L. Dwight Turner
If we aspire to live an incarnational lifestyle, the starting point must be with Jesus. Jesus gives us the perfect prototype for incarnational living. We can learn so much for studying the life of the Master and through the blessings of the age in which we live, we have so many resources at our very fingertips that such study can be as broad and as deep as we wish. However, there is one caveat – one central fact that we have to understand and act on before we can become immersed in our study of the incarnational lifestyle of Jesus Christ. The central fact we must address and internalize may come as a surprise, but if you are a renegade, a radical, and a ragamuffin, it should not catch you off guard. If we want to truly become incarnational Christians we must:
Forget everything we have ever been taught about Jesus Christ.
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To this you were called, because Christ suffered for you, leaving you an example, that you should follow in his steps. [1 Peter 2:21]
Follow my example, as I follow the example of Christ. [1 Cor. 11:1]
Jesus boldly commanded his listeners to take up their crosses and follow him. In the scriptural passages above, both Peter and Paul stress our divine calling to emulate the example of Jesus. This goes far deeper than the “What Would Jesus Do?” teaching of a few years ago. What Jesus, Peter, and Paul are telling us is that we not only need to behave in the ways that Jesus did, we need to become the type of person Jesus was.
Although this teaching may seem a bit overwhelming, it is what it is. Just because something seems exceedingly difficult for us to pull off; just because something seems beyond the pale of possibility for us to achieve – does not mean that the Master really didn’t mean what he said, or perhaps meant something else. To assume such a thing, and believe me, many Christians believe just that, is a mistake of tragic proportions. So right here from the get go know this: Jesus, Peter, Paul, and the Apostle John all meant exactly what they said about these things. There are no hidden, arcane Gnostic secrets here. We are to work diligently to become the kind of person Jesus was and is.
Michael Frost, in his wonderful book entitled, Exiles, says that in emulating Jesus in living an incarnational lifestyle, we should begin by following his attitudes regarding the world and the ego. Frost says we begin with a pair of principles that helped Jesus inaugurate and perpetuate his mission. These principles involve his ongoing commitment to identification and relinquishment.
…to follow Jesus’ example means that we should share his profoundly humble identification with sinful humankind. Second, those of us who wish to emulate Jesus should be aware of his equally humble willingness to empty himself and make himself nothing for the sake of God’s redemptive purposes…..
Back in the mid-90’s I was involved in the development and implementation of a radical and innovative program to address the issue of homelessness in Dade County, Florida. Appropriately named Community Partnership for Homeless, Inc. – our goal was to open three “Homeless Assistance Centers” at strategic locations in the Metro Miami area. As the group’s name implies, the concept of partnership was at the core of the entire project. One such partnership was between CPHI and the local faith community. Local churches signed on to provide meals for the residents of the Homeless Assistance Center and, in addition to providing and preparing the meal, would also serve the food.
The various churches were an integral part of the success of the homeless project and continue to make positive contributions in the present. I noticed several interesting things as I often welcomed the church members to the center and helped them get started in the kitchen. Often, these volunteer cooks, servers, and dishwashers served out of a genuine heart of love. Their actions spoke of a real sense of partnership with Jesus, the Master they gladly served. The expressions on their faces, the tones of their voices, and even the way they carried themselves all flowed easily from a genuine heart of Christian compassion.
Other groups, however, seemed to have a more mixed bag of motives. Rather than exhibiting behaviors consistent with a heart-felt desire to be servants of the Light, these folks seemed like something less sublime was spurring them on. Conversations with these Christians, most of them well-meaning and genuine, often revealed that they were serving out of feelings of pity, condescension, and even guilt. The difference between these believers and those described in the preceding paragraph was both drastic and noticeable. You can imagine which group had the more positive interactions with the residents. Further, those who brought a genuine heart of proactive compassion to the kitchen and dining room were more likely to gain the trust and the ears of those residents who desired assistance in finding a meaningful relationship with God.
Experience in a wide variety of service settings has consistently revealed that feelings like pity, guilt, and other negative emotions toward the recipients of Christian service provides little in the way of positive impact. Conversely, these feelings tend to create what we in the field of sociology term “barriers of resistance” on the part of those receiving assistance. Again, let’s listen to Michael Frost:
Pity, condescension, or paternalism misses the mark; only a compassion that acts is acceptable in incarnational ministry.
Frost then goes on to list four central aspects of the incarnational Christian witness:
An active sharing of life, participating in the fears, the frustrations, and afflictions of the host community. (Here it should be noted that for Frost, we Christians now live in a post-Christian world and we are therefore “exiles.” The culture at large is the “host community.”)
- An employment of the language and thought forms of those with whom we seek to share Jesus.
- A preparedness to go to the people, not expecting them to come to us.
- A confidence that the gospel can be communicated by ordinary means, through acts of servanthood, loving relationships, good deeds; in this way the exile becomes an extension of the incarnation in our time.
Frost’s third point is perhaps the most telling and the most crucial. The Body of Christ can no longer afford to remain aloof from the struggles of the real world and the all-too-real people who live in it. We must go out to these people because they are not going to come to us. More to the point, we need to go to these people because that is exactly what Christ did. Again, the Master set us the perfect example of what it is we are to do as “Followers of the Way.”
The old Bob Dylan song repeats the refrain, “The times, they are a’changin’.” Indeed they are my friend and more significantly, they already have.
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