”He ignored the signs. Now we hang a photo where he used to stand.”
It was a day like any other. The job seemed simple, the routine familiar. But a single oversight—a missing permit, a shortcut around PPE, a locked valve not checked—changed everything. In that moment, the rules that had been overlooked became painfully relevant. Someone didn’t make it home. A team member was left injured, or worse. The pain echoes through their family, their team, and our industry.
Takeaway: Housekeeping saves lives. Eliminate fire risks before they spark.
“It Was Just a Shortcut…” — But He Never Came Home LFI Summary: A technician decided to bypass a lock-out procedure to save 5 minutes. A sudden machine start-up cost him his life. ”He promised his daughter he’d be home for her recital. But that shortcut cost him everything. In HSE, shortcuts don’t save time—they steal futures.” Takeaway: Always follow procedure. One act of carelessness can cause a lifetime of pain. Hashtags: #HSE #SafetyFirst #NoShortcuts LifeMatters #LFISeries
I sat by this Lady on a bus. One of the prettiest sights I’ve seen. Fair, tall and slender. She had a butterfly tattoo on her arm, multiple rings on her finger, a nose ring, double ear piercings and a leg Chain. She wore a hot shot skirt and a crop top.
Sincerely, I submit, she was indeed beautiful and highly attractive. Everyone who saw her will stare twice.
But nobody took her serious.
With her looks people already judged her from afar.
She may not be who she presented herself to be.
But most times, books are judged by their Covers.
Your packaging is as important as the content you Carry.
God has never and will never stop working through signs. Through signs, one is able to clearly understand the will and purpose of God for their life with regard to the choice of a marriage partner.

With signs however, one has to exercise wisdom and lots of great caution to ensure that the enemy does not take advantage of their thoughts and emotions. If you have walked with God for years, then it is easy to deal with God on the platform of signs. If you are a new believer, this is a path you should dread. The enemy is always a master of manipulation in this area if one of not experienced.
The presence of an inner witness
The bible is clear that the Spirit of God bears witness with our spirit man. Anytime you want to confirm that the voice you heard and the instruction you received is from God, listen to know whether there is a witness within your spirit.

Does your spirit agree with the spirit of God from deep within you. If there is no witness within you, then God is probably not into the decision you are about to make. When there is an inner witness within your spirit, there is a part of you that will either agree or disagree with the decision you are about to make. The secret is just to be sensitive and you will know whether or not your spirit and the spirit of God are in agreement.
The peace of God will overwhelmed you after the decision

Have you received peace after saying yes to that proposal? Do you still still apart of you is not into the relationship and you’re only buy forcing yourself? If there is one definite attribute of God thing He is not an author of confusion. There is no way God will allow you to get married to someone or marry someone and not give you the peace of mind. If you haven’t received peace, then it’s probably a clear sign you are all alone and God is not into the whole idea.
The feeling of being complete and not drained

Is that relationship building you up or draining all your energy? God knows that a relationship should build you up and God will bring to you a person that compliments you and not the other way round. God is not into the relationship if all it does is draining all your energy.
You will not be forced and love will naturally flow

God will not force you into doing things that are not of your desire. God is not that wicked. God will not force you to marry someone you don’t want. If God is in the relationship, the chemistry will be natural and not forced to work.
People that fear God will support the union
The moment you notice everyone is against your marriage especially people that have a right standing with God, then there is a problem. If God is in the union, He will have a few people who will see it from God’s perspective. Opposition should not just be taken lightly, when many men and women of God are against your union, try and find out what the problem is from God.
I give all Glory to God that has once again reaffirmed my Covenant of long life with him.
I was on my way to Benin from Lagos (a 5hours drive, in Nigeria) on the 6th of January, 2020 and on getting to Ore (mid way) at about 2pm, our vehicles had a busted tyre with a loud bang. The next thing I saw was the vehicle drifting off the road and started overturning. At that point two things came to my mind, we serve a God who is too faithful to fail, the second was Psalms 34:20. He keepeth all his bones : not one of them is broken. Then I blanked out. When I would open my eyes, I saw myself on the hospital bed crying that I was thirsty and that the right hand had pulled out from the shoulder socket. Already 3people had died from the same accident. The nurses were telling me to keep quiet that if I don’t reach out to anyone to come for me before 5pm, they would close and leave me there. By this time it was already abt 4pm. I heard them whispering to each other that I won’t survive the next 1hour, because I had bled internally and lost alot of blood. I kept telling myself I cannot die now. I still got work to do. And when the closest person my family could reach came, it was already about 5pm, they told him to rush me to a teaching hospital in akure, another 2hours drive away.
We finally got to this teaching hospital at abt 7pm of which they checked my PCV (blood level) and said it was 13% and immediately ordered for 3pints of blood for me. But I knew the blood of Jesus can never run dry, so my blood cannot fail. After they gave the first pint of blood, they checked again, this time it had jumped from 13% to 32% and we had to abandon the other 2pints of blood for them because I had no need for them.
Again I remembered I have an agreement with God that I will never stay in the hospital except on visit. Within 3days, on the 3rd day of the incident I was discharged but referred to UBTH bcos of its proximity in Benin, my current location. On getting there the Doctor checked the work they had already done on the hand and said there was no need for me to be admitted, that I should go home and keep taking my medication. Now I’m healed and whole the Same Jesus who rescued me from death, increased my PCV from 13 to 32% and discharged me on the 3rd day had granted me quick recovery. My hand is fine and well, and I’m whole. With that hand that pulled out from the shoulder socket have I typed this testimony.
My God can do anything, if only you can believe!!!
Timothy Okojie Goshen.
These are photos from the second day. Thank you Jesus.
Small minds are self centered in every thing and at all times.
Small mind thinks of what it will gain while great mind thinks of whom and who will benefit.
He is people and communal focused in his plans.
You can never miss your personal rewards for as long as you are mindful of people’s benefit
Thinking of self is settling for less.
Thinking of others is going beyond others.
When you are occupied with thinking about others, you will end up becoming greater than them all in all probability.
When you think of the wellbeing of a people, you’re likely to end as their leader.
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