Many a times God puts us in a situation where we Have to be defensive… Goodness and honesty gets defeated There..!

(Feels like God is punishing for my sins by putting these ones in my life….)

                😦 😦

There are some too MEAN PEOPLE…..with whom love, affection, true warmth just doesn’t work…!!

The first step we take is to avoid that one…

◆But everyone is not lucky enough to get rid of them◆

What to do
》 when you can’t avoid an evil…??
》when it is compulsory to deal with that one?? no matter how you feel….!!

Tit for tat is the only option left….

¤ Do not hesitate to behave the same..
    It is ok to point out his/her shortcomings….make sure you are not lying…!

¤ That one doesn’t deserve sympathy..
      Obviously lack of sympathy for an abuser is commplleetly natural and OK….!! No need to feel guilty…

¤Not to become the same
     Remember that you ARE NOT DEFENSIVE by nature…don’t be an EVIL.!!!! Its just your compulsory task…

¤Anger is natural…
     It the biggest challenge to keep calm when dealing with an abuser….ITS OK If you get angry often…focus on calmness…

¤Don’t loose hope
     Believe me…only truth wins at the end….If you are not having bad intention …U will win for sure…

¤Remember..its not your choice
       Do not feel guilty for behaving like ENEMY…it is only with that one…. with good ones you are not defensive…..its his/her choice….not yours….!! 😦

¤Stay good…
     Here you just need to BEHAVE mean….but make sure you don’t become one…

¤Pray to God
     If you are GOOD AT HEART,  it will be the MOST difficult task for you to ‘Behave without empathy’….. Ask the almighty God for the energy…

   → It is always PAINFUL to live life as if fighting a battle…..
  But trust me…. for some people it is inevitable…Juat be with yourself..
 
MAKE SURE YOU ARE NOT LOOSING YOUR GOODNESS….KEEP YOUR SWEETNESS SAFE…
  
     Wish you a confidant life…! 🙂