
“I get kissed and hugged every day by a beautiful woman that tells me 10 times a day how much she loves having me around.”

“I get kissed and hugged every day by a beautiful woman that tells me 10 times a day how much she loves having me around.”
It’s December 8 and the thermometer at 6 AM reads 14°. Last night I heard the snow plow go by twice on the main road. Looks like three inches of new powder, which I have to clean off the windshield of my truck, not enough to call the plow guy to scrape down my driveway.

My daily I Ching reading was hexagram 16: Contentment. The interpretation ( Deming, Everyday I Ching), read like this: You depend on Sage advisors. You concur on everything with them. No major problems are indicated. Keep on your toes. If you’re passionate interested in achieving something, your enthusiasm will attract others and win their cooperation. Consider the power of music to influence others. Music has the ability to move and inspire people and bring them together and it has always been a part of religious ceremonies. Creating harmony with other people depends on understanding what matters to them.
I just received the call from my friend Steve whose driveway is two miles away. He lives in the back woods close to a mile off the main road on 150 acres. Steve needs some help today getting a barn door repositioned and asked me if I could come up as he can’t move it himself.
I welcome the invitation because it allows me to structure my morning. I will clean my truck off. Steve’s request is a good excuse to pair going into Camden (9 miles) to lift weights at the YMCA for 45 minutes then stop at the library to pick up a book:

Then I’ll head up to Steve’s on Moody Mountain to get there about 11:15.
The rest of the afternoon day will be mine hopefully to spend at least an hour on working on a new watercolor painting.

Then I plan to practice my accordion in preparation for a weekly open mic night tomorrow at the American Legion Hall that I’ve been frequenting.

I am grateful that I am able to face the day with meaningful activities, some of which might enable me to transcend to darkening night of my winter retreat.


Tuesday, December 2 @ 6:30 pm – 7:30 pm
Tom Jamrog will discuss physical and mental preparations for longer hikes and share knowledge about adaptations in modern equipment that will assist aging hikers with their own experience of extended engagement in nature.
This program will take place at the Camden, Maine Public Library on Tuesday, December 2 at 6:30 p.m. in the Picker Room.
Tom is the 278th person to have completed unsupported thru-hikes of the Appalachian (AT), Pacific Crest (PCT), and Continental Divide Trails (CDT), and was awarded the “Triple Crown of Hiking” by the American Long Distance Hiking Association-West. He is a Licensed Maine Guide and past President of the Maine Association of School Psychologists.
Tom recently completed his fifth backpacking adventure through Maine’s 100-Mile Wilderness (the northernmost, remote, and last segment of the Appalachian Trail from Monson to Katahdin.) In April of 2025 he backpacked a 260-mile portion of the Arizona National Scenic Trail.

Tom will also have signed copies of his book for sale, In the Path of Young Bulls: An Odyssey on America’s Continental Divide Trail, detailing his unsupported, five-months-long, 2,500 mile trek over the Rocky Mountains from Mexico to Canada.
At 75, I’m still breaking personal records (PRs) on Strava—and half the time it has happened on days I almost stayed home.
After decades of hiking and biking outdoors and the Triple Crown of Hiking behind me, you’d think my PRs would dry up. But consistency, smart (longer) recovery, and my love for the feel of lateral acceleration move my “go” needle.
You don’t need to be young to get faster. It might be enough to just keep showing up.
Here’s to surprising ourselves—one ride, one hike, one segment at a time.

I’m not racing anyone but my past self.
And some days, I’m still catching him.
You don’t have to be young to improve.
Keep showing up.

Your next PR might be waiting on your next walk or ride.

Water came up again in my morning in my daily I Ching reading—number 47; an image of a lake without water.

I’m counseled to accept this situation. Not to give up hope, but to ride out the bad times until things get better. To hold on to a faith that things will improve. A positive attitude will be my greatest ally in dealing with the fluctuating levels of water in my well. I am counseled to remain in faith and hope, when everything seems to be disintegrating.
The Crisis: In the past month only 2.5 inches of rain have fallen at my house.

Although that has brought some relief to the severe drought that has plagued the mid-coast area of Maine over the Summer and Fall, I was totally shocked yesterday to lift open the concrete well cover to find 8 feet of water in my shallow well! (The bottom of well itself is only 11 feet below the surface of the ground.)
Two weeks ago, my well went dry when the foot valve at the end of the 1-inch plastic pipe became exposed.

I was forced to go to the laundromat to wash my clothes. And to wade into Levenseller Pond with 20-gallons worth buckets and pails to garner enough water to get me through the week. I belong to the local YMCA, so I took up showering there. I found paper plates and bowls to cut down on my washing of dishes. No one appreciates the convenience of opening a faucet to obtain hot running water until there is zero water in your pipes.
Signs of Recovery: One factor that may have helped restore my well was that my tenant, who was living in my basement apartment since April just moved to a larger rental he’ll now be sharing with his girlfriend.
Understanding the Science: Air temperature is the key player in reducing evaporation rates, including shorter days and lower sun levels in New England. Summer evaporation rates can run 5 to 10 times higher than winter rates in many areas of North America. Cooler temperatures and shorter days in the Fall significantly reduce evaporation compared to summer months. Combined with the recent rain and reduced water usage my tenant moving out, these factors likely all contributed to my well’s recovery
Looking Ahead: This is really good news, however, this spring or summer I plan to have a deep well drilled that will mitigate the chance that I’ll be without water in the future. Also son Lincoln has been advising me to invest in a traditional drilled well.
Shallow wells are vulnerable to seasonal fluctuations and drought conditions, so, having a more reliable water source will provide me real peace of mind. A drilled well typically reaches much more stable water tables that aren’t as affected by surface conditions and weather patterns.
Full Circle: So, the I Ching reading I received—the image of a lake without water, with counsel to maintain faith and hope during difficult times—seems particularly apt for my situation. I’ve lived through exactly that metaphor, forcing alternative actions for two weeks, when I retained a positive attitude and implemented practical problem-solving.
I just received a phone call from a well drilling service that let me know that his company has successfully drilled a half dozen wells close to my property. He sending me an estimate. I am taking steps to ensure more stability going forward, which is both pragmatic and hopeful!
Two days , I witnessed something that seems almost impossible in today’s construction world: five Amish craftsmen from Hiram, Maine, drove two hours to my property here in Lincolnville , Maine, and completely build and make weathertight my 24’ x 32’ barn in just three hours—including a lunch break.
The crew arrived with everything meticulously planned. Their large flatbed trailer carried not just the 19 custom trusses they’d manufactured, but all the additional materials needed to complete the job. What impressed me most was their foresight: most materials were pre-cut and ready to install, eliminating guesswork, measurement and trimming lumber and metal panels, and wasted time on site.
Here is a photo of what I have built in the past two weeks, with the help of two friends:

No Boom Truck? No Problem.
Amish craftsmen had assembled and erected the 19 twenty four feet wide trusses, using ingenious techniques that made expensive machinery unnecessary. Working with gasoline-powered chainsaws and compressed air tools driven by a propane motor—their electricity-free alternatives to conventional power tools—they moved with precision and purpose. Their circular saws and nail guns, all powered by compressed air, proved just as effective as any electric equipment.
As you can see from the photos below, their process was both methodical and efficient.
A 24’ truss being raised by hand—no boom truck needed
Fearless and Skilled
Perhaps most astounding was watching these men work at heights. Two members of the crew appeared to be teenagers, yet they moved across the 6” wide narrow wall plates—exceeding 20 feet in the air—with the balance and confidence of seasoned professionals. They wore no safety harnesses or protective equipment, relying instead on skill, focus, and generations of handed-down expertise. Their fearlessness wasn’t recklessness; it was mastery.


A Different Way of Working
Since the Amish don’t drive, they hire transportation to carry them, their materials, and their tools to job sites. On days like this, when they’re working far from their home community, the driver stays to assist with the work. It’s a fascinating collaboration between traditional craftsmanship and modern logistics.
The Result
By day’s end, my barn stood complete with a full metal roof and drip edge, and workmanship that exceeded anything I could have hoped for. The attention to detail, the efficiency, and the sheer skill on display left me thoroughly impressed.


Next up- siding, doors, windows.
October 27, 2025
Today’s IChing is welcomed. I need it. :
#2 Earth.
Creating success from the source, harvest in the constancy of a mare.
A noble one has a direction to go.
At first: confusion. Later: gains a lord.
Fruitful in the southwest, gaining partners.
In the northeast, losing partners.
Peaceful constancy brings good fortune.’
What does this all mean?
From Hillary Barrett , “I Ching: Walking your path, creating your future”
“The noble one has a direction to go. He has an objective in mind, but is still in search of the best way to reach it. He wants something to serve – a person, an idea(l), something that will allow his strength to be used to the full.
This introduces the idea of ‘direction to go’ for the whole oracle; the next line defines it…
At first confusion: seeing possibilities ahead as many as scattered rice-grains. Losing your bearings as if enchanted. Earth supports all possibilities – this doesn’t make for clear starts.
But later, maybe just because you’ve set yourself in motion regardless of the confusion, you gain a lord (the character shows a lit lamp – a light-person, a guide) and harvest.
Primary meaning: to have a direction to go means things gradually clarify. At first you open to all kinds of input, and eventually this allows the beacon/guidance to appear, and the path comes into focus.
Like confusion first, lord afterwards. Maybe your individual sense of distinctive purpose emerges after you join and work with like-minded people.
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In feng shui the SW is considered the area of the house representing partnership and is recommended for the master bedroom, whereas the opposite direction, the NE is the area for the single person and makes a good den or private study.
Also, the idea of making progress with the “constancy of a mare” could be emphasizing the need for letting things take their time as in advice to let things evolve slowly, no need to make a snap decision.
“All matter is merely energy condensed to a slow vibration” – Einstein.
I note the reference to moving slowly like a mare and Einstein saying that reality is energy slowed down.
I am shaken awake today by the presence of darkness and cold this morning. Since my well went dry last week I am still learning how to deal with less water and feel the lack of piping hot water coming easily out of the faucet of my kitchen sink. Everything is harder now, especially when the dirty supper dishes in the are left unwashed in the sink and I have to scoop water out of 5 gallon buckets and heat it up in order to loose. The crusty bits that cling to my dishes and pans.
My best friend Edward and I check in with each other at 6:30 am every day via a phone call. He suggested that I generate my day by turning on my propane hot air furnace (it’s 40 degrees out ) and also start a fire in my wood stove that will take over the heating of the house.


All of this reminds me that I have to crank up my little tractor, hook up the dump cart and get going on moving three cords of split cut hardwood under cover to use this winter.

Right now it’s just in three piles drying in the sun ( and getting wet when it rains) but this years extreme drought conditions has allowed the uncovered piles to remain dry.
I plan to read David Hinton’s Wild Mind, Wild Earth while sitting by the warm stove and drinking coffee this AM.

The I start a new painting. I finished this one yesterday:


As of this week, my well went dry. With a few days of rain predicted it is possible that my twelve foot deep well will recharge but the race against the freezing ground surface will likely shut off my chances of easy access to water. It’s never gone dry in 47 years.
I need to drill a deep well but the demand is so great that my best hope so far is to have a well drilled in the spring. Long wait lists.
Posted below is yesterday’s Bangor Daily News on the severity of the current Maine coastal drought.
“Numerous rivers in eastern and northern Maine have dropped to record low levels this month or are approaching them as the driest conditions in the state in more than 20 years keep getting worse.
Bodies of water are low in Aroostook, Penobscot and Washington counties, the National Weather Service’s Caribou office said Sunday.
Below the surface, groundwater is also depleted. Wells are running dry around the state, with the 439 reported so far easily outpacing numbers from recent years, including Maine’s last drought in 2022, when 95 wells went dry, according to data reported to the state.
Conditions are now drier than Dixmont-based well driller Trevor Gould or his father, who started in the business in 1972 but is now retired, can remember.
“He’s amazed how dry it is, I’m amazed how dry it is,” the younger Gould said, describing dirt that feels like powder in dug trenches and is as impermeable as concrete at the surface. “It’s ridiculous.”
Almost 75 percent of the state is now in severe or extreme drought after the sixth driest summer on record, according to the National Drought Monitor, and the rest — primarily northern counties — is in moderate drought. Nearly all of Oxford, Franklin, Waldo, Hancock and Washington counties are in extreme drought, according to the site.
The Upper St. John River in Aroostook County, the St. Francis River along the New Brunswick border and the Mattawamkeag River in Penobscot County are seeing the lowest flows since records have been kept, which range from 73 to 90 years for those bodies of water, according to the weather service.
So are the north branch of the Penobscot River in Rockwood, near Quebec, and Libby Brook in Northfield, though records there don’t go back as far, the service said.
Nearly the entire Piscataquis River is close to its lowest flow in 123 years of recorded history, as is the Penobscot River at West Enfield, though it is heavily controlled by a dam.
In Cherryfield, the Narraguagus River is also approaching its lowest flow in 77 years, according to the weather service. That has reduced fish passage and access to habitat for young Atlantic salmon, the Department of Marine Resources reported to the state drought task force earlier this month.
Below the surface, hundreds of wells have gone dry around the state; 55 percent of Mainers used private wells for their drinking water in 2023, according to the latest state data available. A voluntary site run by the Maine Emergency Management Agency listed 439 dry wells this year as of Monday. The majority are in Oxford County, followed by Somerset, Franklin and Cumberland counties.
That data is self-reported and depends on people knowing about the site, the drought task force said earlier this month, so it is possible that the problem has been more widespread than the data on the site suggests.
But companies that drill deep wells, in place of shallower dug ones, are facing more demand for their services this season. Carmel Well Drilling, which serves greater Bangor and beyond, has seen a 30 to 40 percent increase in calls this year from people who are out of water or running dry, according to owner Kevin Holland.
The company is seeing a large volume of work that he also attributes in part to a shortage of water well drillers.
A new drilled well can range from $6,000 to $12,000, several Bangor-area drillers said.
Maine’s most recent major drought was in 2001 and 2002, when around 17,000 private wells dried up, crops suffered millions of dollars of damage and eventually millions of dollars worth of upgrades were spent on water mains and connection points, according to the National Integrated Drought Information System.
Rainfall is predicted in northern and eastern Maine this week, but isn’t expected to make a dent in drought conditions, according to the weather service; it would take 10 to 15 inches of slow, steady rain to do that before the ground freezes.”

I Ching #2 – The Receptive- I am counseled today to draw on my intuition. It represents an inner source of wisdom which can assist guiding me in the direction I need to go. Even though I will have many feelings about completing this journey I’d like to carve some space out of the day to reflect on my experience which may help me understand what I really needing and feel should follow.
Today I crossed over to Holy Island to reach my lodging at The Ships Inn in Lindisfarne. It was a glorious day.
This small island is connected to the mainland by a mile and a half causeway that becomes submerged for most of the 12 hour period between high and low tides here. There are few pedestrians, making the crossing nerve wracking as the road is quite narrow, and the weedy shoulders are often completely soaked or graced with puddles that the walker is forced to cross when cars are crowding the blacktop. Tide charts are placed at either the end of the Causeway which need to be closely observed. Today’s crossing started at 10:30 AM and my timing was right in allowing me to take my first steps on the roadway without a wait.

My friend Joel and Michelle decided to take the pedestrian route seriously and remove their boots and to walk across the cold and wet sand for a mile and a half


Holy Island is one of Europe’s most famous Christian places and it has a wealth of sites that relate to its eventful history. St Cuthbert’s name and life inspired the building of the Lindisfarne Priory which began in about 1120.

There is also a castle which was ordered to be built by Henry VIll as Holy Island held great strategic importance centuries ago.

Lindisfarne Castle is a fortress built around 1550 using stones from the nearby dissolved Lindisfarne Priory. It was originally constructed as a fort to defend the harbor against Scottish raids. The castle sits dramatically atop a rocky outcrop called Beblowe Crag, connected to the mainland by a causeway that becomes impassable at high tide twice daily.
The island was the cradle of Christianity in Anglo-Saxon England, home to Saint Cuthbert and other notable figures. The famous Lindisfarne Gospels were created at the original monastery here.
I was stunned to learn that Country Life magazine’s founder, Edward Hudson, was able and wealthy enough to have bought the uninhabited and neglected castle in 1901, He hired Edwin Lutyens, the leading architect of his day to renovate the castle and make it available to Hudson and his family to entertain friends and business associates over the period of ownership which lasted approximately 20 years The castle is now a part of the National Trust. 
I took the tour of the castle and was most powerfully impressed the quality of the work that have been done and what must’ve been the experience of being able to live live there on a day-to-day basis, high above the vast vast sweep of ocean and shore front surrounding this palace .

Interior photographs follow:




View toward the mainland
I’m thrilled to have experienced such a memorable week-long trek through Scotland. Although I was prepared to brave any precipitation—which is expected in September—my umbrella and rain gear never left my day pack, as I was fortunate with the weather. I met wonderful traveling companions when I needed them most. All the logistical arrangements were flawless, from the daily transport of my luggage to my pub and B&B reservations. Most meaningfully, I experienced a profound spiritual connection by physically carrying Marcia’s presence with me each day, and I was able to lay part of her to rest in a powerful glen here in her ancestral homeland.
