back to their place before the boy did (he ran longer!), so I stretched, then we all got ready, had breakfast, prepped some food, and by 9:30 am we were heading out to Arches National Park, as Isabel had requested a special permit so we could hike the Fiery Furnace area, which she had only shown Mayra and I from a distance when we had been there 3 years ago. 
Off go the children to the Fiery Furnace!

The trail was definitely more technical than just a walk in the woods, and it was fun, and in some places, completely breath-taking. It was crazy to think that in one minute you were squeezing between rocks barely able to see what was around you, then next thing you'd be in an open space with giant rocks around you. It was amazing and I was so thankful that they thought of taking us there! (Also thankful that we are the kind of people who can *be* taken to such places, ha!)
In the Fiery Furnace... 

At some points you were at the bottom of the rocks, then you were on top of everything with amazing views from far away. I was in heaven, and to my heart's joy, the boy was loving it! The hike really made me miss hiking in Monterrey, climbing the various mountains there on random weekends, so much fun. We definitely don't have this in Michigan; sure, we have hiking, but it typically isn't on this level nor with these views. So yeah, I definitely was taking it all in. 
With my boys at the Fiery Furnace!

With the boy in the Fiery Furnace...

Group scenes at the Fiery Furnace...

The last part of the hike were truly amazing; we had amazing views of the rest of Arches and the La Sal mountains at a distance, and by then the sun had started coming out (we had been worried about some rain in the forecast but thankfully it never rained!).
The various levels inside Fiery Furnace...

Boys and boulders!

Gorgeous views from the Fiery Furnace!

Once we finished our hike, we went to the car and ate our packed lunches standing, taking in the view.  Then we got back in the cars and drove to the other side of the park to the Delicate Arch trail. Now, up to this point the day had been awesome but it was about to get completely out of this world for me. 

I did most of the hike to the Arch with Hugo and Isabel's son Victor, who is so cute and super talkative. We kept joking we would beat everybody to the Arch, and for the most part we did! My Man and the boy were behind us, and behind them were Hugo, Isabel, and Norah. By the time we got close to the Arch, Victor convinced me to go up on an area where there was a sort of "window" through the rock to see the arch. It was beautiful. Then my Man and the boy caught up and I was in heaven. Truly. To be there with them was a dream come true for me. And I loved that the boy loved it. 
One of my happiest moments from 2025!!!

Group photo at the Delicate Arch!

At some point the 3 of us went under the Arch and had some pictures taken - I might have been teary eyed at those moments. 
Happy Moment!

On the hike back we decided to go a different route, climbing straight down from the arch into the amphitheater and finding our way back to the main trail, which I'm pretty sure is how Isabel and I got there the first time we went in 2006! 

When we were almost back to the parking lot, we took a slight detour with the boy and Victor to see the petroglyphs I hadn't had a chance to see the previous times. Super cool. 
Petroglyphs near Delicate Arch...

Since it was still early in the afternoon when we were done with that hike, we decided to drive to Dead Horse State Park to see the sunset. No hiking there, just a little path by the parking lot, where Isabel had taken Mayra and I 2 years ago, except this time it wasn't as cold. It was beautiful. 
Friends at Dead Horse State Park...

Boy at Dead Horse State Park!

I can't recall if it was that evening or the next one that we had dinner at a pizza place in Moab, but that's what we did. One night we had tostadas at their place, the other night we went out. It was fun. 

The next morning we got up and I did my strength workout with mini bands while people slept. Then we had breakfast and headed out for the day. Our outing that day was to visit Canyonlands National Park, which my Man and I had not seen before. We stopped at a place where Hugo was telling us about some of the mountain bike trails he has done (it does look fantastic for that!). Then we carried on, Hugo and the boys driving first, then the girls following to our next stop: The Mesa Arch.

On the way there, Isabel and I (and Norah) hit a deer by Gemini Bridge. That was definitely a first for me. I can see the moment, mostly in slow motion, of us driving on a beautiful day, no cars behind nor coming towards us, then suddenly a dear with giant antlers coming from the right, Isabel moving into the oncoming traffic lane to try to avoid it, the realization for me that we were in fact going to hit the deer -and briefly thinking we were about to crash and maybe even roll over- then the crash, and the deer sort of falling and bouncing back, and eventually, Isabel coming to a full stop still on the oncoming traffic lane. I remember noticing we were ok, looking on the rearview mirrors, and then calmly telling her to drive back to our lane and stop on the side of the road. Once we came to a full stop, we got out of the car and I could tell my legs and arms were shaking, and that's when I told them we needed a group hug. That's when I texted my Man to tell him we had stopped because we had hit a deer, then minutes later I texted to say we were ok (in case that had not been clear). Within minutes, Hugo and the boys were back, checking on us. The car was basically fine, a small dent, mostly deer hair and ... sweat? Who knows what the liquid was. 
 
We eventually got back on the road and made it to our first destination: Mesa Arch. The hike to it was tiny compared to the hikes we had done the previous day, maybe a quarter of a mile. The arch itself was really cool; low and long, but with a cliff behind it, basically! 
Friends at Mesa Arch!

I was amazed by the all the large crows that were flying and walking around, so many! After the Mesa Arch, we drove to another part of the park where we did a longer hike to see the Upheaval Dome; we didn't actually go down the crater, just saw it from 2 points on the hike. The hike was amazing, mostly walking on huge rocks, and the views were awesome. 
Walking on the Upheaval Dome trail... 

Jump on the Upheaval Dome!

Silly friend shadows!

The rest of the day was nice, we had dinner, danced a bit in the kitchen, and at some point went out to see the stars, you could totally see the Milky Way it was so bright! Reminded me of the darker skies we see when we drive to the UP. 

Tuesday morning the boy and I got up and went for a run, our last in Moab, then we had breakfast, packed, and on our way out of Moab we stopped by the Colorado River and by the entrance to Arches to take some photos. Then we drove back the ~3 h to Salt Lake City, where we stopped to have a late lunch/early dinner at the Red Iguana, my enmoladas were delicious. 
Old U2 scenario now at the SLC aquarium!

Friends at the Red Iguana...

That evening Isabel and I went shopping for last-minute things for Thanksgiving and sadly, I started feeling some soreness in my throat so after playing some board games, I called it a night early. 

On Wednesday morning I woke up and was not feeling great, so I skipped going on a run with the boy; he went on his own for a ~4 mi run in their neighborhood. Then we went on a day trip with Isabel to see the Golden Spike site; the site where the railroad across the US came together. Sadly, since the spike was made of actual gold, we didn't see the actual gold spike, but we still got to see the site where the Central Pacific and Union Pacific railroads joined each other. Sadly the visitor center was closed, but we still got to walk around the area. Evidently there used to be  a town there (Promontory) but it has since disappeared.  
Golden Spike Site... 

Golden Spike railroad marker... 

Golden Spike Historic area... 

From there, we kept driving, eventually on a dirt road, to a "surprise" site that Hugo had wanted us to see (though unfortunately he wasn't with us on the outing; he had stayed back in Ogden with Norah, who had some extra school homework). Eventually the road was kind of empty, so I started joking with Isabel about what kind of place she was taking us to, and if there were some holes already dug up for us or something. It was that remote, but eventually we made it to the end of the road and we could see the "surprise": The Spiral Jetty.
Spiral Jetty and Great Salt Lake...

It was definitely a random but cool thing to see. Turns out it was constructed in the 1970s by an American sculptor, Robert Smithson, and at times it has been submerged so it has changed with time. It was really interesting for sure. We walked around it, then walked to the actual shore of the lake, which seemed to take forever but eventually we got to the water, and it was weird. There were no usual waves for a lake shore, and there wasn't really sand, just salt... Definitely a cool experience.
On the shore of the Great Salt Lake... 

Great Salt Lake... 

That evening we played a board game and I made it to bed early; I was still hoping to feel better, especially after Hugo and Isabel gave me the "San Marcos de Tigre" (you know, the warmest of them all) so I could be more comfortable. 
Con la del Tigre...

Unfortunately I woke up feeling awful on Thursday morning. By this point I had briefly considered just walking the Turkey Trot, but with the headache, fever, and join pain I was having, all I did was say good luck to my boys and went back to sleep. I was so tired and not feeling great. I eventually woke up around 11 am, when Victor knocked on the door and came in to check on me, such a sweet boy. I did get up and shower, and tried to be social even though I wasn't feeling it; it was painful to even think of swallowing saliva, much less other drinks or meals. 

I was excited to ask them about the Turkey Trot they had done. The boy was excited to have done a race at elevation, and he ended up winning his age group, and his prize was a giant pumpkin pie from Costco, so he was pleased!
Turkey Trot runners and the prize pie!

I tried to be social during the rest of the day; with the help of DayQuil on a schedule, I managed to be human for the most part, and we had a delicious meal of salmon, green bean casserole, sweet potato casserole with tiny marshmallows, and mashed potatoes. It was delicious. 
Our fantastic hosts...

Delicious Thanksgiving meal... 

After the meal, we watched Deep Impact (ah, comets attacking the earth for years has been a thing!), then we had a delicious cheesecake that Isabel had made (and the boy's pumpkin pie) for dessert before I called it a day. I really had hoped to get in their hot tub, but at that point my joints were feeling achy and I worried that if I did, my fever would get weird and I was going to have a stiff neck the rest of the time. Ugh. 

Friday I woke up really feeling awful, and at this point I started worrying that I didn't have just the sniffles; I thought maybe I had the flu. Still, I had some energy after breakfast, and being that it was our last full day in Utah, we all went out to walk in downtown Ogden, had some ramen, and took some pictures. 
Ogden likes running!

Friends in Ogden... 

That afternoon we played some more games; this time it was Settlers with the Cities and Knights and Seafarers expansions; the game took 3.5 hours! We paused to have dinner and kept playing. It was really fun, especially since we were all playing (well, 6 of us; Norah was babysitting). Even more satisfying was the fact that after getting off to a really slow start, I ended up winning, ha!
3.5 hours later...

Saturday morning we had breakfast, said our good-byes and then Isabel drove us to the airport. The flight back was fairly uneventful, I watched the Materialists... it was meh. We landed a bit earlier, and so thankful, because it was starting to snow. After it took forever to retrieve our car, I told my Man I would drive for the sake of everybody's peace of mind (especially mine; I wasn't feeling really well, so I figured it'd be best if I had something to focus my energy on instead of just freaking out in the snow while my Man was driving). I also made the executive decision to skip the highway and just take the backroads. 

The drive home took 3.5 hours (normally it is 1:15 h!). We never went over 35-40 mph. It took forever but it wasn't really stressful; we eventually made it home close to midnight. 
Snowy scenes... 

Winter wonderland... 

We woke up to ~8 inches of snow on the ground on Sunday morning, and by then I knew I had to go get my throat checked, so as soon as I got up I made an appointment at the Urgent Care and by 9 am, after having fun getting out of the garage and driving on the snowy streets, I was getting diagnosed for strep throat. Fun times. I texted our friends immediately; come to think of it I'm surprised but thankful that my boys nor our friends got it!!! I was given drugs, and spent the rest of the day chilling on the couch. 

And that was the Thanksgiving week. I'm glad I didn't get sick until after our stay in Moab; that would have sucked completely! But overall, the trip was wonderful and I'm so, so thrilled I finally got to share one of my favorite places in the world with my boys!!!

Thursday, December 04, 2025

And just like that, it is the middle of November already!!!

Monday - Sunday October 27 - November 16, 2025
Menopausal weather...        

I don't joke when I say the weather has been menopausal. We had days at -9 C and other at 10 C; hardly a way to acclimate to colder weather for sure!

The week Boowah was here flew by! On Monday afternoon, I left work slightly early and picked him up from the house and took him to the ELHS for the boy's running practice. I had checked in advance with the coaches to make sure it would be ok for us to stop by as the kids did a mile trial "for fun" (you know, as one does). I mostly did this since Boowah had missed the chance to see the boy run in Regionals. And boy was he impressed. Liam was running later that week at the State meet, so he skipped the trial, and I was in awe that the boy finished ahead of everybody else! He finished the mile in 4:46 min; 2 seconds faster than his PR during track season earlier this year and without any speed training lately! I also enjoyed seeing the coaches coming by us and introducing themselves to Boowah. Very cute.
Proud Boowah!

Boys and phones...

The week really flew by. Other than work, we spent most of our time hanging out with Boowah. I took Friday off from work and other than running in the morning, the boy and I met some of his cross country people at an MSU parking lot and walked to Forest Akers to see the Big 10 XC Championship, which is the college equivalent of their XC meets, except that it's 8K. 
Excited runners!

Off they go!

The boy and I stayed only to see the men run, unfortunately, since we had lunch plans with my Man. But the race we saw was amazing. Those guys were hauling, and for me it was super fun to see the boy and his friends running around like I usually do during their meets! 
This was my favorite moment of the race!

After the race the boy and I walked back to the car, picked up Boowah from the house, and went to meet my Man at the new Good Truckin' location in Old Town. Lunch was delicious. Then the boy and I took Boowah to the Michigan Historical Museum to check out a small Day of the Dead altar exhibit. 
Celebrating Day of the Dead... 

That evening it was Halloween and the boy, now 15, didn't want to go trick or treating; instead, he dressed up with his crocodile costume, sat in the front steps, and gave candy away while Boowah, my Man and I watched TV. I felt a little sad about him not wanting to trick or treat but still happy he wanted to do something fun. He seemed to enjoy handing candy out so I suggested maybe next year he has a bit of a gathering in the front yard with his friends as they give candy away. We shall see.
Giving candy away...

The pumpkin was his decoration this year!

Saturday morning the boy was up bright and early at ELHS, and by 8:30 am the rest of us were on the road to Detroit, where the marching band had a contest at Ford Field. It was a lot of fun. 
ELHSMB at Ford Field...

I keep joking that I've only been at Ford Field for the ELHSMB and Beyoncé, so clearly they're at the same level! After the ELHS band was done, we went out, took some pictures, then took Ale and went to Mexicantown for lunch, to which Ale asked "real Mexican or Qdoba", kids.
Band friends...

Los galanes at Los Galanes...

After a delicious lunch, we stopped at La Gloria for some bread to munch on the rest of the day, as we were heading to the Michigan International Speedway for the XC State Meet to see Liam run! The drive there was ok, and thankfully it wasn't as cold as I thought it was going to be. Boowah and my Man dropped the boys and I at MIS and they went off somewhere to have cider and donuts, and we eventually met up with the ELHS XC group who had made it there (the coaches and some of the other sophomore boys). 
El pan!

When the race started it was madness! It wasn't as easy to see them at various spots as it is in their usual meets, but still, we were able to see him at the half mile marker, then at 1, 2, and barely got to see him crossing the finish line from a distance (we only had to run about a half mile but alas, these kids were hauling!).
Spectator race...

Liam running!

We actually were worried at the half and 1 mile markers because he was coming in so behind his usual pace. Later on, I'd see the video of his finish. I still get goosebumps. The kid was FLYING. He passed so many people on the last 100 meters, he was feeling it! He ended up running a sub 16-mi 5K!
Liam and his fan club!

Silly children...

Running friends!

Eventually we were picked up by my Man and made it back home, where I had a few minutes to get changed to head out to LUPEC! It'd been a while! This time Kelly was hosting, and it was really good, though we joked that most drinks were whiteish. 
I now can't recall this drink but it was yummy!

The food was fantastic (and the challah bread delicious!) and more so the company. I miss the LUPEC 1.0 group we had here, but this group of mostly Moms is nice in these times, makes you feel you're not the only crazy one!
Vincent at LUPEC...

Sunday morning I had a really nice 10-mi run; colors were pretty. 
Running to Hawk Island...

The colors near campus are still around!

My Man took Boowah back to the airport that morning, and in the afternoon, we took a bunch of kids to see the Spartan Spectacular, this time remembering to bring earplugs for everybody! It was awesome. Next year we definitely should go check out the one at the University of Michigan; evidently this year the drummer for RHCP had been there (a Michigan Alum)!
Friends at the Wharton...

The next week flew by. We're now at the time of year where we can see gorgeous sunrises. The boy had his Marching Band Banquet, which was fun. They all signed shirts for each other, which I think is so cute, reminds me of what I used to do when I was that age!
Gorgeous sunrise...

Friends signing shirts...

These 3 have known each other a long time!

And other than work, the main thing that week was that on Thursday evening I took off to Grand Rapids, picked up Mayra, we went to have some delicious Ramen for dinner, and then our weekend of relaxation began. And let me tell you, it was much, much needed. 

On the way to Crystal Mountain we saw several deer that had been hit, so we took our time, being super careful, looking for shadows or movement on the side of the road, but thankfully the drive was uneventful. The hotel has been renewed, a lot, really, since the first time we stayed there for our relaxation weekend back in 2012, and this time there was no snow. 

Friday morning I got up early and drove to Beulah. I had learned that the ELHS XC kids do a hill workout on Figg Road when they're in the area for their XC Camp in the summer. I had heard so much about Figg Hill that I wanted to run it, so I had figured out a way to park my car at a nearby park, run a mile, do the hill, and then run back; ~ 4 miles total, and whenever I wasn't running on the hill I'd be running along Crystal Lake, so it sounded fun. 
Gorgeous northern Michigan roads!

The drive there was absolutely gorgeous. While the colors were definitely past peak, there was so much yellow all over the place, so many leaves everywhere, and with the rolling hills, it looked spectacular. To make it more fun, I was able to get on a call with Katharine, so we talked as I drove. I eventually made it to the park, which was right on the lake shore, and started running. By the time I got to Figg Road, I told Katharine I was about to start the hill. Now, this hill is supposed to be ~3/4 mile long, all up. The ELHS XC kids do an actual workout there, they go up the hill 2x, then they do 800-m sections (also going up), then they do something else, so they end up going up the hill several times. I was going only once, ha.
Let's do this!

Gorgeous hill workout!

The hill keeps go

I won't lie. It sucked. I did run it non-stop, and towards the end I might have been responding only in mono-syllables, but I did it. And I was thrilled when I got to the top. It was steep and it did go on! And I was even more in awe of the boy and his friends who run this 2-3 min/mi faster than I did!!! These kids rock!

The downhill was a lot of fun and very speedy, so I loved that. I took another photo when done, then ran back to the car and some so I could complete the 4-mi run. It was so fun talking to Katharine in the process. 

After the run I drove back to Beulah to my favorite cafe there, got some coffee and breakfast, got gas, then drove back to the resort so Mayra and I could get ready for our relaxation that afternoon. 
Happy after having done Figg Hill!

Gorgeous roads!

While having food we spoke to the same guy who has been welcoming us the last 12 years, who reminded us that his wife is from Honduras. Very kind and sweet guy. Then we went to the spa, checked in, and proceeded to have a nice afternoon with manicures and massages. 

Between treatments, especially when Mayra wasn't around, I was reading (really enjoying Richard Blanco's The Prince of Los Cocuyos). 
Relaxation time!

Relaxation drinks!

After a nice afternoon of hanging out and relaxing (and sitting in the hot tub outside), we got ready and went out to the Iron Fish Distillery nearby for a delicious dinner and drinks, then drove back and talked some more before calling it a day. 
Beautiful woods!

The next morning, despite my best intentions of getting out for another run, I chose to stay in bed and rest instead. It was definitely the best choice. We had a chill morning, packed, got food, then we drove to Big Rapids, where her boys were picking him up to take her back to Grand Rapids, as I drove to Shepherd, I was pleasantly surprised when suddenly, on the side of the road, I noticed a buffalo farm! Naturally I stopped, got out of the car, and snapped some photos! Tatanka!
Tatanka!

The Shepherd arrival was fun given that the town is tiny and there was a lot of construction going on, but eventually I found parking and even saw the boy and his friends during the warm-up run!
Running boys!

The boy and Jackson were doing the same race (the races were based on season times), and then Ale and Langston were doing the later race, so of course we were staying for both. I love cheering these kids on! The races were fast and crazy, making it extra hard to see them at the usual spots (and at least this race was on a course they had done before, so I knew exactly where to see them!). 
Queue Chariots of Fire...

There goes the boy!

And again!

The boy was mildly disappointed by his time (not a PR) so I reminded him that it was cooler and windier, so that definitely made an impact on the race. And it was still a good time, so a great way to close a cross country season for sure! He and I drove back home separate from my Man and we eventually made it back and had a nice evening. 
Running friends since kindergarten!

The next week flew by. We got some snow. I got to catch up with friends for lunch downtown Lansing on Monday (and finally saw the Lansing balls this year!). 
The first snow... 

Lansing Balls!

We also went back to Tae Kwon Do to work on our 2nd Dan. It's time. And of course, with the snow, all the leaves finally fell, so let the leaf collection begin!
Meditation moments... 

Meditation moments 30 minutes later... 

That last weekend was nice. On Saturday afternoon I had my DragonBoat End of Year party, where we voted for our new Board (still the Secretary!), and then I met the boys and friends at Playmakers for a really cool documentary called "Remaining Native". The boy went to Ale's house from there, while the adults went to a restaurant nearby to eat something and adult. It was fun. Then we got the boy and made it home. 

Overall, still trying to do 10-mi runs here and there, have been doing well with my strength workouts, and cooking, and just feeling well in general. We've watched some movies, Dances with Wolves comes to mind recently. The boy enjoyed it. I also started watching The Crown, seems good, though it is taking me a while because I'm also doing lots of fact-checking as I watch.