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He did not want to look at houses, not today, not tomorrow. He sat rigid in the car while his mother fairly skipped up to the broad porch with determined gusto. Jenness Granger’s ideas were not ones to take issue with often, but he was not about to meet her hard driving talks with dutiful agreement. In fact, there would be no further talk after he managed to endure monotonous views of house number three, the last. That made seven for the week and he was so done with it he might either scream into the leafy neighborhood or enter a fugue state and drift away.
Jax had thought about that second thing after his last therapy session. This somehow came up when he was informed he’d been experiencing some dissociation, as if he didn’t know that, vaguely. Who would want to feel the sorrow and guilt he felt? Then this other phenomenon was mentioned in passing, the fugue state, and he had looked it up later. How wonderful it would be to suddenly develop amnesia and take off to somewhere new, assume a different identity with no recollection of his past..until it was all over one way or another. He might be found or he’d have to come to grips suddenly–be jolted back to the old reality. Well, damn it, that was not going to work, was it? His exhausted reality is what he prefered to dissociate from.
He was stuck between a rock and a hard place so Jax eased his length from his mother’s champagne-colored sports car and loped up the sidewalk where she waited with the real estate agent. Eleanor Trent smiled and reached for his hand which he witheld; her bright nails flashed in the sunshine. Of course, Ellen knew he went on these viewings under duress but she worked for his mother at this time, so kept up the sales patter. Jax brushed by her, into the foyer. And tuned it all out.
Nothing could interest him less than house hunting with Jenness, the name (her given name) he’d called her since he was a teenager– at her behest when he called her Mother, too formal and icy, she said. So that was how it became: Leonard, his father, and Jenness. Parents to three sisters, also. Not the cozy, how-deeply-happy-we-are-with-you-all kind of parents, however. Raising a family was more akin to raising their thoroughbreds, which they did much better. He cared about horses but not the business. His sisters had other plans, decamped to Spain, New Zealand, Alaska. So Jax, still nearby, was the project Jenness decided to manage since she’d retired. Leonard, smart man, was busier than ever.
Correction: she’d decided to try and take hold of things since Marta was no longer in his life.
They wandered into the large dining room, through a kitchen that shone like all the kitchens did, and past a giant fireplace in the cathedral-ceilinged living room, and on and on. Why would he desire a house like others he’d lived in? Shared with the woman to whom he willingly gave his heart–who then somehow managed to shred it into fifty pieces before he even got close to being fifty? After the first couple of years each new year brought another ruination, another tiny murder. Or that’s how he had come to see it. Bitterly, angrily, then with cynical resignation.
It had taken alot longer than his friends, family and even a few his co-workers at Bellham International (where he was an industrial architect) to see it. To grasp the enormity of the fact that a liquid drug could cause so much havoc, then devastation. Emotional losses and a a near-financial crisis. When she got serious about drinking, Marta also liked to throw money away, she gambled alot, and not just on family race horses. When Marta hit bottom over and over, she entered not just fancy health spas (her first forays into sobriety) but treatment centers known for state-of-the art mental health and addiction programs, to bare bones state-run rehabs. Finally, jail for two DUIIs. Finally, prison for hit and run, a totaled car crash ending in a death. At death! here was nothing much left that might happen but her own complete demise, God forbid. She’d get out eventually. Maybe she would see the light while behind bars. He just couldn’t visit.
He knew she was gravely ill, had been a long while. But Jax was emtpied, done.
“Jax, are you noting this tasteful master shower? It has river rock flooring and walls, very appealing, isn’t it?”
He nodded vaguely, seeing Marta before him at a vanity, her shoulder-length dark hair glistening, carefully applying pink lipstick before a night out with friends. Laughing when he commented on her fine white towel attire. They must have been married about three years then; he’d wanted her to have her fun after her work as a research biologist.
So long ago sicen she was removed from his life and he filed for divorce. It had been a year. Long enough for him to move on. To sell that big echoey house. He’d ended up with Marta’s dog, giving it to a woman who loved whippets alot more than he ever did or could. Jax didn’t have that sort of constant caring in him, anymore.
“Look at that view, Jax, you can see the mountains clearly! This is a lap pool, too.”
They went outdoors, Jenness and Ellen chattering on. The pool water undulated, flashing gold and blue under the sunny sky. He ached. They used to swim before work and before bed so often in the beginning, and while she’d drunk herself into mayhem and stupors, he just kept right on swimming. Until he couldn’t dive in and tap into his power, anymore. No, he didn’t want a pool in his yard.
He abruptly turned away, feigned politeness. “Thank you so much, Ellen, for your time but this isn’t anything I’d buy with or without Jenness’s approval.”
“But it’s such a good price, dear, just small enough, you must consider it–“
“I am going to the car.” The edge to his words was clear. He was not interested. He didn’t want to act difficult with her–he just longed to hear his own musing, discover his plans. If he had any much of either.
He had to get away, breathe, let his mind–his being– empty. And no more Alanon for awhile, as helpful as it had been awhile: self examination; self care; sharing with others. He had to simply hear his own feelings and ideas without pressure or pretense.
He soon packed a bag and left a voice message for his parents: “Headed to the mountains, don’t worry, back in a week.”
They’d still expect him to hole up at the beach house on the other side of the range. He was going to sell that place, in fact. Jax was not the ocean person he’d thought; Marta had been a true beach nut. He preferred to hike in forests, mountains, and though she accompanied him, she loved to stroll along beaches, agate hunting. Those were better times…they seemed to help her tame the demons at first. In time, however, it became another scene of more crimes against heart, soul, body…
*****
Once embraced by the beauty of the mountains, he slept three days and nights in a slightly musty, bright, rented chalet. He awakened to use the bathroom or snack but mostly lay in bed or lounged on the orange plaid sofa, then fell alseep again and again. He’d worried about dreams, nightmares, but they were imbued with fewer signs of fear, anger, sadness, and ceased shortly. It was as if he’d put off complete slumbering until then. As if he’d been intent on staying awake, on task even more, figuring out a life as it was to be with her gone. Working harder despite not liking his job that much. Going through the motions of being a friend. A son.
He’d begun to isolate more. He’d sit on his deck inthe gathering dusk, watch the orange orb sink–so reliable– then light too big a fire and stare into flames as they hissed and crackled until nothing remained. He’d felt numb a long while. Even a glass or two of wine or a couple of beers did nothing to soothe or enliven.
Jax finally arose from the messy bed one morning and stretched deeply, every muscle in his body happy to be pulled and freed. He ran in place five mintues as he put bread in the toaster and heated water, and scrubbed his dirty hair with his knuckles-that was good enough for now–then went to the doorway. Flung it wide, stepped outside.
The vantage point offered a broad and deep view of the valley beneath a cliff. The walk to a four foot high wall offered rich piney coolness; he inhaled one last bit of air, let it out. It was fall and the sharp, clean hint of snow slipped through. The blue-green conifers all about him were lush, shadowed. He knew he could drive to a little store with gas pumps within four miles, but it felt like the edge of the world. And he leaned into it all. Birds were full of songs and chirps. Squirrels and rabbits were busy with winter prep, scurrying here and there. He thought a heavier critter crunched something but when he checked, he saw nothing.
He went in to make strong coffee, in a stove top coffee maker, and instant oatmeal, then carried them to a picnic table. He had little idea of the time, perhaps near noon–his old family analog watch was ticking away in the bathroom. It seemed as if he had escaped, and a shiver of relief and pleasure coursed through his lithe body.
A large Douglas’s greyish squirrel ran down a hemlock and up to the table, sitting on its haunches, sniffing about. It stared at Jax as he ate, chittering and chattering, then picking and poking earth for conifer seeds. He recalled the creatures from trips even long ago with his parents–when there was still time to go RVing on weekends. He’d enjoyed watching them, trying to decipher their fast talk, their crying out, and their agility to beat all.
His childhood was filled with family camping and hiking, playing tag or hide and seek among dense woodlands, roasting hot dogs over fire and making s’mores, fishing a little in rivers. They laughed more back then. They shared good times; they’d just lost the art of simple fun as time passed. Moneyed dreams and goals had taken over too much as the horse business grew yearly. And it had become part of his daily life as a youth, though he’d managed to not take the lead, even as his parents got older. No one wanted to take over for them, it was just such hard labor with variable outcomes–despite the success thus far. He knew it had been hard to accept. The ranch still did well, managed by others.
He mused about his life as he wandered about the forest, following a rough trail, careening his head to try to see tops of towering spruce, fir, hemlock and pine trees. How had Marta made alcohol her nemesis when it had started out easy, enjoyable? Oh, he knew all the facts about alcoholism and, too, that alcohol was a mysterious force that pulled some into its magnetic circle while others–like him–were not afflicted with its devastating entrancement. It hadn’t quite occurred to him that Marta was on the verge of drowning and when he finally saw it, he was almost helpless to save her. He had to do what she hated far more than he did–call in outside help. Over and over. Clean up the messes, try to save face for both, try to repair the gaping holes in the dam that had once protected their finances. Their whole lives.
The guilt of it all had piled atop mind and heart. It felt like a maze of fun house mirrors, reflecting shadowed or shiny lies, confusion and flashes of clarity, all of it making him sick with the need to remedy, to understand. Why, how, when, what? If he could have done more, sooner, better, how might things have turned out, instead?
But when a company holiday weekend at a grand hotel included Marta dancing wildly by herself to all the best numbers, then yanking off a tablecloth, laughing foolishly as she chattered nonsense, it felt like the very end. She broke multiple items of china and crystal due to that action. Marta was no longer entertaining when drunk, which was so often, nor was she even smart or attractive–and Jax knew that worse was ahead.
A co-worker had witnessed them both all week-end and pulled him aside.
“Hey Jax, we should talk. Like, would you consider coming with me to Alanon some time? The twelve steps can help partners stay sane while the alkies in their lives get what they need.” He put an arm about Jax briefly. “Trust me on this–have I steered you wrong at work? Well, life needs serious problem solving, as we know, and believe me I have been in your shoes.”
Jax glanced at the guy’s friendly, capable wife helping Marta up from the floor, then trying to guide her to a restroom. Marta’s green silky chemise had a side slit that was torn to her hip; her hair was a mess, her mascara running as she wept loudly. Everyone was watching with mouths open, and whispering. All he wanted was to rush off, get her upstairs and in bed, then pack up so they could leave before the sun rose. And what was his boss thinking?
Marta could not drink a drop, that was all there was to it. But she disagreed and tried every way she could think of to take longer “breaks”, go and get “dried out”, and then promised again to return to “far more sensible alcohol use, really, it can be done, I do know how to do it–you’ll see, darling Jax!”
Soon he found more secreted bottles of bourbon, vodka and rum, even tossed out the wine he no longer drank but that she’d inevitably drink if desperate. Pleading did nothing. Calling an ambulance worked when she fell down the stairs twice or passed out on the sidewalk in cold, wind-driven rain; and when security or an in-house doctor came after she refused to leave a five star hotel lounge when she was cut off and no one was left but Marta, ranting incoherently.
It killed him a little more each time she failed to keep herself healthy and safe. That he’d failed, too, though his rational mind told him it was not his doing.
Jax never got tired of inhaling nature-tinged breaths, his eyes taking in the greens of stately forest designs. Day after day he let his ears absorb a multitude of birdsongs; let his skin feel refreshment of brisk clean air; let his lips and tongue taste no words, only the salt of a few slow tears. He let them fall for the first time in months.
The waste of her lively, fascinating mind and lovely body hurt him as much as his own lingering wounds. But she had chosen to keep drinking. To drive when drunk.
He must make his own choices, better ones, each day.
He got his walking stick and backpack and followed one of several trails into the depths of wild land. The farther he hiked, feet navigating rutted earth or massive roots creeping this way and that, the stronger and clearer he always felt. He glimpsed a lovely doe feeding, then a buck, admiring the majestic antlers as he peered into the shade. The creature turned its head slowly toward him and gazed for a long few moments. Jax was spellbound as he always was, full of admiration for this royal resident…and then the two deer lept, front legs rising and falling, and ran off. Vanishing in a moment, it seemed they’d not been there…he kept looking.
And then he nearly stepped in a large pile of scat, not too dried out. He kenlt down and studied it. Yes. He gazed about, noted a couple of yards away an area of flattened bushes, vines. Hesitantly, he stepped forward and saw two tracks ahead with five toes and claw indentations. Not cougar, he guessed. Bear. The earth was hardened so a bear must have traversed there when it was still muddy, but when? Every inch of his body was set in quiet attentiveness, almost bordering on alarm. A branch moved against a tree with a scraping sound; there was a movement in the distance and then he saw it: a huge black bear with almost reddish fur.
It was standing up, but away from Jax, leaning toward a tree trunk, scratching bark. Tall, oh that bear was tall and heavy. Jax knew the giant would make short work of him if it was aggravated or enticed by him for some reason. He didn’t carry food. But if he ran…
So he breathed softly, backed up, commanded his legs to not get excited and do a runner backwards, only wanting both bear and himself to have no argument. Just to move along, have a fine afternoon. But the great bear was busy, leaving a message or sharpening claws–who knew?– and Jax kept going as steadily as he could. As he strode on, it began to vanish behind a shield of united trees, he turned and simply walked back to the chalet. He had only hiked about two and a half miles out. It felt long but was not; he was okay, and calm. As he covered more ground he realized how amazing it was to have seen a black bear doing what a bear does– minding its own business as Jax minded his. He knew they very seldom attacked, and are always foraging or looking for a female in nature’s right times. Berry gorging season was about over; soon that bear would find a den and settle in for the winter.
People who lived in the Northwest learned useful nature facts, but as Jax relaxed under pricks of starlight, he knew he’d learned something more. He couldn’t make progress if he was haunted by a hard past or hampered by fear of a changing life. If he felt unwilling or unable to take the pathways toward a life defined more by healthier experiences. And resultant authentic contentment. He had the power to free himself from the urge to give up, or stay in a rut, or lazily and blindly repeat errors. It was time to take charge of and be responsible for his life, alone. And to see all the good that was left to build upon, to discover.
Dusk, twilight, and darkness. Jax lay on the cold ground with a rolled blanket under his head. He recalled constellations of his youth that he had felt were heroic, mythic: Orion, Casseopeia, Ursa Major and Ursa Minor, for example, the last two being the Great Bear and Minor Bear, her son. He searched for a few more and was successful. He mainly wanted to gaze upwards, be happy in the glittering dark of a wilderness night. And he was.
When he returned home he’d tell Jenness and Leonard that, yes, he’d soon sell his old house and buy another. He hoped to more often work from his place if he could, or find another job, a new way. But it would be a mountain house, a good-sized, simple place. IT was what he longed–a clean, open, healing space after a life built on too much artifice that was fragmented by pain. It would have room enough, in time, for visitors. A few friends. And his family, whenever they could meet under mountain skies. He’d gather wildflowers, place them on the table each visit as a sign of love for them. And maybe one day he’d buy a horse, but no thoroughbred–just a reliable, beautiful companion for the trails.






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